YOU too , Tarun Sablok???

Hello Everyone!

I never though i would be making such a post about Tarun, but the guy let me down big time😭. I take back his role as Jai's defense chief which I had given him when he had first entered! I knew I will be in a Dhram sankat when it is comes Jai Vs Tarun, I never expected i would make the choice the 1st day itself. Tarun Sablok, Jai Walia wins hand down! I am still a Pawan Shankar fan and it was a pleasure watching him finally get his space, hope to see more of u Pawan.😃

More on Tarun later, Let me deal with my fave punching bag these days... Massi!😡😆

I sure respect her for supporting Bani in this hour, but someone tell the lady this isnt the way to deal with things. No, i dont expect her to get Jai back, but can she atleast cure Bani? The main concern should be getting Bani accept the situation, rather than make her run away from it. By refusing to acknowledge that Jai is still a part of Bani's life she is throwing Bani into deeper denial. The lady likes it or not, Jai will always remain connected to Bani, she doing last rights, breaking name plates does NOTHING to help Bani! I strongly feel Bani is going to fall more sick in that place, Seeing the scenario, i genuinely feel it is Pushkar who can help Bani at this moment, because even he is going through the same situation, I want him to set an example for Bani. Massi, Rano and now Tarun are just spoiling it all for Bani! Come on Pushkar, save ur friend before these so called well wishers of hers make her even more sick😕.

Massi is a limit, she convinced me beyond a doubt that unki dimak umar ke sath satyagaye hai😡. Massi, want to blame Jai for that too? How do u want to punish him for that? How about throwing his belongings out of the house or burning it? I am so sure i will see it t'row. Massi destroy his colourful clothes that will do me a lot of good😆! Or may be curse the food he eats, he might reduce weight that way!

Massi seems to have a long list of people she disowned... she disowned her own daughter, no wonder Jai met with the same treatment. That Lady has lost it, Ok, didnt this lady have a weak heart? I wonder how she is taking so many shocks at the same time. What did she want to prove by removing Jai's name plate😡? She threw away Jai's name and held on to the Walia name. So it means Bani will remain Bani Walia, but NOT Bani Jai Walia, and Jai Walia will be Jai! WHO is she to disown a Walia? She isnt a Walia, can someone remind her that! I wish Uday Walia comes back from the dead to haunt his salli😆. why are the Walia men cursed when it comes to their Sallis😕? All are Musibat personified! If she cared for Bani enough and wanted Bani to have an identity separate from Jai then she should have let Bani call herself Bani Dixit or call adopt Bani as a Sharma. Why does she want the Walia Surname? To use the Goodwill of the name which Jai worked all his life for? To use that name to make their lives easier? I so want Uday Walia to haunt this lady for snatching HIS name from HIS son!

Massi, I appreciate u fighting for someone's rights… but remember the fight has no integrity if u deny the other person their right and if u overstep ur own rights. YOU are NOT a Walia to decide who remains a Walia or not. That House belongs to your Sister, and that doesn't give u HER share of rights!

What is the story of Karuna😕? Wasnt she in Dubai with a 12 year old daughter and a new born? and now she is the mother of a 20 year old girl! When Karuna looks so sophisticated, Lakshmi looks like she has been brought up in a dhaba on the highway! Looks like she will be the one who clears Jai's name from the ONS, Lets see what is in store. She kind of lands up at the right time. Pia's partner in crime?

Jai Walia, I must say u got a thumbs up from everyone for treating Pia the way u did👏. This was something I expected from u long time ago, But chalo better late than never. Have u decided on what to do on Pia's front? Any plans of leaving the city of 'family' and 'friends' for good? Hurry up, Jai!

Now make way for Tarun Sablok…. The rift was surely evident among the friends today, but yes there was a connection somewhere as well. But I really expected Tarun to deal with it with some maturity. Yes, If I was in his place I would be hoping mad, But then again I am in a profession where in I see marriages break left, right, center. Such things are a regular occurrences in the profession of a lawyer, so it wasn't as if he was seeing a failed marriage the 1^st time. He should have had an open mind and spoken to Jai if not as his friend, atleast as Bani's lawyer! And all he did was stand by and pass judgments.

Wasn't Tarun the same guy who told Jai more than once that he has gone mad in love with Bani and wasn't he the one who believed that Bani didn't deserve the Love that Jai showed? Wasn't he the guy who taunted Bani time and again about it? Wasn't he witness to the damage Bani's divorce fiasco had done to Jai? I am not asking him to take up Jai's cause and rally for it, But atleast he could have been unbiased about the issue until he heard Jai's story? Don't tell me a Guy who is in a profession which deals with human mistake doesn't have enough maturity to know there are always two sides to a story? And WHO is he to deicide for Bani? Tarun Sablok Let me down BIG time!

Btw Wasn't this the same guy who one day to 'CHEER UP' his upset friend decided to host a bachelor's party and promptly threw a dancer at him? And the same guy stands here to talk about commitment? If he is forgetting he is the one who shamelessly flirts with his friend's sister and friend's ex-wife in front of them! Now Tarun let me see how u take ur relationship with Bani…

And now for the main reason I am making this post… Prachi Desai! Uff, that girl left me speechless today! Hats off to you👏. The way she portrayed Bani's vulnerability and fragile state left me numb. The way she hide behind the cupboard is undoubtedly the most disturbing scene, just wanted to go give her a hug. Which is exactly why I want Massi & Rano away from her, they aren't helping other than curse Jai a few more hundred times😡!

I guess I finished for the day! Would love to read ur take… 😃

Bye take care

Lots of Luv

Anu.

Well said Anu!! 👏 👏

I could understand Maasi slapping Jai and pronouncing him dead - we can say she has an excuse - that was her first reaction and she acted without thinking. Believe me, I was supporting her the first day. But lately her actions seem too calculated. She KNOWS what she is doing. She's deliberately making Bani shrink from the truth instead of helping her face it. Erasing the name Jai is not going to do any good for Bani. Bani needs to ACKNOWLEDGE that Jai exists. Only that will make her come out of her shocked/numb state.

Absolutely agree Anu. What both Jai and Bani need is a faceoff. By denying them that, Maasi is just making a bigger hole for her now adopted daughter to bury in after having done the shradh of her son. Bani needs to be brought back to reality and by erasing Jai's existence from her life, Maasi, by some demented logic, is thinking that Bani will snap back to life. At this point Bani needs to feel angry to spring back to life, that anger will only come when she faces the man who has wronged her. She was too scared of Pia to feel any anger. Pia has killed off all her sisterly/motherly instincts and its heartrending to see her cowering in fear in front of her younger sister.

Hi Anu,

I agree with you completely...very well said. Also did you notice what Laxmi had said to Massi. She said that by punishing her mother she also punished herself for 20 years. Now again it seems as though massi is repeating history. By trying to remove Jai from Bani's life she is not just punishing Jai but punishing Bani also because the connection that Jai and Bani share can never be broken!!! Hopefully massi will realise this very soon....

What do you think Anu?

Nikita

I just wish someone would give Massi a sedative for a few days and let her rest in her room ... maybe we could see some resolution here that way!

I totally agree with your viewpoint Anu. Somehow Jai and Bani need to come face to face in order to get thru this - however the pieces may fall. I wonder who will get Bani out of Walia Mansion in order to see Jai.

Originally posted by: pkbains

I just wish someone would give Massi a sedative for a few days and let her rest in her room ... maybe we could see some resolution here that way!

I totally agree with your viewpoint Anu. Somehow Jai and Bani need to come face to face in order to get thru this - however the pieces may fall. I wonder who will get Bani out of Walia Mansion in order to see Jai.

I hope it is pushkar who will get the JB confrontation, all three need to heal

Wow Anu.. what a post!

Masi's recent actions have gotten me a little ticked too. Although I can see her justification for her actions, it is Bani's decision of whether she wants her name to remain with Jai Walia. Masi has nothing to do with it! I agree with you that Bani and Jai will always remain connected, and tearing off a name plate wont do anything. Even Rano was more dramatic by ripping of her MS from her neck. I do disagree about Pushkar. He is too blinded by his own anger to help Bani, and on top of that his way of dealing with this shock is totally different. Pushkar is enraged, while Bani is numb.

Jai made me proud today. He treated that reptile exactly as she deserved to be treated. He manhandled her and pretty much told her in her face how much he despises her. Bravo Jai!

Tarun.. Tarun Tarun Tarun.. et tu? He is the one friend that tried to make Jai realize just how much he was in love with Bani, and now what is this? Your friend is there for support... so support him! He knows he made a mistake and further you are punishing him? If you know how devastated Jai is, you can only imagine how devastated Bani is. So instead of breaking them further apart, bring them together! Thats what a true friend does! Jai realizes his mistake- he realized it the moment he woke up next to Pia in Dubai! Again, YOU are not the one to decide his punishment. Even Jai knows it-only Bani has that right!

Unfortunately I didnt get to see the beginning with PD 😭 The video was cut.

Thanks
HK

My dear this is the third time in a row that you and me have posted thoughts along pretty much the exact same line!! 😆

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/kasamh-se/513853/alone-and-broken-but-still-raging


I completely agree with you! I have already spent the entire weekend bashing Massi the Hypocrite. Now it appears I'm going to have to give Tarun a good kicking too!! 😈

He hasn't p*ssed me off as much as Massi the Great, but I have a feeling he will!! The words, Et tu Brutus?? came to mind when I read about his behaviour with Jai today. 😡

I know friends have a duty to put you on the right path, admonish you when you do something wrong - but they should also believe in you, not judge you, and support you instead of reminding you of the mistakes you may have made.

He really disappointed me today, and reinforced my belief that there is only one person in the world that Jai can truly call his own - Aditya. 😭

I completely agree with you about Maasi.Her behaviour is totally illogical and senseless. Seems her only way of solving problems is disowning people. How would breaking the name plate get Bani to react 😕 . She is totally beyond me.
However I would still give the benefit of doubt to Tarun. His reaction was more of disbelief that JW could have done something like that. And though I understand Jai's intentions behind signing over all his property to Bani, that is probably not the appropriate thing at this moment. I mean if that is what the first thing Bani hears after coming out from shock, it would hurt her more and Tarun rightfully pointed out that.
There needs to be a face-off between Jai and Bani...most likely the only thing which can get her out of her shock. We will have to wait and see as to who will do the honours if at all there is someone who retains the sanity to do that.

The performance level of the actors in the past few episodes has been at an all-time high and definitely a treat to watch. PD has surely been exceptional. Her mature portrayal belies her age and experience.
I am also looking forward to see more of Pawan. Watching his interactions with RK and PD post-leap should be very interesting as far as acting is concerned

Originally posted by: Cordelia

My dear this is the third time in a row that you and me have posted thoughts along pretty much the exact same line!! 😆

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/kasamh-se/513853/alone-and-broken-but-still-raging


I completely agree with you! I have already spent the entire weekend bashing Massi the Hypocrite. Now it appears I'm going to have to give Tarun a good kicking too!! 😈

He hasn't p*ssed me off as much as Massi the Great, but I have a feeling he will!! The words, Et tu Brutus?? came to mind when I read about his behaviour with Jai today. 😡

I know friends have a duty to put you on the right path, admonish you when you do something wrong - but they should also believe in you, not judge you, and support you instead of reminding you of the mistakes you may have made.

He really disappointed me today, and reinforced my belief that there is only one person in the world that Jai can truly call his own - Aditya. 😭

Cords I totally agree with you! Aditya is now the only one that is giving him support through his hardships! I know JW is at fault too, but the mere fact that he recognizes his mistake and recognized it from the beginning does not give justifiation for Tarun to give him a hard time. Tarun knows that Jai loves Bani, then help him! Reunite the two loves!

Its funny you said Et Tu Brutus? As I too had mentioned that in my previous post 😆. Who knew that Tarun, being such a support would treat his dearest friend in such a way?