@Umaji couple of points I disagree with you regarding Alaipayuthe. The song Snehathine happens before physical intimacy. The pining of Sakthi to intimate with Karthik is beautifully told in the below lines of this song
" Sonnathellam pakallile purive, nee sollathathum iraville purivu( What ever you have told me are the secrets of the day, you are yet to share with me the secrets of night 😊). Umaji this was the most passionate song in the whole movie more passionate than kadhal sadu kudu which shows the actual physical intimacy.
In SURYA's case I am not talking about the time before Singapore track. It is after Singapore track, after they are slowly becoming closer. I couldnt feel the intensity in her love. And that Oct episode when he tries to come close to her and he holds his hands. The saddest part for me in that episode was her silence. After that episode when Sooraj went on asking her what is the problem she kept mum. So he took his own intrepratations for it ie she is trying to sacrifice her dream by doing her wifely duties.She topped that up by another bhasan of hers on karva chauth " mein achi patni, achi bahu banna chahti hoon, woh sapna sandhya kothari ka tha, sandhya rathi ka nahi..blah blah 😊😊
Does she think Sooraj is an idiot who believes what she says, cannot read her eyes, the pain in them. So he took the decision based on what he interpretated. She didnt make any attempt to change perception also. Hence my whole point she has to open up, else with current perception about her inhibitions Sooraj is not going to take initiative.
One more thing Umaji pining happens from the heart , physical intimacy is the secondary part of it is my firm belief. Else how could I see the intensity of love in Kamali's eyes in Kaadal kotai when she has not even seen her lover once.
Also as I am also married please dont kill me, my experience also had been the same 😊. Even during the courting period( I had an arranged marriage and the time I am telling is after engagement) if I didnt get a call from him I used to miss him like anything. I still remember the incident one month into our engagement. He ha told me on friday he is going home. But for whole saturday i was not getting him. Whenever I tried his cellphone the message I was getting was " Phone number switched off" . I was worried. My hesitation didnt allow me to speak to my mom, I was not in a position to call his home, question was what will they think if I call and enquire. But each passing minute was a pain to me as I was also not getting the call from him. It was my youngest aunt who helped me that day. Seeing my face she felt something wrong and asked me. I am free with her and I told her the issue. She said dont worry. She dialled his home number, introduced herself and told she just called to speak to my would be in a cheery voice to my sis-in- law. When he came she spoke for sometime and handed over the phone to me.
Problem was his mobile phone was having problem and it had been given for repair. he wanted to call me but was hesitant as how he will call from the landphone 😊😊.
The point I am telling is someone could read from my face my dilemma.
Sandhya to Sooraj ke saath hain for past 1 year plus. I have never seen her pining for him, except the SV2 segment. That is why I told she has to communicate 😊😊 so that Sooraj feels more open and they can build their relationship.
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