It's NOT shiv's fault!!!

Hello everyone, i am guessing everyone is really mad/angry/disgusted with the current track and some with shiv.

But how is it shiv's fault? time and time again he clearly told gauri "Gauri main tumse pyar nahi karta, aur nahi kabhi kar sakta hoon" and gauri knows this, so why blame shiv or even the creatives.

It was obvious(atleast for me) that shiv and ipshita loved each other, i mean the way they always behaved around each other it was so obvious, so it was no surprise, why blame anyone?

Shiv wasn't the one who wanted to marry gauri, yes he could've told her the truth before they got married, but how could he, when he had a mother threatening to harm herself? He told gauri in so many ways that she should leave him, b/c obviously he couldn't leave her, it was gauri who didn't so shiv is not at fault.

As far as Ipshita is concerned i don't think she is at fault either, remember Gauri and shiv's reception, when they showed ipshita while she went to wish shiv and gauri, her first dialogue was "Shiv, tumhe aisa nahi karna chahiye tha" so apparently it wasn't her fault either for the time being that is.

According to me, it's the parents that didn't want to lose either of their children(can't blame them either), obviously ipshita's mom didn't want ipshita dying, and nikhila didn't want shiv dying. Yes, gauri suffered from all this, but it was due to her own fault.

Out of all the people, it is shiv who is suffering the most:

1. Being away from his love.

2. His mom, with her constant insistence on him being married to gauri.

3. Gauri, whose love is making shiv guilty, even after he told her he doesn't want her to die, but gauri doesn't listen.

4. Now, IF something happens to gauri, shiv won't be able to live peacefully.

So all in all, it is shiv who is suffering the most. Gauri knows she is dying and she is just happy that she will be with the person whom she loves while dying.

So you see, it's not one person's fault, it is mostly the circumstances, with little to no faults by the characters.

Whoa, sorry for the ramblings, but just wanted to write what i felt.

Take care,

Shina

True 😃 Poor shiv 😭 but still I hate Ishpitta 😡

see i agree with u...but will shiv n ispita ever live with the guilt tht bcaz of them gauri died....even if the parents forced them WHY did they??..they both r old enough to take there own decisions....
n than wht abut anupum...did he expect sumthin like this frm his own friend...if shiv would have told him tht he loved ipsita ..anupum would have moved away...
now...im really upset...n guess wht tomorrow i have my accounts exam...i donna wht im gonna write...ufff

Agree totally Shina!!! Kudos to you gal for putting it acorss so well!!! 😊

that is some post shina...
i dunt watch kaa a lot...i dunt watch tv a lot now-a-days...goodlord..
but then i knw its an ekta kapoor serial and thts why im nt suprised at the track...

but it is shiv's fault to a certain extent...i mean cant he atleast put up a facade of keeping gauri happy in her 'last few days'???? though we knw she aint gonna die but still!!!

but then i cant really comment as im nt an avid watcher and im too tired to argue with u...lol

WOW!!! You do have a point and we were all excepting it but Shiv in the bushes with Ipshita??? 😡

If he knew she was doing to die for him as a good human being he should honour his commentiment to her and honour his vows..... I think this is what has upset everyone the more.

Ekta has given us a very good understanding of Gauri character but Shiv character need to be addressed at this stage of the drama......

We can only wait and watch Sheev and Gauri come together...........

it is nice to see a different perspective. Since 2 hours I have just seen so many posts on "bashing Shiv".
You are absolutely right when u said, yes he did tell her so many times and finally he even told her the truth and asked her to leave. Now, being married and having an affair with someone else is WRONG. he said that himself to Daksh when he was going out with Niyonika. if he WAS in love with ehr in the past and has no feelings for her now then it is ok, but I dont think that is the case.
so all in all I am so confused. I am just curious to know how Ekta is going to turn the story after IQ's exit. and also I wish Anupam gets to know the truth abt ipshita ASAP since he is going to suffer for no fault of his.

Originally posted by: babethatsme

that is some post shina...
i dunt watch kaa a lot...i dunt watch tv a lot now-a-days...goodlord..
but then i knw its an ekta kapoor serial and thts why im nt suprised at the track...

but it is shiv's fault to a certain extent...i mean cant he atleast put up a facade of keeping gauri happy in her 'last few days'???? though we knw she aint gonna die but still!!!

but then i cant really comment as im nt an avid watcher and im too tired to argue with u...lol

haha Shruti, yeah i don't watch that many shows either, but well i just HAD to watch KAA otherwise it was just KS.

You want him to pretend and wallow up his guilt, and let her die? I mean whatever he is doing, it is so that her life is safe. He didn't want her to love him, heck he even said that he didn't want to ruin anyone's life.

haha argue with me??? me n argument, shruti kya kehdiya tumne??? and here i was thinking you knew me better. 😆

Shina

P.S. you are still a kid for me😉

You have a huge point.And i agree with you there.Shiv's not in fault.Its not his fault that he loves Ipshita.Love just happens!You cant prevent it from happening!But if that was the case,then it was still very wrong of him to marry Gauri.But dont know why i have a feeling that Shiv didn't know at 1st that he loves Ipshi.I mean that,He found out that the portrait was of Ipshita's then he confessed.I dont know why,but i feel something like that happened.

Originally posted by: kyphfanz

see i agree with u...but will shiv n ispita ever live with the guilt tht bcaz of them gauri died....even if the parents forced them WHY did they??..they both r old enough to take there own decisions....
n than wht abut anupum...did he expect sumthin like this frm his own friend...if shiv would have told him tht he loved ipsita ..anupum would have moved away...
now...im really upset...n guess wht tomorrow i have my accounts exam...i donna wht im gonna write...ufff

Yes they are old enough to take their own decisions, but that doesn't mean that they would lose their parents in the process. I mean we have already seen nikhila pretending to commit suicide, how do you expect them to lose their parents?(of course i am assuming ipshita's mom had something similar).

As for anupam, ipshita keeps on telling him, she doesn't love him, but he doesn't listen. So you can't entirely blame ipshita. As for shiv, i already said that, he told her over n over again that he doesn't love her(gauri).

Good luck with your accounts exam.

shina