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Winzy

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Posted: 12 years ago

Now I am very confused
Who does Arjun love !
And who does Purvi love ?
Why does Arjun want Ovi back ?
And why does Purvi make it seem like she loves onir !

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pallavi25

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Posted: 12 years ago

There are different kinds of love, love for a dear friend and companion, love for a woman or man in the romantic, passionate sense.

Arjun loves Purvi in the second sense, he loves Ovi in first sense...

Purvi loves Arjun in 2nd sense, she cares for Onir in the 1st sense, her feelings for Onir include gratitude too.

This is from a psychological point of view.

This is my take on the matter. People dont have to agree with me or argue, everyone has their own POV. 😃

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Winzy

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Posted: 12 years ago

Yeah I know what you are saying
But Arjun should set Ovi free instead of making her feels if he loves her the 2nd way :/
And Purvi should tell onir about her real feelings as well

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Hillylove

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Posted: 12 years ago

Purvi and Arjun have only Passion, there is no friendship or any strong sense of commitment. If there was commitment he would not have married Ovi.

This is called Infatuated Love. You need Intimacy that is friendship, bondedness or a sense of connectedness and commitment for this to be true love.

Purvi and Arjun's relationship was too rushed, they got caught up in the chemistry and that is why light breeze could have blown it to pieces. They should have worked on their intimacy and then commitment.

Ovi and Arjun have intimacy and commitment. This is called Companionate Love. It is the passion/chemistry that is missing to make it the real love. The passion can grow later in the marriage, if Arjun can let go of his past and the first hint was the night before Ovi went to Canada.

My Point of View of course.

Edited by hillydee - 12 years ago

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pallavi25

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird
Yeah I know what you are saying
But Arjun should set Ovi free instead of making her feels if he loves her the 2nd way :/
And Purvi should tell onir about her real feelings as well

We would like it resolved in a clean way like u said, but CVs want to drag this mess further until Devi Archana wakes up and sets things right! 😆

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pallavi25

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Posted: 12 years ago

Most of us have seen Kal Ho Na Ho...Preity loved both SRK and Saif...in different ways.

Her love for SRK was that once in a lifetime, all-encompassing, tragic love!

Her love for saif, whom she married eventually was one of friendship and affection

. That doesnt make one love smaller than the other but like they say "Aurat apney pehley pyaar ko kabhie nahin bhoolti"

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Hillylove

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Posted: 12 years ago

It is not about making one love smaller than the other. Passion is excellent to have, but without intimacy and then serious commitment you have nothing. Archana and Manav had all of that, regardless of all the drama they had. That is why they could come together after 18yrs and neither got married to anyone else. I am sure if Archana was left pregnant for those 18yrs, she would never ever in a million years, no matter what society said, marry anyone else.

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rayadallie

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Posted: 12 years ago

I really am shocked that people feel arjun and purvi's love is infatuation. After purvi giving birth to pari and not consummating her marriage with Onir and arjun and ovi 's loveless marriage, we still believe its infatuation? I cannot believe this

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soapwatcher1

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird
Yeah I know what you are saying
But Arjun should set Ovi free instead of making her feels if he loves her the 2nd way :/
And Purvi should tell onir about her real feelings as well

I think Onir already knows or suspects that is why he didn't take her up on her offer.

Ovi I think suspects the same about Arjun, that is why she left.

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Winzy

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: rayadallie
I really am shocked that people feel arjun and purvi's love is infatuation. After purvi giving birth to pari and not consummating her marriage with Onir and arjun and ovi 's loveless marriage, we still believe its infatuation? I cannot believe this

Arjun and Purvi's story is nothing less than infatuation
You can look back at episodes when Arjun and Purvi were working together
And Purvi got engaged to someone else
Purvi, for once did not feel anything for Arjun
While Arjun was intimidated by her
It was more of "liking"
Love is a strong word, if Arjun really loved Purvi he would never marry someone else. No matter how much that person insisted. If Arjun was really in love with Purvi , he would beg Ovi to not do this to him
If Purvi really loved Arjun , giving him up and forcing him on her sister wouldn't be so easy
Purvi never cared about Arjun's happiness
Neither did Ovi, but at least she set him free now
She realized
Whereas Purvi is still leading onir on and leading Arjun on as well
As for Purvi not consummating her marriage
Well she was pregnant mostly in the beginning and trust me in the next couple of episodes they will
Purvi did suggest sex today
And the day is not away when they actually consummate their marriage
If Arjun even loved Ovi as a friend , he would let her move on and not bother her since he loves Purvi and only Purvi (what many think)
If Purvi only loved Arjun , she would think of him , she would not force him into an unhappy marriage
And pallavi Di,
Preity's love in KHNH was much purer and much felt than this love
Shahrukh gave up everything for preity
Preity bowed down to his wish
Saif loved preity and eventually they had a successful marriage because they loved each other
Shahrukh didn't listen to PZ's mindless wishes
When Shahrukh requested her to marry saif she did because it was his last wish

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