Self Respect or Happiness? - Madhu

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Posted: 12 years ago
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A lot of people have been complaining about Madhu's lost self respect because she has forgiven RK. Errr really? She has no self respect?😕

A woman with no self respect would never even think about avenging the man who she claims to love. A woman without self respect would not even fight for her RESPECT in the first place.

Why did Madhu forgive RK?

She did not forgive him when he forcefully dragged her to his house. She did not forgive him when he repeatedly asked her to move on from the unwedding day. She didn't even forgive him after seeing how jealous he is of Sultan.

She forgave him after he knelt down on his knees infront of the whole chawl (where he once ruthlessly insulted her) and claimed to love her and also ACCEPTED all his follies. Even after that because of her self respect, she was doubtful. She only melted after seeing his true love for her. Had RK not changed, Madhu would have never melted and had continued with her revenge. Isn't that called preservation of self respect?😕

RK insulted her at the altar saying that he never got physical with her because she wasn't worth it. But the same man got extra-physical with her infront of the whole chawl on Holi day. Doesn't it state that RK was lying at the altar?

RK said at the chawl that Madhu doesn't deserve him because she is a chawlbala while he is a superstar and their love story which is one sided would always remain incomplete. If after saying all this, he knelt down on his knees, proposed to her, accepted that he was wrong, then doesn't all this make Madhu BIG in the eyes of people? She defeated a SUPERSTAR. Isn't it enough?


Now coming to another part.

Why did Madhu give another chance to RK?

Hello, she isn't doing any social service here. She forgave him because she loves him and wants to spend her life happily with him. What is the need of that ego which can't even give you happiness? If everyone becomes EGOISTIC like RK, then where would the world go? If he is genuinely sorry for what he did and wants to start afresh, and if you too want the same, then what's wrong in giving second chance? If she has fallen for this faulty character who is a big jerk, then she has to tolerate him too😆

And what's wrong in giving second chance to Sultan?

Well no problem. He can find a good girl for himself who can be a good mother to Aryan. But the main problem why SulBala can't happen is because Madhu can't think beyond RK when he is with her and otherwise too. She has given her heart and soul to this monster RK and Bhai doesn't stand any chance😛

P.S. If Madhu wants to take revenge from RK, then I don't mind it, because it will open many tracks😆 But I know she won't.
Edited by CHAKKU_DAAYAN - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice post, Chakku!

Madhu is doing what her heart says is right. She loves RK and has seen for herself how RK is repenting what all he did to her. I agree, that, RK is a kameena in every sense, but Madhu fell in love with this very Kameena. If she accepts him and wishes to give a second chance to her marriage, who're we or anyone else for that matter to object or call names on Madhu?

She has every right to choose and live her life with whoever she feels is best for her. But she fell in love with RK and cannot see any other man in her life. That's fact, maybe, hard to accept for many.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Am all with Madhu...no problem whatever she do!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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tu iss post se kisko kya sikhana chahti hai? 😆 its not necessary for Madhu to complete her revenge in order breakdown RK, there r other methods 😛...and the other track which u want will surely not happen bcoz we already had enough forcing...and she is not an abla naari who will do whatever he wants 😛
Edited by EvIlNeSs_RoCkZ - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice Post!
If Madhu finally believes that RK's love is true this time then she will never take revenge from him...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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For me ideal situation will be for Madhu to first and foremost become independent even thought she forgives RK seeing his sincerity this time.

She may continue to love RK but for the sake of her own self respect & dignity, she should be independent and I hope CVS hasn't forgotten the heroine plot. After all being independent doesn't mean you love your spouse any less 🤔
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ennishet

Nice post, Chakku!

Madhu is doing what her heart says is right. She loves RK and has seen for herself how RK is repenting what all he did to her. I agree, that, RK is a kameena in every sense, but Madhu fell in love with this very Kameena. If she accepts him and wishes to give a second chance to her marriage, who're we or anyone else for that matter to object or call names on Madhu?

She has every right to choose and live her life with whoever she feels is best for her. But she fell in love with RK and cannot see any other man in her life. That's fact, maybe, hard to accept for many.


Yup😆

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Posted: 12 years ago
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nyc post

I feel ek chance toh banata hai yaar...

actually der story is lyk she can love him, hate him, hurt him, pamper him, humiliate him, respect him but always abt him n same goes wid RK..
Edited by taraka2005 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Beautiful post...it is only when RK humbled himself...as he told Padmini too, that he has left his ego/pride and come for his
bride, that Madhu too has begun to soften towards RK...
Very nicely explained...Whether RK is a monster or not...somewhere
he has made such inroads in Madhu's heart & life...there is no place for anyone else right now.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: i-me-myself

Am all with Madhu...no problem whatever she do!


I wanted Madhu to take revenge but I guess the track didn't go down well with the audience😕

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