Thu to Singhs! Thumbs up Jagya!

Okay. I had doubted Jagya but in today's episode his refusal to go and meet Anandi at Udaipur was an applaud-worthy moment.

How foolish are DS, Gehna and Sumitra?!!

How can you think of sending a woman's ex-husband to visit her just after her marriage? Let her first adjust and fit completely in the family. Maybe they can later keep meeting as acquaintainces but when you know your son tried to stop their wedding and even later kept thinking of Anandi and is still in process of moving on then WHY THE HELL are you pushing him towards her?!!

DS and Sumitra are foolish and hopeless who seem to lose sense of what is appropriate and inappropriate. But Gehna? Where did her wisdom go? It seems her brain was also replaced after original Gehna left! 🤢

I was surprised why even Bhairon did not object to DS and Sumitra's stupid proposal! He only made a face.

DS is such a hypocrite! She kept Anandi's biological parents as away from her as possible! Whereas herself as self styled "maika" of Anandi she and other Singhs forever interfere in Anandi's life! Gehna's proposal that Jagya and Bhairon should land up at Shekhars' unannounced was SO stupid! Abhi se? We all know how DS used to make faces and humiliate Anandi, Khajan & Bhago whenever the poor parents visited or the little girl forgot all her maryada to run and hug her maa and bapu! 😡
No offence to Jagya fans but I find the Basant-Gehna-Jagya-IVF angle funny! Aakhir Jagya hai kis cheez ka doctor? An MBBS can treat any patient? He can do anything from surgery on heart to delivering babies and doing IVF procedures?

Same for Lal Singh! Yeh kis cheez ka doctor hai? Neuro?Gynae? What? LOL @ daaktari in BV! 😉

The precap was odd. Does it mean Jagya also subconsciously want to visit Anandi? Aap ki mehnat bekaar nahi jaane dunga is no excuse. They are a large family and can eat themselves or distribute to the poor. Also hasn't Jagya let his family's mehnat go bekaar several times in past by leaving food (hehe! He ditched the hospital and whole haveli also for years for sacha pyar and zindagi mein aage badhne ki khwahish!). So what if some fruits and matthis go waste now?

Happy to see Anandi's car crossed away Jagya's car in opposite direction! RELIEF!

Poor guy will get frustrated again when he visits Shekhars and learns she left for honeymoon. All due to fault of bullshit Singhs who don't let him move on!

That Sumitra could visit Mumbai to slap Jagya. Couldn't she accompany him to Udaipur and visit Shekhars herself? Tamashebaaz woman with no sense of what's appropriate and what's not!

She thinks remarriage is an instant solution for Jagya! But herself forgets what's her duty in helping Jagya move on from the past!

yes i m also upset with ds sumitra gehna behaviour .pata hai sub pur phir bhi jagya ko bhej rahi hain .why cant sumitra dadisa give mathri by them selves to anandi .why to send jagya to give anandi mathri

well after reading your post i am super angry at Singhs Have not seen episode yet how idiots of them 🤢 How they can ask Jagaya such a thing?

Sumitra, DS and Gehna should have thought about Shekhars also. Just because they are jovial and permissive. It does not mean it is appropriate to send their DIL's ex-husband to their house with gifts. And just because Anandi & Shiv never object to anything they do it does not mean you can take them, their personal life for granted! DS saying that she'd call Anandi right now to inform them of Jagya & Bhairon's visit was LIMIT! She totally forgets that others may have a personal space of their own?

Things around a newly married couple have to be handled so carefully. But here stupid Singhs keep taking everyone for granted!

I think it's high time Bhairon butted in and counseled the entire family to stop Anandi jaap in front of Jagya and also for the time being stop pushing Anandi and Jagya towards each other on some pretext or the other. More than Ganga's lectures it is Bhairon's strict and rational intervention that is needed to make sure family doesn't create hurdles in process of Jagya starting his life afresh!

How can Jaggu fully move on then?

Also such things can create problems in Anandi's life also as her marriage is new and Sanchi/Ira sometimes suspect her for not loving Shiv or for beng the reason for JaAn marriage break up. Singhs do not give a thought to anything and jump and blurt out like clowns!

No wonder Jagya and Sugna had problems in personal life despite being good at heart! Foolish family they had that failed to guide them!

Originally posted by: surabhi01

yes i m also upset with ds sumitra gehna behaviour .pata hai sub pur phir bhi jagya ko bhej rahi hain .why cant sumitra dadisa give mathri by them selves to anandi .why to send jagya to give anandi mathri

jagya take nice step today but this ds inko abhi aur sudharna baaki hai

Sachi mein! This trinity of DS-Sumitra-Gehna gets on my nerves! Umar ke saath akal bhi chali gayi kya?

Aur Anandi ke moh mein yeh log Jagya ki nazukh haalat kyun bhool jaate hain?!

He's slowly re-starting from a scratch. So much guilt and burden of past attachment on his mind. He needs to be handled carefully. Lekin inn auraton ka dimaag kharaab hai!

I am very unhappy at character assassination of Gehna. Such a powerful character reduced to a silly bimbo!

Hadh karte hain yeh! Sumitra can only go possessive for Jagya. But rarely uses some sense as a mother and a guide! Faltu!

Well, I think Singhs were only excited to do something for Anandi, so in their excitement they suggested all that stuff, but the moment J said, that he won't go, no one objected or questioned. They all agreed with and respected his feelings.

well jagya ki shadi jaldi se ho ya phir gauri ke paas jaye jisse gauri ya new wife jagya ko anandi ke paas na jane den

@Missesha

I understand. But their not questioning Jagya's refusal does nothing.

Excitement is justified. But if they are so excited then why can't DS or Sumitra go there then?

Also what they suggested was inappropriate both for Jagya and Anandi.

Subconsciously Jagya is still struggling to move on from past. He instantly changed his NO to a YES when he learnt that the event was being held at Udaipur. And now he agreed to deliver the goods for them to Anandi's house if Bhairon was not there. Where did his resolute "NO" go then? (I do not blame him much here. Fault lies with his BS family for initiating it)

I did not call Singhs hypocrites for sending J there. I called DS (only DS!) hypocrite for barging in or calling them whenever she felt like whereas she herself used to keep her own beendnis' parents & siblings at arm's length!

There is no justification for calling a newly married couple anytime or thinking you can go unannounced for some so called surprise or sending the girl's ex husband with gifts to her house.

Singhs still have not learnt to respect others' personal space. Or remember that others can also have a life of their own.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

well jagya ki shadi jaldi se ho ya phir gauri ke paas jaye jisse gauri ya new wife jagya ko anandi ke paas na jane den

Yaar!! I want Jagya to be left alone to figure out for himself what he wants in life! Family should stop meddling in his life and each one trying to mold his delicate mindset nowadays!

Let him move on, become self confident, regain self esteem, find himself and then decide for himself whether he wants to remarry, go back to Gauri or who to remarry!! I don't want any bride imposed on him.

I'd appreciate it (in case he loves Ganga) if he confesses his love himself and declares he wants to marry her instead of anyone else "enlightening" him that he marry her! Just let him be na!

CV has done excellent job today by showing the real feelings...if Gehna said some thing, it was not unatural ...it happens ..Anandi is their daughter and the Singhs have never comromised or went backward at any step at the cost of Jagya...They never have any other priorirty except Anandi and..so on..Their true love to Anandi and feelings are uncompromised.