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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with your POV Suchi. But I also feel forcing Jagya is wrong. Anandi took a lot of months to cool off, get back to normal, discover herself and clean up her mind after divorce from Jagya. She did not marry anyone else or think of marriage even before formal divorce and kept trying different stuff to move on - during the time J wasn't with her.

I feel Jagya also deserves to be given some time. Let him heal fully, discover himself, get past old memories and become more self assured. Let him first gain some self confidence and raise his own respect in his own eyes (he feels guilty and his self image is still not normal).

I always dislike only one thing about treatment given to JaAn - that they never got a chance to steer their lives on their own! Anandi's re-marriage was forced on her. And now Jagya is being emotionally blackmailed into this. They're putting too much pressure on him too soon. It'd have been better if he himself someday would've expressed desire to move on or remarry. Everybody from Singhs to AnSh meddling in his life, treating his single status as a National Emergency and emotionally blackmailing him to marry again is not justified!

I do not have sympathy for Jagya. But I do feel he deserves to decide stuff his own way. I don't like how he's forever being "led" by someone or brainwashed by someone or the other - sometimes friends like Sundar, sometimes DS, then Gauri and her parents and now Singhs, Anandi etc. again!

Both Anandi and Jagya should've got to decide for marriage (or not) on their own. It's sad how both of them were coerced into remarriage.

Is it fair? Their child marriage was imposed on them without them knowing anything. Their separation during teens was imposed on them. And now their so-called new start in life and remarriages have also not been their OWN decisions - rather hurried way of DS to make up for the bal vivah blunder she'd committed! It's like adults ruined their lives first. Now they hurriedly want to make up and give the kids a "new direction"/"new start" in life!!

Anandi and Jagya should've themselves decided what they wanted in their lives. Instead of their parents and whole mohalla always doing something to them!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#32
Anandi knows Jagya still loves her. She is using her power over him to get him to agree to what she wants.
Thats emotional blackmail.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Skepblun



Anandi and Jagya should've themselves decided what they wanted in their lives. Instead of their parents and whole mohalla always doing something to them!


I wish the same too...I don't know why CVs don't think that way. Its really sad that they are giving this message that what elders ask you to do is always for the good...their BalVivah did not turn out to be good, and it was the doing of elders. perhaps the CVs want to redeem the Singhs of their wrongdoing by getting Jagiya happily married, but to me that is not the right course of action at this moment. He desreves to be given a chance in life, because he was wronged too, but marriage is not the right answer at this moment. He has to work hard and regain his self-esteem before even trying to think of starting a family. At this time he is a broken man, who needs time to heal and rebuild his image through hard work and service to community, and which is what he is doing. To broach the subject of marriage makes no sense to me at this point.

BTW, i have not seen Saturday's episode yet, so my cooment is based on last few days episodes.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice Episode.

But dragging jagya to marriage like dragging a kid to school is utterly wrong. I see the implications. The kind of person Gauri is, without a proper closure she will come back to make lives and living horrible.

I am very surprised, that Anandi didn't even a hoot about Gauri. The kind of person she is she would have never left a important point like this. Even she didn't ask him about his closure with Anandi. I thought Bhairon would ask. But I am disappointed with both of my fav's. They forgot the person whoo has the potential of putting jagaya behing bars and show them hel on earth. And by the way with the weapon she has now, her and jagya's kid. Everyone is bound to suffer for this impulsive decision especially the innocent person whom jagat is going to marry.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashahai_aamanke

Nice Episode.

But dragging jagya to marriage like dragging a kid to school is utterly wrong. I see the implications. The kind of person Gauri is, without a proper closure she will come back to make lives and living horrible.

I am very surprised, that Anandi didn't even a hoot about Gauri. The kind of person she is she would have never left a important point like this. Even she didn't ask him about his closure with Anandi. I thought Bhairon would ask. But I am disappointed with both of my fav's. They forgot the person whoo has the potential of putting jagaya behing bars and show them hel on earth. And by the way with the weapon she has now, her and jagya's kid. Everyone is bound to suffer for this impulsive decision especially the innocent person whom jagat is going to marry.


Good point. Fodder for new track😔

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