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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: quboolhai_1fan

oh my y does this post seem like sanaya was molested publicly or something by FK?? its not as big of a deal as u guys r making it seem...Both said things they shouldnt have said. Some fans think Sanaya is right while others think FK is right. .Let them both live in peace and enjoy the show!

Ps. I am neither a fan of Sanaya or Farhan. I just find this issue majorly exaggerated and I pity peoples mentalities. The extent some fans can go to make their favs looks better👎🏼


I am not implying any kind of physical harassment either, I will NOT jump to those kind of serious allegations or speculations. If somebody else feels that way I am not responsible.

Harassment is also when someone makes your work life hostile, it has nothing to do with anything physical. By what is happening, it has to make the working environment uncomfortable for the cast and crew, not just Sanaya. Which is not the best thing for the show or actors.

This could have been dealt with in a more dignified way by all parties concerned, but it was not. Someone threw the stone first and it will have repercussions. The best would have been if the PH had given a proper statement and ended the matter there.

My comment here is not just about Sanaya, who happens to to be an actor I like, but any woman who finds herself in this predicament. I connect with this incident more like that than a fan. It takes ages to build a professional reputation and very little for it to be sullied. In this case some of her colleagues are sticking out their necks, but many times nothing of that sort happens.

You are right, our focus should be on the show and I plan to do exactly that. I will not make a post on this matter again, though I might respond to other threads. I have a small voice and I expressed it here.

Hope to see you in episode discussion posts.

Edited by showviewer - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: princessunara

di well said!! 🤗

truly when a woman't reputation is sullied a man who stands up against it and helps seek justice is a man to be applauded.
Same for another woman who stands by the truth...

thank you.

Dheeraj luckily I managed to convey my heartfelt gratitude and appreciation to you a few hours before personally. So I feel happy about it.
Wish I could tell the same for Charu too..

wonderful human beings, Sanaya glad to know when that dirt bag was pawing you, and was being a sleazebag to you as said in the Newsroom final case closing article, these people were around to probably protect you then too. To protect you from being exposed to the leers and touches that made you uncomfortable, but you had no choice but to put up for the sake of the show. So they probably must have shielded you as much as possible whenever the camera was put on off mode.

So here are heartfelt thanks to you both. cz after reading everything, I feel you probably must have done more than just speaking up for her. You protected her in front of the media as a good human being should. And probably protected her behind the camera too as good human beings should.

thank you. My respect for you.


Sunara, I at this point I will not jump to any conclusions about FK's behaviour with Sanaya on sets. I will take all media reports with a pinch of salt because each one of them is in the business of sensationalism.

However, FK should have refrained from talking about his personal equations in interviews and implying that his co-actor is in some way responsible for his inability to do well. That was crossing boundaries. He should have stuck to his reasons to leave and been more dignified and gracious.

I don't want to make any posts on this matter anymore and want to move to pleasant things such as what a great cast we finally have!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well said!!! It' so easy for people to tallk about dignified silence when it's not theor dignity at stake. Sanaya's gans didn't need any explanations but I willalways be grateful to Dheeraj and Charu for doing what the PH should have dealt with on the first day. I agree Barun should not have been brought into this but he supported his griend so proved he's a good friend.Hopegully this is the end of the FK vhapter and we can get back to enjoying the show in peace
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Fantastic post!
I agree with every word you said :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Oh come on don't be naive, do you really think someone like Dheeraj is supporting popular and very adored and loved by her fans Sanaya without his own personal agenda? Sanaya should be very careful, she has worked very hard to get where she is and snakes like Dheeraj are just waiting to leech off of some popularity
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Posted: 12 years ago
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nice post .. agreed ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@showviewer:- I remember a story that I read in my childhood - A leaf falls on a king and someone who sees it exaggerates to a branch falling on him and slowly the story gets exaggerated to the whole tree falling on the king. That is what is precisely I feel happening here. Everyone is adding something more to the story and trying to make it spicier to get their 15 mins of fame.

And this repeat of the articles is actually making the issue bigger. I am not denying the issue at hand - there may have been issues both between Sanaya and Farhan but we don't know for sure what has happened. As far as I am seeing it - both Sanaya and Farhan told their point of views. Honestly I expected a little bit more mature handling on part of Sanaya because she came in to this position by her sheer hardwork and she knows the situation at hand. But fine things have gone bad and now I honestly feel we should stop speculating on the articles and not give weight to any more new items.

Lets all not make things more bigger than they already are been made out to be in the media. Farhan has gotten his 15 mins in news and it is going to die out soon if fans don't keep on going through the same thing over and over again. That said, I am in no position to stop people making from posts over and over again. My honest opinion.

PS:- I am no way supporting any article. All of them have made the issue bigger - Farhan/Sanaya/Dheeraj and no 2 questions on that. Just hope the media stops at this point or I hope the PH wakes up and gives a comment and this is a closed chapter.

PPS:- As a normal human being I do feel sorry for Sanaya as it is very obvious that Farhan is trying to pass off his failure as an actor over her and is passing a bad blame game. It is unfair, I know - The guy couldn't even admit that he sucks at acting but he was ready to blame everyone for his miserable outing from the show. He is trying to project in the media that he is/was not a failure. It sucks but real life is like this. In real world too, you have people like him who are ready to take praises for things that click and ready to pass the blame game if things were to fail. We all professional women go through that. I myself went through these kind of people quite a few times in my career in Networking MNC and the way I deal with these rotten eggs is to convey my concerns to higher ups and move on in my work. We can't expect everyone to be fair and that is the harsh truth. Just feel happy, he is out of the show.
Edited by psarada - 12 years ago

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