Are we the true MEIEJian/RishBala/SuluBala?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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After visiting the forum today, I was attracted towards making a post. I used to be a regular member of this forum all due to Rishbala, but when the CV's ruined the character of RK, I became a silent reader. The show was depressing enough, seeing the villainous smile on RK's face & Madhu's helpless cries. And then, there entered another character, called Gangster Sultan (Ok I am really NOT bashing the character of Sultan or making any kind of offensive post towards his fans) who was caught up in a mixture of emotions; pain, heartbreak, lost love & a father who thinks he is not an ideal father for his child. This then lead the story to go even down the road, all the character already in the story were already messed up and another entry of a confused character was a downfall for the story and the viewers. One thing that is seeming too amazing is how people are changing their preferences. The character of Sultan would have been great if there were no problems already in the show and then maybe we could see a light hearted or a triangular track but it doesn't really go on with the storyline atm (again my opinion).

This is the 1st forum I have seen (my opinion) on IF whose lead has two very different fan following and do not mix up to complete RishBala. First, there was a character called Mukund, many people gelled up for MukBala just because the did not like the male lead or the character of RK. After the road ended for the character, a majority of people came together and formed RishBala (which is what the show is about, MY OPINION; THE ONLY REASON I LOVED THE FORUM), but still, there remained a small minority who did not like the character of RK or Madhu which then lead to many differences of choice and many topics being closed down just because there were too many arguments going on. Then there started a season where RishBala were romantic, which again made some people say that the romance was heavy and RK had lost his charm, Then AGAIN, there came a time where the bitter truth came out; that everything that happened between the lead was a game; now this was the right opportunity for fights to start and there came the topics of RK being an abuser! Like seriously? Do you even know what abuser is? He never tried to hit her, beat her or even abuse her. Abusing is a totally different thing! Then there started how Madhu did this and that and how she did not sense it coming like seriously! If you were being cheated by the one you love the most, would you realise it. There was never a true separation in the story. RK's Id told him to take the revenge out even though he knew that he loved Madhu too much, but the humiliation blanked everything out. CV's tried to show that both the characters have really strong Ids which can lead to destruction.

Now here was a weak chain when Sultan entered. People who were annoyed quickly formed another pair which was then called SuluBala, Madhu being linked to someone for the third time. This shows how weak the bonding is between the lead fans that whenever there is a side track, the fans quickly form the bondings with it, whether it is temporary or not. We all have to solve the problems with each other as liking another pair is not an issue as long as it is in each's own post. The final thing comes into my mid is, if we can't make a decision whether we are RishBala or SuluBala, we should analyse the characters as individuals first because that is where the problem actually starts from.


I know half of my post will not even make sense but I can't help it. This is the only way to have my say.

And one last thing I would say, I AM A RishBala FAN AND DO NOT HAVE ANY PROBLEMS OR ISSUES WITH SuluBala or MukBala fans. WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT OPINIONS SO BETTER STICK TO OWN OPINIONS RATHER THAN GO INTO SOMEONE ELSES BUBBLE JUST TO POP IN YOUR OPINION INTO IT. THE POST IS PURELY DEDICATED TO ALL THE MEMBERS OF THE FORUM.

I Love DD, VD, AR. Let's just not fight over who is the best, can we? 😊

PS* Mods I AM NOT BASHING ANYONE, NO FANS, NOT CHARACTERS & NO LEAD ACTORS.

GOD BLESS YOU
Have a happy time 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I like your post... No u didnt bash anyone so don worry... Only thing is your post is rather neutral, so u can hardly see anyone replying... But thats okay, this is how the forum is and always be... The popular members or bashing/mocking posts always gets >100 likes and pages of comments...

Keeping that aside, what i loved about your post is the part u mentioned how people should be allowed to keep their opinion... Im a SulBala fan and let me tell u, my shipping wasnt because i hate rk or vd... I came to the show and forum because of SulBala... I started watching the show for Sultan, i admit... BEcause im a huge fan of Avinesh Rekhi from Chhal... And i always have been a fan of the couple in DD's previous show(not mentioning the name in case someone reports my comment)... Initially, way before rk entered, i used to watch this show... not regularly but i keep updated with WUs... OVer the time it was boring and i left... For almost a year i didnt watch any shows... Then i got hooked on Chhal after my fren recommendation... I became a huge huge fan of AR... And they ruined that show completely by making Aditi dead and all... I left the show before it ended ... And it was by chance i saw (5/3/13) episode(sultan entry)... AR entered the scene and thats it, that hooked me on and i been watching this show without fail... i went back and watch through the previous episodes and got the gist of story... I explaining all this because i don want people to have wrong idea that people like SulBala because of the chemistry alone... NO doubt, they have alot of spark... But its more than that... I genuinely love Sultan character... People can argue he is a gangster and blah blah... but tell me, Gangsters arent human?? They too have feelings and can fall in love... And Sultan already been there... So why cant he feel another time... And why cant Madhu move on?? If madhu can fall for an egoistic man like rk, why cant she feel for Sultan... In love, it doesnt matter what the person is, the important thing is will the person treasire that love or not... Did Rk treasure?? how can u want Madhu to go back when he didnt?? Sultan may be a gangster, but despite that he have good moral values instilled in him... And Rk is an actor, a man who grew in beter circumstances and yet all he knw is hurt people?? The arguement is not about who is what... IT should be, which man would be able to treasure Madhu... People tell me a gangster should not be attached to madhu but how is that justifying that an egoistic man who only insulted her, that only he should be with her?? At the end of the day, its only about Madhu... JUst because there are SulBala fans, why people are bashing Sultan or MAdhubala for it?? When did they mention they are in love?? I just don get that logic...

As for the part u mentioned abt Rk abusing MADhubala... Does physical abuse is the only abuse on dictionary?? Rk abused MAdhu's trust, he abused her love, he abused her hopes and dreams... Do u think MAdhu will be able to love again?? i highly doubt... And its all thanks to RK...


ps: its my pov and u don like, then don bother reading.. but refrain frm bashing and quoting me... THank u...

pps: @TM the above message was for others and not u... u can always reply me back and im actually waiting to knw yr opinion...
Edited by TiaGurtiAvishti - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: TiaGurtiAvishti

I like your post... No u didnt bash anyone so don worry... Only thing is your post is rather neutral, so u can hardly see anyone replying... But thats okay, this is how the forum is and always be... The popular members or bashing/mocking posts always gets >100 likes and pages of comments...

Keeping that aside, what i loved about your post is the part u mentioned how people should be allowed to keep their opinion... Im a SulBala fan and let me tell u, my shipping wasnt because i hate rk or vd... I came to the show and forum because of SulBala... I started watching the show for Sultan, i admit... BEcause im a huge fan of Avinesh Rekhi from Chhal... And i always have been a fan of the couple in DD's previous show(not mentioning the name in case someone reports my comment)... Initially, way before rk entered, i used to watch this show... not regularly but i keep updated with WUs... OVer the time it was boring and i left... For almost a year i didnt watch any shows... Then i got hooked on Chhal after my fren recommendation... I became a huge huge fan of AR... And they ruined that show completely by making Aditi dead and all... I left the show before it ended ... And it was by chance i saw (5/3/13) episode(sultan entry)... AR entered the scene and thats it, that hooked me on and i been watching this show without fail... i went back and watch through the previous episodes and got the gist of story... I explaining all this because i don want people to have wrong idea that people like SulBala because of the chemistry alone... NO doubt, they have alot of spark... But its more than that... I genuinely love Sultan character... People can argue he is a gangster and blah blah... but tell me, Gangsters arent human?? They too have feelings and can fall in love... And Sultan already been there... So why cant he feel another time... And why cant Madhu move on?? If madhu can fall for an egoistic man like rk, why cant she feel for Sultan... In love, it doesnt matter what the person is, the important thing is will the person treasire that love or not... Did Rk treasure?? how can u want Madhu to go back when he didnt?? Sultan may be a gangster, but despite that he have good moral values instilled in him... And Rk is an actor, a man who grew in beter circumstances and yet all he knw is hurt people?? The arguement is not about who is what... IT should be, which man would be able to treasure Madhu... People tell me a gangster should not be attached to madhu but how is that justifying that an egoistic man who only insulted her, that only he should be with her?? At the end of the day, its only about Madhu... JUst because there are SulBala fans, why people are bashing Sultan or MAdhubala for it?? When did they mention they are in love?? I just don get that logic...

As for the part u mentioned abt Rk abusing MADhubala... Does physical abuse is the only abuse on dictionary?? Rk abused MAdhu's trust, he abused her love, he abused her hopes and dreams... Do u think MAdhu will be able to love again?? i highly doubt... And its all thanks to RK...


ps: its my pov and u don like, then don bother reading.. but refrain frm bashing and quoting me... THank u...

pps: @TM the above message was for others and not u... u can always reply me back and im actually waiting to knw yr opinion...


It is nice to see that people are actually following the characters not pairs. yes i agree with you that Sultan is a much better man for Madhu & maybe that is where the differences start. CVs have just ruined the characters of the show and truly in my opinion the story is messed up, the aims of RK are not clear, what Madhu wants is not clear & I really don't know nothing about Sultan. For the abusing part, I am really not familiar with anyone who has been hurt but never moved on into a better life. Both characters prepared the destruction for themselves; Madhu by siding someone too much as humanity that forgetting that not all people are nice in return & RK trying to trap her according to his own little bubble of thoughts but end of hurting both of them when he knew they were in love. The story is clearly trying to pick up something but unable to due to all the beating around the bush. As far as the other characters, I really do not side anyone because there was one reason behind watching the show but all of them are doing their best job.

For me I have been hooked to this show since its started as I used to watch VD & DD before which was tempting enough to make anyone watch the show so for me there was/are/will be RishBala (my opinion). They really put life into the characters. & oh yes, I loved Avinash's character from the precious show & watching him was a treat again as long as his character did not come in these circumstances where the main story has no legs or head. This is the actual time where they could have shown Madhu becoming independent, showing a man like RK that she can stand for herself & maybe even move on. I am really not saying that she should just forgive RK & go there again to get humiliated but at the the same time, please be less caring as the care for 2 characters in the story got her nowhere.. All the characters have to stand up for themselves & truly need the time to think what they want. RK must pay for what he did, you can't just humiliate your wife whenever you want, make her get put but then bring her back again, she too has a life & is a human just like the others. & yes gangsters are human too.

I truly respect you opinion as it is your personal opinion & thanks a lot for commenting and reading my pov. Yes as a RishBala, I respect SuluBala and they too have the right to say out loud that they are SuluBala. At the end of the day, we are individuals who have our own lives then why just waste on fighting over who you like as opinions are personal which can not be influenced.

God Bless
Have a Great Day 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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good post wonderful replies 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: magicaleyes

good post wonderful replies 😊


Thanks a lot for reading 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks a lot for reading 😊
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very nice post dear:-):-):-)
completely agree:-):-):-)...

I guess Kuch logo ko jara bhi samajh me nahi aane wala🤣🤣

I want to say to all Sulubala and Madhu fans DONT BASH OUR FAV AND WE WILL NOT BASH YOURS!!!!!!..
Thats it!!!!!
Edited by --Rose-- - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks a lot for reading 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Rose--

very nice post dear:-):-):-)
completely agree:-):-):-)...

I guess Kuch logo ko jara bhi samajh me nahi aane wala🤣🤣

I want to say to all Sulubala and Madhu fans DONT BASH OUR FAV AND WE WILL NOT BASH YOURS!!!!!!..
Thats it!!!!!


Thanks a lot for reading. Hahahaha that is why it in there that it may not make sense, i was just getting too hyped up which can be seen easily. Just no one bash no one. Enjoy watching them 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hey..a very sensible post! 😊
Why do we need to jump to some conclusions by some instances?
More than the audience the CVs are to be blamed..they know a new character can't be accepted..so they are showing sultan in more positive light and RK in more evil way!! Acting too smart..Firstly the revenge thing didn't go well..would have been better if it was pre planned. How can we expect a person to realize and redempt within a few days..it is a process and happens slowly. A person who never realized his love from past 6 months is now expected to change in a week. We don't want to wait for it..chalo leave it., y do we want madhu to jump to another person so quickly? CVs idea is good in one way to make RK realize by bringing in a new angle..but the way they are enacting it is too bad..they are literally making madhu a sandwich between 2 guys..it is not appealing at all atleast for me!
Loved ur neutral post! ❤️

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