We the 'moral police' - Page 2

Good Post Pam. Couldn't agree more with you!!

I wasn't a fan of Tanaaz-Bakhtiyar, but I could never understand why people bashed them here! The reasoning was stupid to say the least--that Bakhtiyar is arrogant! Since when we should look into what they are, than what they are doing? And, even if for the sake of argument, one contends that Bakhtiyar is over-confident and arrogant, what's wrong in that?

We should ask the question--does he dance well? Yes or No? IS this jodi better than Karan-Gauri? Can they do what they promise to do?

But yes, we get more pleasure in acting as the moral police and cheer for our fav serial couples than dance jodis. We see how they are looking and how they are acting than how they are dancing.

That's life, and still we stand firm in our standpoint in the name of "freedom of expression" when our mind is stuck in old allegiance and fails to see reason or performance. How hypocrite is that???? 😊

Originally posted by: koyelranu

Good Post Pam. Couldn't agree more with you!!

I wasn't a fan of Tanaaz-Bakhtiyar, but I could never understand why people bashed them here! The reasoning was stupid to say the least--that Bakhtiyar is arrogant! Since when we should look into what they are, than what they are doing? And, even if for the sake of argument, one contends that Bakhtiyar is over-confident and arrogant, what's wrong in that?

We should ask the question--does he dance well? Yes or No? IS this jodi better than Karan-Gauri? Can they do what they promise to do?

But yes, we get more pleasure in acting as the moral police and cheer for our fav serial couples than dance jodis. We see how they are looking and how they are acting than how they are dancing.

That's life, and still we stand firm in our standpoint in the name of "freedom of expression" when our mind is stuck in old allegiance and fails to see reason or performance. How hypocrite is that???? 😊

hi koyelranu
thanks for understanding my point!

as u said, there is nothing wrong in coming here n discussing things which related to the dancing...! It is "Nach"baliye...key word is Naach..i understand ppl having favourites, tats their right...but instead of promoting ur own fav jodi, why we get into bashing other jodis, dragging their personal lives..for that matter we know them as they r projected thm to be...none of us known them personally, or experienced nything personally...they forget the fact that Media plays a major role in creating or destroying a person! How can we become so, judgemental tat too depending on the stories which were spread!

there is lot of negativism floating around here, which makes me sad! There is a lot difference about constructive critisism n plain Bashing! i was shocked when i read some1 sayig, tat Bhaktiyar to b put in Mental asylumn...We even became doctors here! is it not Sad??

we shouldnt forget one thing, if we point a finger at some1, 4 other fingers will b pointing at us..put urself in their shoes n think...tats always a best thing..! We cant b so judgemental when it comes to the things, which are not proven! Even if they are proven, how can we pass our judgement, are we all that perfect? do we have a right to do that...tats a million dollar qn..

I agree....someone had gone to extent of saying Tanaaz shd leave Bakhtiyar 😕 man...tht is her life...if he was an out n out abuser...she wud have decided herself.very beautiful post...thr is nothing more to add...as u said it all 👏


the thing i have observed is...if u love a jodi very much...u try to mask their flaws...other couples mistakes are magnified like hell...thts wht happening here.it happened with HG and now HT....anyone agree or not agree...i have seen fans of these 2 jodi's supporting these 2 couples blindly...i too like them...but u have to admit the mistakes too.

Also these people are celebrities anyway they have little privacy and anybody an comment on them ..

I believe that these celebrities also divulge too much of their private lives in the public on TV so people get tempted to comment on them too easily .

nice post..

but i disagree somewhat on one point..people here dont criticize just out of spite.look at the case of hussain- tina and yash- gauri..they are finalists and competing against each other..we maybe rooting for a particular jodi, but most of us like all 4 of them.WHY? because in all these weeks that we have watched these couples we have grown fondof them,they have come across as genuinely nice people..

i dont expect to see any daggers drawn in the coming days 😊 ..only campaigning for our fav couple..

^I agree. People don't criticize just out of spite. I love HuTina and support them but I like Yash-Gauri a lot too😊 But yes, I don't like Bakhtyaar and Tanaaz for a different reason and I don't have to justify it.