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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hello!

I am not here to please any fans nor am i here to promote any pair.. but all i want to do now is to express my opinion.

Nowadays, I am coming across lots of fights between which pair's relationship is pavitra rishta. In my opinion, I have no answer to that.. whether or not a relationship is pavitra rishta or not really depends on the two people who are in the relationship. We cant judge as an outsider.

Next, I know Arvi fans want to see Purvi and Arjun back together again. But place urself in the shoes of Purvi, if you were already married to someone, would even betray the one whom you had married to and go to another man. Yes you loved him. But if circumstances has pushed you away from the one you loved, you got to accept it and move on. Sometimes, we got to understand that, destiny holds something else from what our heart desires. If really, Arvi had to unite, I think then they certainly got to remove Onir and Ovi character off but other than that, I dun see any real sense in Purvi managing to get back to Arjun. I am sure, this is happening everywhere, you love one but get married to another. So the drama is just depicting this aspect of a ladies life.

Now to Punir fans, Its truly rare that a woman meets a guy whom would sacrifice his entire life for her. Onir has accepted Purvi for who she is and has supported her. Yes, they might not be in love.. well its one sided love.. but i feel both of them, respect the bondage of marriage. Marriage isnt a joke. Once its made, you have to live up to it and the vows you have made. I feel Onir and Purvi have lived up to it. Supporting one another in difficult times and all. At this present track, its only fair that this two move on in life and bring their marriage to the next stage.. they are already married, they are no two ways about it. In the indian culture, ladies are taught to amend and live in marriage and not to break it when they feel its not right. Only if its really extreme cases of torture,then perhaps a divorce would do. but other than that, its not right to break a marriage off, i feel. In this aspect, I feel the drama is depicting the right sense. they are bringing Punir closer. If they were to just let Arvi wonder off and have affair behind their partners, then trust me they spoiling the term "Pavitra Rishta".

If at all they have plans to unite Arvi, they should do it decently. But as of now, the current track, is right in my opinion.

I have always admired Arvi while they lasted and now Punir is also awesome. :) Once again these are just my opinions. there is no need to bash me. feel free to have your opinions! :)

Love,
Sneha

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vandithajeru thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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wow you have analysed it correctly😊 sometimes you are left with no options but to move on
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: vandithajeru

wow you have analysed it correctly😊 sometimes you are left with no options but to move on



😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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what about arjun pari
i just have one point to say
In the indian culture, ladies are taught to amend and live in marriage
i would never agree to this point of yours
just my pov no offence meant
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: naomihyuga

what about arjun pari

i just have one point to say
In the indian culture, ladies are taught to amend and live in marriage
i would never agree to this point of yours
just my pov no offence meant

i second u kali
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: naomihyuga

what about arjun pari

i just have one point to say
In the indian culture, ladies are taught to amend and live in marriage
i would never agree to this point of yours
just my pov no offence meant

Count me too.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Arjun and pari ? There is no court and custody. ?
Parents don't raise children in different homes ?
I don't see how pari has to be the reason to reunite the pavitra pair
As for the TM , all she is saying is when Purvi married Onir , they didn't have the condition that if pari meets her biological father she will go ahead and reunite with her biological father and live happily ever after.
It's only fair Purvi lives with someone who loves her and supports her.
I know Arjun loves her too but they both have reached that stage where there relationship will only hurt everyone
If Purvi has feelings for Onir , she shouldn't be obliged to go back to Arjun because of Pari
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Arjun and pari ? There is no court and custody. ?
Parents don't raise children in different homes ?
I don't see how pari has to be the reason to reunite the pavitra pair
As for the TM , all she is saying is when Purvi married Onir , they didn't have the condition that if pari meets her biological father she will go ahead and reunite with her biological father and live happily ever after.
It's only fair Purvi lives with someone who loves her and supports her.
I know Arjun loves her too but they both have reached that stage where there relationship will only hurt everyone
If Purvi has feelings for Onir , she shouldn't be obliged to go back to Arjun because of Pari



How about Arjun? How would it be fair for him? Sure, Purvi has her loving, caring doctor that's willing to even switch babies and lie to a mother for her love, but why is Arjun totally being ignored? Even the baby couldn't bring him and Ovi closer, instead it created a rift. But wow, it's sad how reputation and honor wins over love. Guess it's a point of view type of thing, but I highly disagree upon it. Maybe if so many people didn't doubt Arvi's love and actually tried to fix the mess they created...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: arjunpurvixo



How about Arjun? How would it be fair for him? Sure, Purvi has her loving, caring doctor that's willing to even switch babies and lie to a mother for her love, but why is Arjun totally being ignored? Even the baby couldn't bring him and Ovi closer, instead it created a rift. But wow, it's sad how reputation and honor wins over love. Guess it's a point of view type of thing, but I highly disagree upon it. Maybe if so many people didn't doubt Arvi's love and actually tried to fix the mess they created...



Arjun dug his grave when he listened to Purvi's mindless requests. Purvi will always have a soft corner for Arjun but she now has feelings for Onir. And now she should go ahead and sacrifice again for Arjun?
Arjun is rich , powerful he will be able to take care of Pari alone.
Why can't he , single fathers all over the world are raising children?
Arjun did have someone who loved him a lot , Ovi. But things didn't workout between them.
And now arjun has the opportunity to go ahead and start over
Why shouldn't he ?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sneha, thank you for a beautiful post. We must recognise that life does not happen as per our wishes, but fate will decide what is best for us. We must accept that we are not the controllers of our own destiny. When we accept this we become content.
Purvi has acepted her destiny and so has Onir. that is why no matter what situation thye find themselves in they always come out better and stronger in the end.
Arjun is beginning to accept his destiny. He hasn't reached contentment yet, but will get there soon.
Ovi is the one who rails against fate and remains unhappy.
Your fate is decided when you are born. Pari's fate is already decided.

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