I feel Jagya also deserves to be given some time. Let him heal fully, discover himself, get past old memories and become more self assured. Let him first gain some self confidence and raise his own respect in his own eyes (he feels guilty and his self image is still not normal).
I always dislike only one thing about treatment given to JaAn - that they never got a chance to steer their lives on their own! Anandi's re-marriage was forced on her. And now Jagya is being emotionally blackmailed into this. They're putting too much pressure on him too soon. It'd have been better if he himself someday would've expressed desire to move on or remarry. Everybody from Singhs to AnSh meddling in his life, treating his single status as a National Emergency and emotionally blackmailing him to marry again is not justified!
I do not have sympathy for Jagya. But I do feel he deserves to decide stuff his own way. I don't like how he's forever being "led" by someone or brainwashed by someone or the other - sometimes friends like Sundar, sometimes DS, then Gauri and her parents and now Singhs, Anandi etc. again!
Both Anandi and Jagya should've got to decide for marriage (or not) on their own. It's sad how both of them were coerced into remarriage.
Is it fair? Their child marriage was imposed on them without them knowing anything. Their separation during teens was imposed on them. And now their so-called new start in life and remarriages have also not been their OWN decisions - rather hurried way of DS to make up for the bal vivah blunder she'd committed! It's like adults ruined their lives first. Now they hurriedly want to make up and give the kids a "new direction"/"new start" in life!!
Anandi and Jagya should've themselves decided what they wanted in their lives. Instead of their parents and whole mohalla always doing something to them!