Disgrace to Womanhood!!!!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I was always so fond of Gauri's character and I always said that she can win her husbands heart by her love and her personality..Insaan ko pyar sai jeeta jata hain.. Than the Kundli thing came up and even know I didnt think it was right we saw her going back to Shiv because she loves him unconditionally..It would only make sense of her to go back to him since she always proclaimed her love and how she always told Shiv her love was enough for both of them
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Now with this whole drama with Ip Shit and Shiv> I am totally heart broken 😡 😭 . To a certain extent a woman should sacrafice..but when there is another women involved I would leave everything!! I understand Gauri is blinded and loves Shiv unconditonally..but if she were to find out about Shiv and Ip Shit..I would leave.

Why is it that a woman's character is always shown so weak? We are always the one's to suffer and we are always the one that have to sacrafice so much for keeping one relationship intact. Husband and Wife relationship is suppose to be the most strongest bond.. Gauri thinks Shiv feels bad for her and he is repenting for that..to an extent Shiv does feel bad for Gauri and the situation that he put her in,however Gauri is not aware of the truth behind why he is feeling guilty..because he cheated her and he is in love with Ip Shit..

I would love to see the story develp Gauri into a strong character who can fight her obstacles and even maybe open Shiv's eyes..You never know what you have till its gone..

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Zaynah

I was always so fond of Gauri's character and I always said that she can win her husbands heart by her love and her personality..Insaan ko pyar sai jeeta jata hain.. Than the Kundli thing came up and even know I didnt think it was right we saw her going back to Shiv because she loves him unconditionally..It would only make sense of her to go back to him since she always proclaimed her love and how she always told Shiv her love was enough for both of them
BUT
Now with this whole drama with Ip Shit and Shiv> I am totally heart broken 😡 😭 . To a certain extent a woman should sacrafice..but when there is another women involved I would leave everything!! I understand Gauri is blinded and loves Shiv unconditonally..but if she were to find out about Shiv and Ip Shit..I would leave.

Why is it that a woman's character is always shown so weak? We are always the one's to suffer and we are always the one that have to sacrafice so much for keeping one relationship intact. Husband and Wife relationship is suppose to be the most strongest bond.. Gauri thinks Shiv feels bad for her and he is repenting for that..to an extent Shiv does feel bad for Gauri and the situation that he put her in,however Gauri is not aware of the truth behind why he is feeling guilty..because he cheated her and he is in love with Ip Shit..

I would love to see the story develp Gauri into a strong character who can fight her obstacles and even maybe open Shiv's eyes..You never know what you have till its gone..

you know what i really agree with you but i also think that shiv and ispita love is very very weak and they don't have any ground it is just an imagination of love come on if they love each other so much then why would they actually think that everything that is in the kundali will come true.........you know what i have never loved but i know that you cannot be be happy if a person dies cause of that love...........as both shiv and ispita are doing to gauri what makes them think they will be able to marry each other and be happy..................if that happens there will be no hope for love............god i hate to say this but ekta in a way is trying to tell us that we should never hurt anyone purposly where they lose everything and the lovers will be together..............look at gauri she is trust worthy, she is uncondionally sweet and always respects her elder what had she done to deserve this kind of thing.............and please comment

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Posted: 19 years ago
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okkk, herez the jist of what i think would make gauri luk gr8 to me:

1) She finds out that the girl in the portrait that shiv loves is ipshita...but remains with shiv's side...since she thinks she has little time left, she'd try to do her best to solve shiv's kundali problem, so that after she's gone, he and ippy can live togther happily ever after...afterall she herself knows that shiv doesn't love her and she said, "i want u to be with someone after me who loves me even more than u do..someone who has more time than me" ...so i think this way she's gonna stick with shiv...and maybe her still being with shiv is what is gonna make him fall in love with her.

2) BUT BUT BUT, if gauri finds out how shiv and ipshita were having a full fledge head-on AFFAIR behind her back, i want her to leave shiv there and then...it's ok to love someone else and she knows shiv loves someone else, but this is just plain cheating yaar...shiv should atleast hold himself back out of respect for gauri's love for him and how much she trusts him....but NOOOOOO....shiv is being repulsive guys....I want gauri to actually CATCH the two together sleeping or sthn, and then just leave and never turn back...that'd be great!

even though a wife can handle the fact that her husband doesn't love her but has feelings for someone else, she can't handle knowing that he cheats on her with the other woman behind her back...that's just asking for too much to bear, and i don't think gauri should tolerate that.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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i think gauri has strong intuition...
i think she cud feel somthing is not right here... but keeps it to herself. if she found out that shiv had slept with ippy, she would not shed a tear coz it was plain n clear she is to be blamed for coming back to shiv. BUT she will fight back n show her anger to these two. i am waiting for that moment, when our lovely n shy gauri becomes stronger n a very successful person. 😊
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Posted: 19 years ago
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opps... double click.. sowwy

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Posted: 19 years ago
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👏 ...nice suggestions guyz, even I would love to watch something where Gauri is shown being a strong character, no more tears, and long lectures about being good!! I want her to some ACTIONS!!! Being Good does not mean being a doormat!!! It means standing up for what is RIGHT!!! And being deceived, cheated, used as a "bali ka bakra" etc etc are not right and all these ppl, Shiv, ipshitta, nikhila, ipshitta's mom should all be given a lesson about love and live!!!!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: navz

you know what i really agree with you but i also think that shiv and ispita love is very very weak and they don't have any ground it is just an imagination of love come on if they love each other so much then why would they actually think that everything that is in the kundali will come true.........you know what i have never loved but i know that you cannot be be happy if a person dies cause of that love...........as both shiv and ispita are doing to gauri what makes them think they will be able to marry each other and be happy..................if that happens there will be no hope for love............god i hate to say this but ekta in a way is trying to tell us that we should never hurt anyone purposly where they lose everything and the lovers will be together..............look at gauri she is trust worthy, she is uncondionally sweet and always respects her elder what had she done to deserve this kind of thing.............and please comment

I agree, a love that is based on someone else's life can never be successful, I mean everytime Shiv will look at Ipshitta, after Gauri is gone, won't he feel the guilt, and same goes for ipshitta, I dont' think they will be able to love each other without having Gauri in their minds, making them feel guilty and miserable...I guess that will be their punishment for their deeds!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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great analysis everyone, so nice to see everyone putting their thoughts out........but really guys, what do you think gauri is going to do about this new twist, when she finds out????? most likely nothing, she is going to say that she can die peacefully knowing that she is leaving shiv in such good hands and supports him....and once again will take stand for him infront of the rest of the family 😡
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jenna Dutt

great analysis everyone, so nice to see everyone putting their thoughts out........but really guys, what do you think gauri is going to do about this new twist, when she finds out????? most likely nothing, she is going to say that she can die peacefully knowing that she is leaving shiv in such good hands and supports him....and once again will take stand for him infront of the rest of the family 😡

if that happens then i am gna go 2 balaji studio and slap her up 2 bring her in2 senses lol!!!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: ash k

if that happens then i am gna go 2 balaji studio and slap her up 2 bring her in2 senses lol!!!

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n u shud tell her... ' wake up!!!! dun make such big sacrifice for such losers!! think about alokji, mahsi, kaaya n devikaji... come on gauri, dont be such a wek woman!'

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