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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: FingerFetish


A gigantic THANK YOU for this marvelous post. Virtually throwing rose petals at the screen.

🤣...h aha...as soon as i read your comment the song "baharoon phool barsao" came to mind...he he...but i agree...awesome post...mirrors my emotions!
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: leverne

what an awesome thread u hv here...read thru all of the pages...

take a bow nisha...

Glad i found ur post coz i usually dont venture in the main forum...now i realise what am i missing :)

THANKS


Thank you!!! 😳 😳
wow you read through all the pages.
Actually usually in the main forum you will find several threads where they have genuine constructive criticism going on. You might wanna visit more. If for no other reason then we need more people you who wish to contribute to the constructive criticism threads.

Edited by ---Nisha--- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
RK is acting like Virat from Subhagyavati Bhava on lifeok! exactly like the crazy psychotic husband he was!!

I am sick of RK and his minions using his past as an excuse! i am sorry but your father committing suicide cant be ur excuse for everything bad you do like become an extremely abusive man!! You know what lets look into Madhu's past where her own father tried to kill her again and again and still she isnt going around feeling sorry for herself right? or trying to physically and mentally abuse others?

The pathetic thing is that before madhu, he was verbally abusive towards his mother and when he found madhu she became his new toy to play with!! He actually has no actual justification for his behaviour!!

And god why introduce her as a 'girl of today'; strong and principled when all she has turned into is a robot; of course who is programmed by her 'husband' (seriously four pheras people, does that even count as a marriage??) so she MUST act as he wants her to!! did she not learn anything from her parent's marriage?? what was the point of that lecture then?
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: T4YY4B4

RK is acting like Virat from Subhagyavati Bhava on lifeok! exactly like the crazy psychotic husband he was!!


I am sick of RK and his minions using his past as an excuse! i am sorry but your father committing suicide cant be ur excuse for everything bad you do like become an extremely abusive man!! You know what lets look into Madhu's past where her own father tried to kill her again and again and still she isnt going around feeling sorry for herself right? or trying to physically and mentally abuse others?

The pathetic thing is that before madhu, he was verbally abusive towards his mother and when he found madhu she became his new toy to play with!! He actually has no actual justification for his behaviour!!

And god why introduce her as a 'girl of today'; strong and principled when all she has turned into is a robot; of course who is programmed by her 'husband' (seriously four pheras people, does that even count as a marriage??) so she MUST act as he wants her to!! did she not learn anything from her parent's marriage?? what was the point of that lecture then?
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agree with you friend100%
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: butterfly15..

I've seen some comparisons between Maan/ASR and RK. But in my opinion there is no comparison.

Maan and ASR both hurt the women they loved, and both insulted them, but never to the extreme level of RK. I'm not saying it was justified, just that their behaviour was nowhere near as bad as RK's.

Both Maan and ASR had redeeming qualities. Both after declaring their love and fully accepting their partners, changed their ways.

The biggest difference for me is the back-story.
People keep saying RK had a troubled past, he was hurt and therefore has trust issues and treats people like crap. But really most of it is rubbish, the only person who truly hurt him was Deepali and that's it.
ASR however had reasons to have trust issues due to his parents and Shyam etc. I mean when did we see Madhu and Sultan hug? Shyam and Khushi didn't but it looked that way so it was understandable that he was suspicious. Not correct however.
I would understand RK having trust issues, but not him treating people like crap, ASR didn't use his past as an excuse to hurt others.

Most importantly for me is that even though both Maan/ASR were angry young men who lost their temper, they still cared about other people's feelings. They loved their families and would do anything for them. They never intentionally tried to hurt everyone that they loved. If they hurt anyone they would realise it instantly and they regretted their actions and apologized.. In time. They had feelings and emotions, But mainly they just didn't treat their wives the way RK has treated Madhu.

RK most of the time seems to have no feelings whatsoever, apart for himself. He does wrong and believes he is entitled to do that wrong. He believes he is allowed to hurt Madhu however much he can, and yet Madhu HAS to love him. He doesn't ever realise just the extent of pain he has caused Madhu or anyone else for that matter. We don't see him regret his actions, forget apologizing. He believes he can do whatever he likes because he is a superstar. He believes he is entitled to have Madhu and goes to the extent of handcuffing her to him and his bed!

Now I know we're not allowed to compare but I just had to say this, the reason being that people should realise that not all men that do wrong are as inhuman as RK. People also seem to justify RK's actions by saying if fans could love ASR/Maan then why not RK? But there's a lot of difference between these characters.

Also just because Drashti was a part of Geet and people loved it, I feel like some RK fans are simply trying to attack Maan and make it seem like he is as bad as RK, but he wasn't not in my opinion anyway.
The argument I always hear is that Maan twisted Geet's arm once, but they forget no-one said it was ok. But here whatever RK does goes, it's because of his dark past etc.👏👏👏


Very well-said. One more thing about the troubled past issue- when you have a troubled past- you keep it hidden, private, locked up from intruders. What you don't do is peddling it to manipulate other people into feeling sorry for you and loving you.
About the last line- EXACTLY. Liking a character does not mean you justify everything he does. (You know what, even if I didn't stop liking RK after the Holi episode, I think the way his actions are being justified in this forum would have been enough to make me anti-Rishabala)
Edited by nobodyatnotime - 13 years ago

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