Originally posted by: SiriuslySujal
This is the first thing I thought when I read about this track. In the past, Anandi and Shiv were equals in tackling things related to social work, such as the swine flu crisis, the neher project etc. Granted, then Anandi was on 'home turf' and was working side by side with Shiv in her sarpanch capacity. But she was doing stuff like running her school and stopping child marriages way before she became sarpanch. It just doesn't seem in Anandi's nature to me to not focus on social causes. Yeah, she's in love and in the honeymoon phase, but that's no reason for her to completely lose her essence.
I definitely agree with those who say that her character has undergone a revamp. It really doesn't help smoothen the transition that Anandi's current behaviour (independent of Toral's acting) seems to be inconsistent with her past behaviour. I am surprised that she didn't feel the loss of having something socially impactful to do after moving from Jaitsar to Udaipur. Generally, when someone's passionate about something, they feel restless if they are not directing at least some of their energy towards that purpose. Anandi, on the other hand, seems content with performing her housewively duties... and while there's nothing whatsoever wrong with being a housewife and I mean absolutely no slight towards any housewives on this forum, there was always an indication that Anandi would make something of herself beyond just being Shiv's wife, and that the partnership would be more equal, with both of them working together and using their individual unique talents to benefit the wider community. And at the moment, that's really not looking like it's going to happen...
Another thing I feel is that before the move to Udaipur, she and Shiv should have sat down and had a chat about what HER plans were for the move. As Anandi's husband, a previous resident of Udaipur and its soon-to-be collector, who better than him to suggest social work-related things for her to do while in Udaipur? in I didn't watch the episodes in question, so someone please correct me if I'm wrong, but I gather Shiv was more concerned about her moving away from Jaitsar and her family and less concerned about what she would actually DO once in Udaipur. It's like he assumed that she would be content with being a housewife, which is pretty out of character for him. In fact, I know a lot of us had Shiv pegged as the man who would instill more confidence in Anandi, encourage her to pursue her dreams, support her and help her push through any moments of self-doubt, etc etc., in order to show the social message that a good husband supports his wife in the things she wants to do and encourage and bask in her success rather than feeling insecure and jealous and resentful (like Jagya was about Gauri being more successful than him). And he's definitely not doing any of that right now. But who can blame him when Anandi herself seems to have zero impetus to do anything socially relevant any more and is suddenly acting like she has no idea about the basics of what Shiv's profession involves despite having worked side-by-side with him for the best part of a year? AnSh always understood each other's passion and drive for social work because they both shared similar sentiments when working together for the betterment of Jaitsar... for her to now prize Shiv's sleep over his need to help people and do his job in an important crisis situation is, frankly, an insult to the maturity and understanding of the Anandi I knew.
I apologise for the length of this post (and for any offence it may have caused anyone). But it just REALLY bothers me that a potentially path-breaking on-screen couple with a relationship previously based on trust, communication, common goals and mutual support are now being reduced to a run-of-the-mill kitchen politics jodi. The CVs can't do much about the chemistry issue... that is subjective, and no amount of romantic Kashmir footage is going to convince anyone who doesn't already support the current jodi. But they can at LEAST attempt to maintain the credibility of Anandi's character and the essence of the AnSh we once knew.