reality

Hi guys

This post deals with two issues

First : kundali 😡

Ok now so many of us are angry at nikhila for consulting a guruji. We are also angry that how can this guruji predict about other persons life. I belong to a village I know so many people who consult these kind of gurus and believe in them even my parents believe in them. Gurus predict all sorts of thing and people believe them because they experience things exactly the same way. I have seen many girls getting married on the basis of kundalis. I have seen many girls who cant get married due the same for many years. There are people who broke an engagement, reason the kundalis don't match and the girl is a bad influence. even i i hate these kundalis and gurus but i cant stop anyone

Second: gauri 😊

There are so many girls out there who are like her I should say out of 100% atleast 60% girls who are like her who cannot do anything in such situation because of there respective family and society. I can say that I am a well educated girl and my parents have given me the freedom to choose my own path, but everyone is not that lucky. But others don't have that they are taught that husband and the in-laws are everything once they get married.

I know that this is 21^st century and we should look at our future but let me tell you that there are some/many parts of India where these things are considered. Guys even if we are from the 21^st century we should not forget that are parents are influenced by the 20^th century and they will take time to adjust to the changes. As far as the serial is concerned I think many channels tried this idea but failed. But I think this serial is a warning and a wake up call to the society by showing that no matter what happens and no matter what you do the girl has to suffer at the end. At least it highlights and teaches these things to the society 1) don't believe in guru and babas 2) educate your children equally don't differentiate and don't teach your daughters the half truth of life ie; marriage but teach the other half also ie; make your own identity, be independent 3) respect women

I know this is a long post but I want to say this that this is the reality because I have seen these things happen infront of my eyes and people blaming my parents for educating me well but I guess they don't bother. So all I want to say is face it this the reality

beautifully said!!!! couldnt agree more....

tht's exactly wht my mum waz saying today!!.. 😆 ..anywaz well said

awesome!!! I so agree with you...and these things still happen around the world...that's the sad part...we need to make changes and they need to happen fast..

well said hunni...totallya gree even myself was thinkin the same
love aneesa 😃

Well I've had my kundali made n read...and I believe in it, but of course you have to take other things into consideration, not just teh kundali...I think a kundali can be a good guide but it shouldn't take over your life decisions...but you make many valid points!

Whether this serial really teaches the lessons you listed out remains to be seen. I wish they show that despite Guruji's prediction Gauri ends up having a long life. That will put such superstitions to rest.

Well said and so aptly and precisely put. Thank you for a nice post! 😊
I second your thoughts and wish people watching the show did see the points you have raised... and not get influenced otherwise... 😊

So True Geetha...

Leave villages, even in cities, you will find the influence of astrology and what not....
and as far as the state of women is concerned, the less said the better... Progressive minded parents are still not allowed to support their daughters in their decisions... and strong minded girls are given the name of being arrogant...

If a guy does something he is showing his capability, if a girl does the same, she is showing off... ??? or even better... say she cannot do it and discourage her... and if she somehow manages to do it, make it seem that it was somebody's favour to her... she didn't make it on her own...

Kehne ko hum log 21-svi shatabdi main hain... par hamari haalath to 19-svi shatabdi jaisi hi hain...
haan, sirf ek maamle main main keh sakti hoon ki auraton ka progress hua hain... padai likhai, aur kaam karne par ab utna zyada rok tok nahin hain... aur yeh ek acchi baat hain..!!!

I just wish Gauri wasn't such a push-over...