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Posted: 12 years ago
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I watch this drama on and off and only recently started watching it again because of the storyline of who killed nani. Adi had a right to know the truth, I mean he would have been more angry if later on in life he found out the whole family kept this truth from him. And then Avantika really ticked me off. In the beginning didn't she treat Adi like an employee. It was only after Adi and Pankhudi got married did Avantika open her eyes and see that everything does not revolve around her. Now she decides to make it crystal clear that Adi is her son and no one else has the right to make decisions for him. She didn't even let Pankhudi finish any of her sentences. Im getting really annoyed with how indian dramas portray the mothers. Are their sons still little babies who need to hold onto their mother and have her do everything for them and make decisions for them? Now Avantika is back to her "me, me, me" phase. Poor Pankhudi she doesn't even have the right to even take her own husband out.
Now by me saying this you guys may have different opinions but this is why I wouldn't like staying in a joint family, everyone gets into everyones business, theres no privacy and according to this drama (im not saying this happens in every joint family) you can't do anything for yourself, you have to ask permission from you MIL in order to go out with your husband. Avantika needs to butt out and let Pankhudi the wife take care of him. Yes she's the mother but she needs to back off a bit. Im half expecting her to shout "HE IS MINE" and pounce on Pankhudi. I really want Pankuhdi to just one day stand in the middle of the room and shout really loudly so everyone can hear what she really wants to say and no one can interrupt her.
Adi is an adult and can make decisions himself. Right now he's vulnerable and needs someone to guide him to make the right decisions to get him out of this so called guilt he feels. Instead there are people preying on his vulnerability instead of helping.

Whooo rant over with. This has been on my mind since the I saw the episode and just had to get it out 😉

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Posted: 12 years ago
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You're not the only one.

I wanted to reach inside my TV and give Avantika a big slap. For a clever business woman she is making a mountain of a molehill.

Hated her behaviour yesterday but even more mad at Pankhuri...there are times she is loud and bold and times when she is meek as a mouse. Really she needs to stand up especially now. Adi is her husband and she needs to make this clear to Avantika.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I totally agree with you! Avantika needs to back up and Pankhuri needs to stand up for herself, otherwise no one will ever listen to her :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yeah pankhu needs to do that now..!! avantika's behavior is seriously not expected yaar..:( means is a educated women she should think all the directions.. n pankhu really needs to come out now..!! she too have right on his husband.. n how could avantika forget pankhu has always done best for her family so how can she behave like this.. n she knows that adi always listens to pankhu's advice..she has always been adi's strength..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Avantika's behaviour resembles the behaviour of an uneducated women from a backwater, who tries to control everyone and everything in her family. Like that dumb vicious women in the "Lamp and Wick" show who disgusts me so much I never watch that show. But my aunt does, so I know a bit about it. She is despicable! Her mindset is of someone who has had NO education or exposure in her life! You can't expect better from a stupid and backward women like her!

But Avantika? Who used to head a major corporation? We have to expect lines like "he is my son, I make all the decisions for him"! "You can't take my son out of the house without my permission" etc...tomorrow she will make a huge drama of the fact that he came down to meet Sameer's parents as well? Coz Avantika thought that he should "rest", but Pankhu convinced him to come down?? Get real!!

This plot is entirely stupid, and I expected better from the makers of PKD. But the story has lost it's essence anyway. Now I actually enjoy watching Preeti and Sameer scenes the most. Looking forward to their track!

But Avantika... OMG! Pathetic! Since when did a wife have to get permission from anyone to make a decision on behalf of her husband or to take him out of the house? I understand avantika's concern. But her behaviour and attitude in dealing with this issue is more in par with some dumb village women than a sophisticated and professional city women!!

VERY disappointed!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Very well said :)
I do agree with everything you said !! I was infact disgusted with Avantika's behaviour towards Pankhu what is this !? If you ask me I feel Avantu went over Board with what she was saying to Pankhu ! It was bang out of order ... She was basically saying "he's my son I know what's best for him you don't your nothing to him ill rule his life you stay out of it " ... Avantu your son is an adult he is married now he is responsible he is mature now he doesn't need a dummy or a spoon feeder ! I know Avantika's he is her son but it was Pankhu who changed Adi who made him the person he is today he has two very important women in is lives both he loves and both have different responsibilities .. And What Pankhu did I'm totally with her everything she is doing I agree with she did the right thing. Sooner or later Adi would have heard this from Rubal and then he would have got angry also .. So it's best it came from Pankhuri I just don't know why Avantu has reacted in such a way truly shocked !! " mother is more superior then a wife " I can't believe she would say something like that :/ poor Pankhuri she has to ask her mother in law permission for her and her husband to even breath wow !! this reminds me of back a day ! We're not moving forward Avantika's thinking has travelled way way back to the olden days ! -.-

I just really hope Pankhu stands her ground she is a strong women but she gets undermined by Avantu!

& Adi forgod sake Avantika will you need to go to the toilet with him as well is Adi a baby no !? Yes he's sensitive yes he keeps things in and won't share his problems but just let him cry let him let it all out he needs to face it and from then he can get better no point not letting him do anything he's a man !!

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