Dhawal today

... after a long time shut Urmi up.. but not as well as I had hoped he would But he did stop Urmi from insulting Kinjal further.

Urmi compared herself to Koki and told Kinjal that her mother is partial to girls and boys herself. I think she does not realize that Koki is partial not to the gender but the the behavior of her kids. Ahem has always been her son but Kinjal has been the brat who has always riled Koki. I don't agree with the total cutting of ties etc., but Urmi does not realize that unlike her, Koki really does love her daughter and wants good things for her..

But today as Kinjal again was insulted for what happened before marriage, Dhawal intervened at the right time and shut Urmi up.. I just wish he had consoled Kinjal once before stomping off but then I am happy that he did not let Urmi slide, so he can have it today..😊

Hi , I am also happy that Dhawal didnot put up with Urmila's taunts on Kinjal But I don't agree with your analysis on Kokila. I am not a big fan of hers because for me a mother is a mother and should not be partial for any reason and as said before Kinjal being daughter Kokila didnot hesitate to cut off all her relations with her, infact abandoned her in her hour of need. Kinjal's anger or taunts earlier against her mother was due to the same feeling.If only Kokila had been little understanding and not see life as only black and white.She is now behaving in the same manner with Gopi. I agree that she is hurt that Gopi hid the truth but she was not willing to listen to her at all. What does she want, that Gopi cuts off her relation with Rashi and Urmila.But she has forgotten that even Rashi is daughter in law of the house and every member of the family is different and if we have to be only judgemental then no families survive. If she knows and mistrusts Rashi then wouldno't it have not been advisible to talk about it with Hetal and ask Jigar to divorce her or they leave seperately. Living in the same house and day and night taunting for big and small mistakes make her look tyranical.

Originally posted by: NeerajaGirish

Hi , I am also happy that Dhawal didnot put up with Urmila's taunts on Kinjal But I don't agree with your analysis on Kokila. I am not a big fan of hers because for me a mother is a mother and should not be partial for any reason and as said before Kinjal being daughter Kokila didnot hesitate to cut off all her relations with her, infact abandoned her in her hour of need. Kinjal's anger or taunts earlier against her mother was due to the same feeling.If only Kokila had been little understanding and not see life as only black and white.She is now behaving in the same manner with Gopi. I agree that she is hurt that Gopi hid the truth but she was not willing to listen to her at all. What does she want, that Gopi cuts off her relation with Rashi and Urmila.But she has forgotten that even Rashi is daughter in law of the house and every member of the family is different and if we have to be only judgemental then no families survive. If she knows and mistrusts Rashi then wouldno't it have not been advisible to talk about it with Hetal and ask Jigar to divorce her or they leave seperately. Living in the same house and day and night taunting for big and small mistakes make her look tyranical.

I agree Neeraja.😊

I like Koki and I see her PoVs on different things but that does not mean that I do not see her faults.. Koki is a flawed mom, certainly. She should have been kinder to Kinjal. My point is, Kinjal should have been a little less brattier too.. The fault was from both but I do see Koki and Kinjal's relationship slowly changing to the place it should first have been..
If everything was hunky dory, Dhawal would never have been in the picture.😉 Koki's punishments are harsh but she is certainly fair and just.

As with Gopi.. I agree again. but I think Gopi does need this shock treatment now😊 Kokila has let it known to Gopi, not by taunts but by telling her that Urmi and Rashi are up to no good at times and it is very wrong to hide their faults. If only Gopi can understand that then she would not be naive enough to always listen to UrShi and take all their emotional and physical torture metted out to her. Even today Gopi stood listening to Rashi's unkind words. She needs to stand against it and defend herself. Koki is teaching her that.

In a joint family, it takes all kinds of people.. But to make it tick, you do need someone who is like Hetal and someone like Koki, preferably a mixture instead of the total separation.
Koki has come to accept Rashi's minor faults. Otherwise Rashi would not be in MM at all.. But the fact is that Koki does get riled up when the faults cross a limit like when Rashi over indulges herself or becomes amazingly lazy. That is when Koki cannot tolerate it and of course Rashi plots with her mom to do different.

I would certainly recommend Koki to move away with her family if given a chance. It is high time she did that. She cannot go on looking out for her family all the time as the others turn a blind eye completely.. If Koki is not as she is, Urmi and Rashi would have already sold MM to the first bidder😊

Harini.. Im very disapointed with Dhawal yaar why he behaving like jerk.. yaar why he dont forget past n let the start new beinging.. If he feels that his wife insulted by his fai..then he should feels her wife emotions aswell.. I feel so sorry for Kinjal although i dont like Kinjal in past as wife as daughter but this girl had changed herself amazingly.. She loves her mother she understand her mother as like Dhawal also now she loves him understand him.. But wht she awell to being good with Dhawal nothing osptly Dhawal hurts her just bcoz she loves him unconditionally.. Today she cries beside he console her he stumping off from their... I always thought Dhawal a good n understanding husband who holds his feeling since 2 years just bcoz he loves Kinjal.. But nop now i starting hate him.. Poor Kinjal..

If Rashi and Urmi would have sold MM to highest bidder maybe then Jigar and his family would finally open their eyes though too late. But seriously a Mother in law should be more like Hetal giving enough freedom to her DIL and little bit of Koki that would be a proper mix. A lady has to be shrp and wise so that no outsider fools the family but similarly should be worldly wise so that you can get along in the society peacefully.

Originally posted by: NeerajaGirish

If Rashi and Urmi would have sold MM to highest bidder maybe then Jigar and his family would finally open their eyes though too late. But seriously a Mother in law should be more like Hetal giving enough freedom to her DIL and little bit of Koki that would be a proper mix. A lady has to be shrp and wise so that no outsider fools the family but similarly should be worldly wise so that you can get along in the society peacefully.

😆 Agree Neeraja.. I think SNS as it is reel shows the extremes.. A MIL should be a mixture of KOki and Hetal and DILs should be a mixture of Rashi and Gopi sans the evilness of course.. No one should be Urmi completely😊

I believe that if Koki is just a little more tolerant and a little easy going she would be perfect. Unfortunately Hetal is too much of a Java Dena for my taste and so is Jigar😕

Originally posted by: -GiNa-

Harini.. Im very disapointed with Dhawal yaar why he behaving like jerk.. yaar why he dont forget past n let the start new beinging.. If he feels that his wife insulted by his fai..then he should feels her wife emotions aswell.. I feel so sorry for Kinjal although i dont like Kinjal in past as wife as daughter but this girl had changed herself amazingly.. She loves her mother she understand her mother as like Dhawal also now she loves him understand him.. But wht she awell to being good with Dhawal nothing osptly Dhawal hurts her just bcoz she loves him unconditionally.. Today she cries beside he console her he stumping off from their... I always thought Dhawal a good n understanding husband who holds his feeling since 2 years just bcoz he loves Kinjal.. But nop now i starting hate him.. Poor Kinjal..

After the previous few episodes and his behavior Sherry when he sided Urmi when she fell, I thought today was way better. Atleast he did not make Kinjal apologize.. He needs to stop being so angry but let him be.. Kinjal can woo him back. She stands for herself and she will do it.. All she needs is a little support from him like today.. Now and then😊

Don't worry, Dhawal's time to grovel will come someday😉

Originally posted by: swasthi

This is the best thing Dhaval has done for Kinjal. He has raised her status in Urmila's household and have given some dignity.

This will start to grant Kinjal belief in developing a sense of belonging there.

Further, Urmila will begin to tread carefully when ever Dhaval is around. She has always had taken him to be a fool.

With Dhaval and perhaps Gopi becoming wiser the tables could turn for Urmila and Rashi. Is this what the CVs are trying to aim for?

@Bold.. I really hope so Swasthi😛

There comes a point of time when the tables have to turn and maybe this is it. This IPL season ending may show us an SNS where Gopi is wiser, Dhawal and Kinjal are closer and UrShi are served with some much needed justice for all the past.. I would be the happiest if that happens.

Urmila is already suffering. She may be doing KKs to get RAshi back in her hand but she does miss Rashi as a daughter and this will continue for sometime to come. High time Rashi is also brought down from her high chair and made to serve for her part of the villainy till now