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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ TM- Exactly. It was saddening how people turned a complete blind eye. But to be completely honest...it was disturbing to see how religion affected people so much. People bashed a tv character (a tv character for crying out loud) for wearing a skirt because of their religion. I mean bashed all the way from Atlantic to Pacific it seemed. Whole mob mentality was going on...that is what ruined this forum for me. I thought everyone on IF...the people I spoke to lived in the 21st century but I was very wrong. The views the majority here hold was very much not a 21st century view. They are very unlike me.

I make friends with people who are kind, open minded, mature, compassionate but I simply cannot be friends with fanatics. I have some religious friends as well but everything in their life is in moderation (religion as well), just like in my life. (And even if religion is very important to them...they never judge me based on their religious views.)
Fanaticism is not moderation. Its a good things there arent many fanatics in my college...pretty much everyone is laid back and has the whole live and let live attitude...to each their own attitude which is amazing. It's always nice to not be judged by others, to not have to look on other people's disapproving gazes.
Btw, I so wish the mods had been present here...we really needed them the last few days. If they had been here I dont think the whole skirt thing would have blown up so much.
Sorry for boring you btw. I will shut up now.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ---Nisha---

@ TM- Exactly. It was saddening how people turned a complete blind eye. But to be completely honest...it was disturbing to see how religion affected people so much. People bashed a tv character (a tv character for crying out loud) for wearing a skirt because of their religion. I mean bashed all the way from Atlantic to Pacific it seemed. Whole mob mentality was going on...that is what ruined this forum for me. I thought everyone on IF...the people I spoke to lived in the 21st century but I was very wrong. The views the majority here hold was very much not a 21st century view. They are very unlike me.


I make friends with people who are kind, open minded, mature, compassionate but I simply cannot be friends with fanatics. I have some religious friends as well but everything in their life is in moderation (religion as well), just like in my life. (And even if religion is very important to them...they never judge me based on their religious views.)
Fanaticism is not moderation. Its a good things there arent many fanatics in my college...pretty much everyone is laid back and has the whole live and let live attitude...to each their own attitude which is amazing. It's always nice to not be judged by others, to not have to look on other people's disapproving gazes.
Btw, I so wish the mods had been present here...we really needed them the last few days. If they had been here I dont think the whole skirt thing would have blown up so much.
Sorry for boring you btw. I will shut up now.


LOOL no worries :) You didn't bore me :P It was nice to read your post :) Dw I understand what you mean and yea things could have been better.. but oh well. Not like we can do anything anyways now! So its better to just move on? thats the best we could do anyways right now :)


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ---Nisha---

@ TM- Exactly. It was saddening how people turned a complete blind eye. But to be completely honest...it was disturbing to see how religion affected people so much. People bashed a tv character (a tv character for crying out loud) for wearing a skirt because of their religion. I mean bashed all the way from Atlantic to Pacific it seemed. Whole mob mentality was going on...that is what ruined this forum for me. I thought everyone on IF...the people I spoke to lived in the 21st century but I was very wrong. The views the majority here hold was very much not a 21st century view. They are very unlike me.


I make friends with people who are kind, open minded, mature, compassionate but I simply cannot be friends with fanatics. I have some religious friends as well but everything in their life is in moderation (religion as well), just like in my life. (And even if religion is very important to them...they never judge me based on their religious views.)
Fanaticism is not moderation. Its a good things there arent many fanatics in my college...pretty much everyone is laid back and has the whole live and let live attitude...to each their own attitude which is amazing. It's always nice to not be judged by others, to not have to look on other people's disapproving gazes.
Btw, I so wish the mods had been present here...we really needed them the last few days. If they had been here I dont think the whole skirt thing would have blown up so much.
Sorry for boring you btw. I will shut up now.



LOL aw no worries at alll. you did not bore me , it was nice to read your post :)
& yea i understand what you mean...we can't do anything about it now anyways.. we can try to move on, which is the best thing we can do anyways right now Lol

Have some chocolates, they shalll make you happy :)

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I sound like I am sad...I assure you I am not. I was playing with my hair and watching dexter while I typed that. I am just teeny tiny bit disappointed, nothing more.
Chocolates do sound delightful btw. Who needs an excuse for those 😆 😆
Btw, this convo was actually nice. Maybe the whole forum isnt filled with doochbag's. There's hope for this forum yet. 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ---Nisha---

I sound like I am sad...I assure you I am not. I was playing with my hair and watching dexter while I typed that. I am just teeny tiny bit disappointed, nothing more.

Chocolates do sound delightful btw. Who needs an excuse for those 😆 😆
Btw, this convo was actually nice. Maybe the whole forum isnt filled with doochbag's. There's hope for this forum yet. 😃



HAHAH you did sound sad and aw thats goood :) You should always be Positive.. and say ignore the negative! I know its hard but no point in wasting time in negative things! What I always say to myself is that... Allah is always watching :) You should always be good to people even if they are rude to you! No Religion is complicated.. it is quite simple and straightforward. Its actually people who have made it complicated by adding things to it.

The Mottto should be ; think positive. Do good and good will happen to you.

Theres a story of our Prophet Muhammad P.B.U.H;

How he use to walk down the streets and there was this lady who wasn't Muslim and she never liked the Prophet and would empty trash from her garbage bin onto his head right when he would pass by her house. The Prophet Muhammad P.B.U.H never said anything. Patience is Key. One day he was passing by and she wasn't at the roof.. so the Prophet asked the neighbors and they said she was sick. So he went to check up on her. The lady was shocked.. she said how come you came to check up on me even though I threw trash on you everyday. I forgot his exact words so forgive me if I make a mistake.. but I do remember how he did say "patience is key".
She converted to Islam.

The point here is.. Patience is Key which is true. Now a days.. that is uncommon! LOl Even myself.. I am only patient at times.. like most of the times I am not patient.. like when it comes to foood or something I have to do or I have a meeting.. I just can't wait.. I just want to get it over with and I just can't wait.. It annoys me! LOL I know bad bad bad habit.. I am in the process of stopping that since not being patient is a bad habit. But I don't show to people that I am impatient .. that would be unethical anyways lawl

I don't know why I just started talking about Patience.. lmao no clue why! I got off topic for a second...yeah my brain is all over the place right now lawl.

OH YEAH we were talking about chocolates... YEAA they are so yummy omg <3 I am in love with them literally... I have to have them everyday or else my day is incomplete literallly. And aw :$ thanks :) & yeaa not everyones bad :) there is hope in this forum! :D :D
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Don't ask me ! But I can gave you a clue - - - a popular song frm Dabang2 se connected ho gya hai .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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If I to place my reasoning for their reason here , Then here would be a Maha War ! Which I do dont want ! This skirt thing + Razver (Razia and tanver ) made me too tird to fight !
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Posted: 12 years ago
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because this is the worst thing she did.. 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gkdlover

because this is the worst thing she did.. 😕



but its over now...we can't change it can we so no point in aruging anymore lol

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