Antra hain ya Mantara???

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Posted: 12 years ago
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In mythology there was one character called Mantara who poisoned Kaikeyi's mind and which resulted into 14 years vanvas for the beloved Ram-Seetha. If today's article is to be believed, here we have a new character entering into AKA whose mere presence(closeness to Amit) is going to bring a major tsunami in our A2's life . 😲

Nowadays Amit is acting very weird. Amitji yeh aapki friend hi tho hain phir aap etana chup chupke kya bath kar rahe ho? What is there to hide and talk? Agar aapke mann mein khot nahi hain tho Amita se yeh bath chupaneki kya jarurat hain?? 😡


Cvs have made this track to make A2 realize their feelings for each-other. Aur yeh sab ho bhi jayega, but Amita has to go through so much pain and tears !!


But in reality, guys what is your take on this?

1.If a person has a friend of opposite gender, should that person hide this fact from his / her spouse?

2. Do you think it is healthy for their relationship?

3. Can a person continue to be overly buddy-buddy with that friend (opp gender)??


My opinion: I think, it is pure hypocrisy! Rather this chupachupi would create unnecessary doubts and MUs. You may be very close with your friend (another gender) but after marriage you cannot continue with this overly buddy emotion. Once married your spouse takes the precedence and you need to maintain a certain amount of healthy distance with others.😊

Amitji jagooo aur apane pyar ko pehchano!😳

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pankhi07 thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am agree with you Emeraldeye!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Oh...what a topic dear emerald!! Antara ya Manthara!!😆 Ya Manthara indeed...which will create separation of A2 for a while..just as Manthara had caused sepeartion of Rama from his dear ones 4 14 years. First of all my answer to all your questions is NO...after one gets married a person should maintain a certain distance from his/ her friend of opposite gender. We were earstwhile notified by the Cvs that Amit Shah is a nerd...& remember how Batuk teased Amit on the day of his sangeet when he danced with Amita...I clearly remember the dialogues " Amit Shah! Dance floor par! Woh bhi ek ladki ke saath"...if this is actual Amit Shah then sorry we ca't recognize this Amit Shah who talks with a slim bubbly attractive lass in the bathroom hiding from his overtly caring wife. Even once AMit's father said " Amit koi filmy hero jaisa nahi dikhta ke ladkiya us par marti ho..phir bhi Amita ne koshish ki na? ".Ok...now even if it happens that Amit doesn't like Amita & likes this Antara coz for him physical looks only matters..then fine...he shouldnot conceal this fact from Amita & should disclose it to her right away!! Cvs are again tarnishing Amit's character which we do not want to see. Again...2 peole of opposite gender can not remain extremely buddy-buddy type...especially when they r hitched.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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ttly agree with u emerald and Lily.

this is rlly strange n now I cant recognise this Amit with the AMit we hve seen till date...am against this upcoming boring track n am afraid this will gonna backfire n lead to lower trp pr not!!!
to answer ur questions@ emerald

well as long as they r frnds, I dont think one shud hide it from his'her spouse...it creates problem in married life. Ppl normally tend to hide things when revealing tht may cause him tht relationship or put him/her in stake. If its just frnd then there is no harm introducing ur frnd wth ur spouse n call for a tea or dinner party at home...nowadays ppl can hve frnds of opposite sex...but this frndship need to b at certain level n distance or else it can create more problem...this is why we r witnessing so many divorce rate. I so wish this Antra thing is related to Sanjay n she is nothing to do wth Amit...but the article is making me disappointed :(
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Posted: 12 years ago
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IT CAN'T BE DEAR!
I STILL DON'T BELIEVE IT!
AMIT IS NOT THAT KIND OF A GUY!
USKE LIYE KOI FEMALE DOST RAKNA POSSIBLE NEHI HAI!
I STILL FIRMLY BELIEVE THAT THIS ANTRA YA MANTRA JO BHI HO!
HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH SANJAY ND NOT AMIT!
REMEMER SANJAY USED TO LIVE IN USA BEFORE!
AUR JO JEALOUSY WAALI BAAT HAI MUJHE LAGTA HAI KI YE SIRF AMIT KA GALAT FALMI(CONFUSION) HOGA!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: lily.lotus.rosy

Oh...what a topic dear emerald!! Antara ya Manthara!!😆 Ya Manthara indeed...which will create separation of A2 for a while..just as Manthara had caused sepeartion of Rama from his dear ones 4 14 years. First of all my answer to all your questions is NO...after one gets married a person should maintain a certain distance from his/ her friend of opposite gender. We were earstwhile notified by the Cvs that Amit Shah is a nerd...& remember how Batuk teased Amit on the day of his sangeet when he danced with Amita...I clearly remember the dialogues " Amit Shah! Dance floor par! Woh bhi ek ladki ke saath"...if this is actual Amit Shah then sorry we ca't recognize this Amit Shah who talks with a slim bubbly attractive lass in the bathroom hiding from his overtly caring wife. Even once AMit's father said " Amit koi filmy hero jaisa nahi dikhta ke ladkiya us par marti ho..phir bhi Amita ne koshish ki na? ".Ok...now even if it happens that Amit doesn't like Amita & likes this Antara coz for him physical looks only matters..then fine...he shouldnot conceal this fact from Amita & should disclose it to her right away!! Cvs are again tarnishing Amit's character which we do not want to see. Again...2 peole of opposite gender can not remain extremely buddy-buddy type...especially when they r hitched.


Completely agree with you dear. 👍🏼 He should not conceal the fact about his US friend from Amita. She has 100% rights to know about it.😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: stephhh

ttly agree with u emerald and Lily.

this is rlly strange n now I cant recognise this Amit with the AMit we hve seen till date...am against this upcoming boring track n am afraid this will gonna backfire n lead to lower trp pr not!!!
to answer ur questions@ emerald

well as long as they r frnds, I dont think one shud hide it from his'her spouse...it creates problem in married life. Ppl normally tend to hide things when revealing tht may cause him tht relationship or put him/her in stake. If its just frnd then there is no harm introducing ur frnd wth ur spouse n call for a tea or dinner party at home...nowadays ppl can hve frnds of opposite sex...but this frndship need to b at certain level n distance or else it can create more problem...this is why we r witnessing so many divorce rate. I so wish this Antra thing is related to Sanjay n she is nothing to do wth Amit...but the article is making me disappointed :(



Well said stephhh ! 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aphrodite143

IT CAN'T BE DEAR!

I STILL DON'T BELIEVE IT!
AMIT IS NOT THAT KIND OF A GUY!
USKE LIYE KOI FEMALE DOST RAKNA POSSIBLE NEHI HAI!
I STILL FIRMLY BELIEVE THAT THIS ANTRA YA MANTRA JO BHI HO!
HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH SANJAY ND NOT AMIT!
REMEMER SANJAY USED TO LIVE IN USA BEFORE!
AUR JO JEALOUSY WAALI BAAT HAI MUJHE LAGTA HAI KI YE SIRF AMIT KA GALAT FALMI(CONFUSION) HOGA!


Agreed. Our Amit is not that type of guy !!! 😊 He is absolutely virtuous and would not do anything to hurt Amita. But I guess he needs to confess his feelings to her else such MUs would keep creeping in their life.
Edited by emeraldeye - 12 years ago

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