Amita: Dil mein kuch aur zuban pe kuch!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yesterday Amita was hurt because Amit did not inform her that he had cancelled his Surat trip and that the whole time he was in Patel household. Even after she came he did not speak with her. And this she did mention to Amit. Agreed, Amit should not have ignored her.šŸ˜” But rather than highlighting this point she went on cribbing about their fake relationship, how she has to act in front of her parents and how difficult it is for her to lie in front of them. And how Amit tainted her image in-front of her own family. Come on sweety, have you thought why you felt so bad when he ignored you? Why does it matter to you where he is? Why are you so keen to know his where abouts? Why does it affect you, whether he speaks or not? šŸ¤” Are you angry because you could not keep the facade in front of your family or there is something else in your heart? 🤪 My dear try to first peep in your heart and maybe you would get your answers!


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srinivasrishi thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I cant connect with Amita character.Sometimes she behaves so maturely that i wonder ki ye kisski Bhooth uss mein ghusgayi ki raato raato itni mature hogayi.And the very next moment talks all irrelevant.Uski dimag ki batti on-off,on-off hoti rehti hain.So how could she realize her inner feeling with on/off state of mind.

Many times i dont bother abt this girl.
Hope CVs work on this main lead!!!!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: srinivasrishi

I cant connect with Amita character.Sometimes she behaves so maturely that i wonder ki ye kisski Bhooth uss mein ghusgayi ki raato raato itni mature hogayi.And the very next moment talks all irrelevant.Uski dimag ki batti on-off,on-off hoti rehti hain.So how could she realize her inner feeling with on/off state of mind.


Many times i dont bother abt this girl.
Hope CVs work on this main lead!!!!!!

totally agree with you...she is a little immature and on the other hand, her heart is in the right place, so she does the right things...however she feels seconded knowing that you were on the verge of being left on the altar, scheming kaki etc and rhea constantly trying to sabotage her, and a mil who has a hard time giving her the benefit of the doubt...
it is almost as if everyday she has to start from sq 1 to prove herself...been married 21 years but I do see myself in her and her roller coaster behavior is a result of confusion and frustration as she feels that once he leaves for US, her already stormy marriage will be over, so acts irrationally out of insecurity...
mind you though, she is too slow, and very childish...her image of dream prince and telling amit off and rehashing stuff...there are so many times, you have to bite your tongue and not just rant off...
so 1 step forward and 2 steps backward...
maybe that is the experience part that will come, once she feels a little secure...sensible parents but they did spoil her rotten, did she even graduate? just ratifying facts for a quiz is not sufficient... and a mil, who means well but also gets frustrated...once she figures out the sabotaging, I am sure she will come around...her 2 senior mataji mils support her and her fil is s a gem of a person, so hopefully ...
just my pov.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Amitas on/off behaviour was clearly seen even before her marriage.So i feel this attitude of hers didnt come coz of fear of losing Amit or proving to someone that she is the best.This was how her character was sketched by CVs.Whether it was wantedly done by CVs or it was a loophole in the script they should only know.

Agree she is suffering a lot.But Amit supported her in every way specially in front of others and this guy is also going through the same pain.

She should become a little mature in both ---words and action.Than automatically things will fall in place.She already has the support of FIL,her parents...nani...Phalguni is not that mean.She loves her son a lot and she wants to prove to society specially Tina And Rina that her DIL is the BEST.A kind of show-off.

No offence.These are my views.
Edited by srinivasrishi - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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well... to err is human... and our ammu is a human being right... she is jus 21... she is learning thru her mistakes... it is bcoz of her mistakes that she has finally realised her kuch kuch thing for amit.. and don forget, her stupid acts is what amuses our amit and still sticked to her deep inside...

n finally coming 2 d point of emeraldeye, ammu please don beat about d bush and jus keep taking d steps forward...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Amita is a typical immature girl with a golden heart. Circumstances led her to marry with some one who was not her dream boy...still she had started liking Amitbefore marriage only. Her indecisive nature is basically not her fault. It takes time to realize that we have actually fallen in love with someone. Even when our heart gives us the indication our brain doesnot accept that we are in love with someone whom we never ever thought to be in love with. Her indecisiveness was a tussle between brain & heart. Nevertheless she has come to terms with her feelings. Now it;s Amit's turn!!😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Seriously yaar,,,,, She is kind of flip flop which switches between ON and OFF wenever triggering done!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jo bhi hain, ab tho dead line be fix ho gaya hain ! She has to make him realize his feelings for her.

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