The state of this forum... you said it ALL. It is shocking and deeply worrying how some girls and women on this forum have no idea what abuse or self respect are. And this is the precise reason why I don't want this serial to end with madhu and rk all happy everafter like every other serial. The msg will be re-enforced that its ok for men to treat girls like crap and if she loves him enough he will change and they will be happy togather. š¤¢
...a great number of naive viewers, just because he is sexy and sarcastic stupidly think that its because of his terrible past, its just his ego...once he realises he loves her blah blah blah!!
1. Yes it makes good viewing. For a while. For some people, it seems all the time!!
2. Yes I will continue to watch so long as the show has more than bullying, abuse and control of Madhu by Rk and eye locks between the two.
3. Its good that romantic heroes are being shown that are not, as Gautam Hegde (one of the writers of the show) has said in the past, just Sri Ramchandra types. But now having taken the step with IPKKND, of showing abusive, controlling boyfriend/husband the next step needs to be taken:
RK is no Sri Ramchandra and Madubala is no Sita. Infact even Sita left permanently the 2nd time round!! And it wasn't even her husband who was pointing fingers at her!!
SHOW THAT MADHU REJECTS RK, IF NOT MID WAY THEN DEFINITELY AT THE END.
No matter what twists and turns the show takes...
No matter whether Madhu ends up with Sultan temporarily or permanently...
No matter if Madhu ends up with RK temporarily
So far as everything that has been shown about him, even a student psychologist or psychiatrist would recognize him as a psychopath. Psychopathy is not a curable disorder. CVs do not end this show by sending out the msg that guys like this CHANGE. In real life they do not.
No wonder Indian women and girls are treated the worst in the world!! You watch abuse like this EVERY evening on TV from childhood onwards and it ends with the guy saying "sorry, I love you" and its all ok and they live happily ever after???!!! THAT DOES NOT HAPPEN IN REAL LIFE. The countless number of girls and women, who think that her boyfriend/man/husband will change only if she loves him enough, or does what he wants etc etc, is SHOCKING!
Oh and for all those who think it doesn't influence you, and you know the difference between your real life and what you enjoy watching??? If ALL of us were not being influenced, advertising which is a mulit-billion dollar industry would not exist.
Serials, not just adverts, what we watch and come across everyday influences ALL of us, whether we realise it or not!! Its a proven fact.
HAVE MADHUBALA SHOW SELF RESPECT AT LEAST AT THE END!!!
Link below to my original topic if you want to see the kind of response it got
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3525939
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