I should also mention the Madhubala forum is very good at taking an opinion and behaving respectfully toward all its members. Only talking from my experience of it which has been limited. There are some really mature moderators there who deal with unruly commenters very quickly. And the members too disagree and take disagreements as they are meant. Respectfully and tolerantly.
Yes, we are all here because we like the show but of recent times I have been a lot of respectful arguments and opinions getting shut down here with personal attacks because someone or other is offended you disagreed with them. So can we decide if we are a forum or a fanclub? Can we agree that IF is where F stands for FORUM and agree to welcome everyone with different points of views?
Yes, we are in a public forum with 9 year olds and over-zealous fans personally attacking members for writing a criticism. But we have good mods. Can we try being more tolerant of people who write supposedly "negative" posts?
Mary