waneeka and kools di next they will be discussing purvi's...ahem...performance. and that will be a pavitra conversation between lallu and pullu praising maya devi purvi. really! i wonder if RD and shakti burst out into fits of laughter during this scene. in reality that would be the most offensive and awkward convo in the history of the planet!
as far as ovi is concerned, i know you guys think she is behaving stupidly or cunningly but its niether of that. she is just behaving like a normal human being. she came to terms with her husband's past and is comfortable with it. she trusts arjun. there is no reason y she shudnt be able to trust her husband after nearly a year of marriage and a child. little does she know that her child even is a dhokha.
as far as she having purvi's things go: correction. arjun was never purvi's. no matter how much he loved her, the truth is purvi loved the man she converted arjun into. she did not love the man arjun was when he came from canada. infact she treated that practical intelligent nice workaholic like he was a spoilt rich idiot. he was a good person. he was making practical business decisions and she was treating them like attyachar against humanity. and interfering in her boss' decision with her emotionality crap. she made him into an emotional fool who doesn't take any of his commitments in life seriously. ovi had/has arjun's back no matter what he was/is like. arjun in every avatar has belonged to ovi. i agree her love wasnt mature. it may have been obsessive but its def a mature love now. purvi was a novelty whether he realises it or not. ovi just took back what was hers. i dont agree with the way she did it though.
as far as pari goes. a child does not owe a mother anything for bringing her into the world. the mother chooses to bring her into the world. the only thing children should be grateful for is the upbringing, the time, their maximum that your parents give you. their responsibility is to bring you up but they give up everything for it. they do a lot beyond their responsibility for you. and that is what you r suppose to be grateful for. and for pari that role is being fulfilled by ovi. she didnt ask for pari, purvi gave pari away. the child purvi discarded without a second thought is the child ovi treasures her every waking moment. i think any rational person can judge who deserves to be called pari's mother.
if birth relationship is what is the most important than archana, sulo and the deshmukhs should immediately discard purvi from their family and get a restraining order against her. all the crap she did for their 'bhalai' is only forgivable if she is their baby not if she is an outsider. then she is just a creepy stranger playing around with their lives. i for one have never believed that they should treat purvi any different from ovi or teju. she is their baby and they should treat her as such and they do- even more so than ovi. but in that context- ovi is pari's mummy. she is not varsha who ran away with soham. pari was given away to ovi (without ovi's knowledge). she is ovi's miracle and purvi's unwanted burden. even arjun just now decided to love her cause she is purvi's. a parent's love is unconditional and the only person giving that to pari is ovi. even more than arjun, pari is ovi's baby.