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Not sure about others but I don't bash Asad for yelling at Zoya...
It's because he jumps to conclusions that Zoya can do no right ever, and that she is undeserving of a family and irresponsible ALWAYS, that constantly reminds her of her orphaned childhood, being in foster care and especially that she has no tameez and tehzeeb because she was raised in US.
That's uncalled for. Expressing your anger is good. You should let the other person know what you see wrong in them but not by stripping the other of self respect. Such vicious attack is uncalled for.
I would never trust a third person saying stuff about my friends, wouldn't even tolerate it. But I am not going to get into a yell fest and name calling and tagging people with irresponsible behavior for it.
The fact that Asad takes it for granted that he has Zoya for a punching bag is far more annoying. I would probably settle differences by a physical fight if anyone so much as insinuated vile stuff about my friends. But this is not me or you, its about Asad Ahmed Khan, who thinks he is always right and Zoya is ALWAYS WRONG.
He is right in standing up for Tannu, but not by constantly humiliating Zoya at every given opportunity. His anger never seems for the moment, he just has to drag in Zoya's upbringing and remind her about her troubled past. as if that's not enough he has the arrogance to declare that she is not fit to be in a family..past toh past future bhi Asad hi decide karenge..
Khud ko kya bhagwaan samajhte hai?? apne past ke wajah se khud commit karna nahi qubool kar paa rahe hai, toh doosro ke liye kya judgement dete phir rahe hai?
Pehle apne aib toh dekhe phir doosro ko lecture jhade. he is aware Zoya has a far more traumatic childhood than him, at least he had the luxury of a loving mom and adoring sis, to live for to die for, but Zoya has been denied even that.
But she continues to be zestful and optimistic about life, finding meaning in helping others, risking her safety in the process...so I hate to say this, but who really is bigger of the two?
Just because you can't come to terms with your past and your present day feelings, why is Asad projecting his failures onto Zoya? what kind of an indecisive man he is if he can neither let Zoya go nor tolerate her around him? he can't have Zoya in parts, in love you need to accept the person as is.
Whats with the high handed attitude he reserves only for Zoya? That man needs a reality check. Sorry Mr Khan you can't have best of both worlds. That's life's crushing reality for you. either make peace with your past and forge relationships for future with positivism or let Zoya go, she is far more stronger than you and will take even your cruelty in her stride.
Asad can't take a stand and that my problem with him. KSG, of course, I adore. Fabulous actor.
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