Sanchi's marriage

A few posts in the forum made me think about relationships and suitablility. In the current track, everybody hates Sanchi. If people are against Jagya-Sanchi match, they think Sanchi is not suitable for Jagya. People are angry with Shekhars because they seem to bow down to Sanchi's zid. Perhaps even Anandi thought that Jagya does not need a wife like Sanchi, and not Sanchi does not need a husband like Jagya.

Originally posted by: SPuja

A few posts in the forum made me think about relationships and suitablility. In the current track, everybody hates Sanchi. If people are against Jagya-Sanchi match, they think Sanchi is not suitable for Jagya. People are angry with Shekhars because they seem to bow down to Sanchi's zid. Perhaps even Anandi thought that Jagya does not need a wife like Sanchi, and not Sanchi does not need a husband like Jagya.

Creatives like to highlight the charecter of good person by showing simultaneously a bad antagonist. Sanchi is to Ganga what Gauri was to Anandi. To me, it is the ghisa-pita thing and does not give anybody to think about relationships.

i agree with u..this is the same ghisa pita thing CVs r showing...

Sanchi belongs to modern well-to-do family, she is educated and unmarried. Still she is considered unfit to marry Jagya (who married twice, and had so many shortcomings of charecters (drunken brawls, cheating, misrepresentation of facts in court, two court cases still pending agaist him etc.) because Sanchi is selfish, egoistic, bratty, nasty, immature, does not repect elders etc.

when jaggya cheated anandi or insulted his parents or asked for property's share or drank & misbehave with gauri...no one supported him in this forum! yes, people used to support gauri but i can't remember if anyone here supported that jaggya! at present people r liking him bcoz he is a changed person now...he has realized his mistakes & came back to his family...but at present can we consider saanchi as a good eprson?...i think saanchi is not a good match for any matured, calm person! she doesn't care for anybody..she can ruin any1's life in future!...jaggya has faced lto of trouble in his life..now when he is trying to reedem why to make his life hell again with a gal like saanchi?...let him reedem na...

I think here CVs failed, for such track has already been in BV (Anandi-Jagya-Gauri). Imagine what if Sanchi's nature was like Shiv/Anandi/Ganga? A young, beautiful, unmarried girl from a well-to-do family falling in love with Jagya (perhaps without knowing that he is her bhabhi's ex) or may be in situations that is shown in current track (no one not even Anandi treats Jagya as Anandi's ex. CVs have made complete khichdi of relationships with Badi Haveli as Anandi's maika)? What if there was no Ganga (people like Jagya Ganga jodi, so they will oppose Jagya Sanchi anyway)?

not sure about others but...i am not opposing jaggya-sanchi marriage bcoz i want jaggya-ganga marriage...i think if jaggya-ganga marriahe will not take place then also i will cope with it...but i don want SaJa marriage bcoz firstly, i don like saanchi at all..secondly, i don want anandi's life to be more complicated...& third reason, i don think saanchi loves jaggya..does she? 😕...

If Sanchi's nature was like Anandi/Shiv and she fell in love with Jagya (of course if she had Anandi's nature, she would not annouce that she loves Jagya - but by her behaviour (like in case of Ganga), it was clear to other charecters that she wants to marry Jagya), what should have been the reaction of other charecters?

this is really a good question...yes, that would be nice to see..what could have been the other character's reactions? 😉...i think still shekhar family's reaction would have been the same as their main corncern is jaggya has two failed marriage!..anandi's reaction could have been changed in this case...

Originally posted by: monamie111

Originally posted by: libsrocks

if saanchi's character would have been like anandi and shiv she would not have fallen for jagya at the first place...even if she would have fallen then she would have acted maturely about it and not just blurt out her feelings and act like a despo

Originally posted by: samvi.

Actually Puja the goal of the directors is to marry J to another child marriage victim(which is a good idea as per the original concept of the serial-Balika Vadhu). They can't show him falling in love with Ganga as his character would be butchered. So they had to make it an arranged marriage kind of thing with all the family members pushing him into it. At the same time it should also not look like J married Ganga due to lack of any other choice. So to high light his character this Sanchi was introduced. She would be all drooling for him..and though she is beautiful, rich, young, educated , modern and a girl who is entering into marriage for the first time...J would REJECT her and CHOOSE to marry a balika Vadhu. Neither the Shekar's nor the Singh's (includng Sumi) are bad here. It would be too dramatic if all the singh's go gaga over Ganga..so they made sumi a little over possessive. So here, Everything is all right! Ganga will be the choosen one. That doesn't mean he will marry her though.

It's just that i wished they showed this new Balika Vadhu to be a bold, dignified woman who has high self respect , who's assets would be boldness and sincerity in working hard to stand by her self. I didn't expect her to reduce to the level of a cry baby and let everyone know that she is in love already.👎🏼