SaMud: They're septic and antiseptic.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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By not telling everyone the truth earlier, I think Saras and Kumud underestimated the Desais and overestimated how much their hearts can take. Over the weeks, it wasn't hard to miss how much these two unhinged each other. And from where I see, they got messed up a bit too much in the process. They didn't know how to handle this new emotion the other person made them feel and this led to them doing what hurt their loved ones: hiding something everyone deserved to know about. But today, they're willing to face it's consequences. They have the guts to right the wrong they have unintentionally caused to the Desais.

But what about them? Who would right the wrong they did to their own hearts by not listening to it? To their own emotions by not heeding to them? To their own feelings by not admitting to them? The Saras and the Kumud I saw today looked every bit like the people with shattered dreams that they are. They've been hurting far too long and their emotions are a bleeding septic now. Ironically, though, they're also the ones who are an antiseptic for nursing each other's broken heart. No one else can do it for them because the way the make each other feel, no one else ever has or ever can. They hurt each other but they're also the only people who can soothe each other's pain. THAT is how complex their relationship is.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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thats also one way to cope up with the heart break

u try to think everything other than urself

such wounds take long time to heal and what feel is its better to take time and think rather than react instantly...coz longer it takes the better ur decision is coz it comes after weighing all pros and cons
Edited by shana0127 - 12 years ago
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Neeti...
I love your first paragraph the most ... How you have mentioned SaMud together in creating the blunder ! 👏 till yesterday all were sympathizing with kumud and Saras was dumb to put her in problem ...
I feel they both are responsible ... I read that today kumud was blasting Saras ! Why ??? You too were an equal partner right? 😳 and the most non sensible character that stood out to me in this fiasco was unfortunately guniyal! 😡 how can she seriously blame a man for the mess just because he rejected her dikri ! 🤔
I made a post about how somehow it is the family only who have fed the pride in kumud that she is perfect ! Because unfortunately in real world people are rejected if the other side does not call them back again ! this is the reason why I did not like guniyal shutting up like this ! SaMud were out ... What did she do to stop the tamasha !? And cvs took cinematic liberty a bit as in reality no mother would allow her daughter to roam around with the guy she knows will only remain a stranger ! writers should have kept her the actual softy only who would have quietly told Saras to go his way ! Rather than her blame game !

Ditto about these two hurting each other ! I do hope kumud realizes she can't blame Saras only for the mess as she too (also being The Desai daughter) underestimated the calamity ! It would be more helpful if they show her repenting for it then playing a blame game with Saras ! 😆
Today indirectly guniyal and kumud gave a green signal to saras's belief that the more he attaches or tries to help someone e will push himself away from them !
Hopefully the new spoiler is true and these two realize their bond in their alone times in town ! 😎 but guniyal slapping kumud ! Grrr ! Again a psychotic twist to her character !
Truly septic and antiseptic for each other they are ! 😳

Kumud needs to take out the -I will hurt people- septic from Saras by the antiseptic of her love and staying by his side ... Saras needs take out the -I don't want to listen to anyone else than me- septic from kumud by beating up her level with his antiseptic of his effects on her !
Edited by -Khush- - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Wonderful post; I loved your title.

@Khush: Kumud needs to take out the -I will hurt people- septic from Saras by the antiseptic of her love and staying by his side ... Saras needs take out the -I don't want to listen to anyone else than me- septic from kumud by beating up her level with his antiseptic of his effects on her !

Beautifully written.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Samsangeetha

Wonderful post; I loved your title.

@Khush: Kumud needs to take out the -I will hurt people- septic from Saras by
the antiseptic of her love and staying by his side ... Saras needs take
out the -I don't want to listen to anyone else than me- septic from
kumud by beating up her level with his antiseptic of his effects on her !

Beautifully written.


Thank you ! 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with u, they r septic and antiseptic! Awesome post!
Edited by Mauzma - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: shana0127

thats also one way to cope up with the heart break

u try to think everything other than urself

such wounds take long time to heal and what feel is its better to take time and think rather than react instantly...coz longer it takes the better ur decision is coz it comes after weighing all pros and cons


Basically distraction and denial. Sounds about right for them.
Well, I don't know how much I agree with you on the time factor but as far as SaMud are concerned they won't react instantly anyways because they're hurting but sadly, they don't know why.

Originally posted by: -Khush-

Neeti...
I love your first paragraph the most ... How you have mentioned SaMud together in creating the blunder ! 👏 till yesterday all were sympathizing with kumud and Saras was dumb to put her in problem ...
I feel they both are responsible ... I read that today kumud was blasting Saras ! Why ??? You too were an equal partner right? 😳 and the most non sensible character that stood out to me in this fiasco was unfortunately guniyal! 😡 how can she seriously blame a man for the mess just because he rejected her dikri ! 🤔
I made a post about how somehow it is the family only who have fed the pride in kumud that she is perfect ! Because unfortunately in real world people are rejected if the other side does not call them back again ! this is the reason why I did not like guniyal shutting up like this ! SaMud were out ... What did she do to stop the tamasha !? And cvs took cinematic liberty a bit as in reality no mother would allow her daughter to roam around with the guy she knows will only remain a stranger ! writers should have kept her the actual softy only who would have quietly told Saras to go his way ! Rather than her blame game !

Ditto about these two hurting each other ! I do hope kumud realizes she can't blame Saras only for the mess as she too (also being The Desai daughter) underestimated the calamity ! It would be more helpful if they show her repenting for it then playing a blame game with Saras ! 😆
Today indirectly guniyal and kumud gave a green signal to saras's belief that the more he attaches or tries to help someone e will push himself away from them !
Hopefully the new spoiler is true and these two realize their bond in their alone times in town ! 😎but guniyal slapping kumud ! Grrr ! Again a psychotic twist to her character !
Truly septic and antiseptic for each other they are ! 😳

Kumud needs to take out the -I will hurt people- septic from Saras by the antiseptic of her love and staying by his side ... Saras needs take out the -I don't want to listen to anyone else than me- septic from kumud by beating up her level with his antiseptic of his effects on her !


Long time, Khushboo! You even changed your username! And goodness, you should make this into a separate post, no kidding!

Honestly, the whole Saras-hate got to me as well today because like you said, he wasn't the only one to be blamed. In fact, he did wish to tell the truth and go away long back. It was Kumud who requested him to stay back till VC gets better. But Kumud too realises that she probably made a mistake. And yes, she did blast him but she blames herself as well. I won't say much on Guniyal because she was too harsh today but she is also going through a lot with losing her hubby's trust and all so let's give her time. And Dukhbaa was mostly angry at Saras for rejecting Kumud than hiding the truth. And she just wanted him to stay back and help Kumud clean up the emotional mess. So all this is unfair on Saras, but when we look at it from their viewpoint, it seems fair for Saras to be in this with Kumud. More than anything, I'm a little tired of seeing Saras keeping quiet as well. He needs to speak up for himself 'coz no one else's is gonna do it for him this time. Let's wait and watch. I'm hoping these characters won't disappoint us.

Originally posted by: Samsangeetha

Wonderful post; I loved your title.

@Khush: Kumud needs to take out the -I will hurt people- septic from Saras by the antiseptic of her love and staying by his side ... Saras needs take out the -I don't want to listen to anyone else than me- septic from kumud by beating up her level with his antiseptic of his effects on her !

Beautifully written.


Thank you. And I love that last para of Khushboo's post the most too (=

Originally posted by: Mauzma



I agree with u, they r septic and antiseptic! Awesome post!


Thank you, dear!
Edited by -BlackBeauty- - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Very very well written! Its complex and surreal and complicated, and yet when things are meant to happen, they find a way! Such are the strange ways of love.. :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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nyc post agree with u
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Neethi... I know I rambled so much ! 🤣
I know guniyal is in problem ! And it happens in anger that he might blast Saras ! But her dialogues seem a bit extreme to me ! Last night she told Saras all this happened due to his rejection letter ! it came out as if she is saying Saras that all this drama is happening because of rejection --- that is what looks a bit of overdone because in reality no one has this much pride that the Desai ladies have that you cannot reject kumud ! 😆
And today all of a sudden Saras is not trustworthy!??? Did he cheat them? No ! Tht was dukhba's word as LN had cheated her by leavin her in Mandap, so its apt for her !
I actually liked dukhba today... She sooo understand Saras despite not bringing him up ! She knew that all this misery will only add upto his insecurities that started with his mother leaving him ... And he won't be in peace ... And so will kumud !they need to solve it ! 👏
I had expected DB to say unbearable harsh words to Saras ... But she is one character who has become a pleasant one from where we saw her ! SHe proved why she is his MAI!!! ⭐️
But guniyal turns me off as she was responsible as much as SaMud ... and now is all set to take barbs at him!
Whenever I see SaBa scenes I want to strangle LN for not seeing his kid's need of a mother and married what pleased his eyes ! 😡

Saras needs to speak up... Back of the mind he knows gumaan is doing all this... But he just doesn't pay too much attention as like that sweet feeding thing he mentally told that gumaan will make a tamasha as he doesn't want it ! So he doesn't care until he is spared ! I think his anger will only trigger when gumaan will play directly with kumud ! That's when he will speak up! 😎

I had made a post regarding the "hurt" that the Desai family is going through! This rejection though painful will teach kumud and I gues VC-gun a life thing that though every parent thinks their child is perfect and pretty ... The world doesn't see through the same lens! Rejection should only be remembered as a flaw that we want to overcome ! 😊
Saras needs to help kumud ... True that !
Edited by -Khush- - 12 years ago

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