Shefali-shameless woman.

i dont know about you all but this is what i feel..........

shefali is a shameless woman.she is still in love with Arjun!.i mean.i understand she loved him before his wedding but now she still loves him even after knowing that he is happily married and loves her wife!

she has lost all her self respect,dignity,everything.An extra marital affair!(one-sided though)

tell me something.......koun si conservative society mein aisa hota hai ki babhi apni devrani ke to be bachhe ko mar de and apne devar se pyar kare.....use paane chaahe..etc???

I so wanted to post a similar msg n Im so glad u brought it up...

I dont knw abt others n Shefali but I honestly have no respect for that woman! At one time I did feel bad for her as she lost out on a guy she luved n I so knw that the feeling is terrible, heart breaking but she needs to hit it back with reality n see that Arjun is very much in luv with his wife n happy with her! I knw she wont b able to forget him as she sees him evryday n it probably brings back gud memories, but isnt true luv abt accepting n sacrificing! I knw its hard to accept the fact, but if I were in her position n the guy I luved was married off to another woman n he was pretty much happy with her then I think the best option wud b to back off...n stay away...

Shefali doesnt realize that she has risked evrything! Her husbands trust, her familys luv n appreciation towards her for her so called 'kindness', but also Arjuns friendship...I wud rather have the guy being my friend than have him hating me like Arjun will after he cums to see her true color...

I mean how cud she even ignore wat she saw today...The luv in Arjuns eyes for Bhoomi...It was like he didnt even care or notice her there! Wat does she actually think that by making Bhoomi go further away frm Arjun she can actually make him stop luving her?

I feel Shefalis all messed up...Shes gotten tangled into her own feelings n doesnt realize that Arjun use to luv her but he has a present now n hes very much happy with it! I wud so defend n cheer for her if Arjun wasent happy with Bhoomi n she was trying to make him get chutkara but that isnt the case here...

Shefali shud knw its better to stay as a sweet memory in Arjuns mind then sumthing else...I wud rather have the guy remembering me with a smile then with hatred n anger...

I really n honestly do understand her reaction...She wasent done full justice too but that doesnt mean she can snatch others happiness n try to make it hers...She has a husband, which ofcourse isnt the best of a choice a girl wud want as one, but still she shud at least try n be loyal otherwise go away n find sumone suitable or live with the memories of her past luv...if she finds it that much close to her heart...

I dont knw how much Im making sense...but all in all wat im trying to say is that in the perspective shefali is seeing things is wrong...shes too high with emotions for her luv that she cant c the consequences she will have to suffer...n theres no way she cud have arjun luving her again! specially after all that pain she has made Bhoomi go thru! Theres no luv without respect...In the hearts before anything grows, its important for ur heart to respect the other heart first...n then trust...which either one Arjun wont have for her...

that was long...but i feel betta 😆

you are abbsolutely right Teesha

soooo true, actually what shefali feels for arjun is not love but her zid or stubbornness.....she just feels ki arjun mera hai, arjun mera hai bcoz she cant see anyone else in arjun's arms.......she's a nutcase who needs to be treated by a psychiatrist 👏

i too agree wid teesha......If anyone was in shefali's position it would nt have been easy to forget a man whom u loved so much......

In fact if u see a sort of sympathy arises for sshefali.....in the sense that she thinks her evrything as arjun but doesnt have him......she yearns for him....but the problem for her is that he is someone else

I am not saying that shefali should be supported since she is a evil woman as well......sympathy does arise for her considering that she has faced injustice

But with what she is doing with bhumi.......u could only feel angry on her.......since bhumi is not at fault.......

plus arjun too doesnt love shefali anymore.....teesha is right if the condition was otherwise wid arjun still having feelings shefali......then shefali would be right........

She should insetad let him live happily.....and although it will difficult to forget him........but atleast leave the tought f getting him back in her life....

Because in anysense when he comes to know abt the reality he not gonna welcome her wid open arms.......

if she cant forget him....if they both are living under same roof and if she doesnt love yuv too then she should divorce yuv

Originally posted by: sia_lovely

i too agree wid teesha......If anyone was in shefali's position it would nt have been easy to forget a man whom u loved so much......

In fact if u see a sort of sympathy arises for sshefali.....in the sense that she thinks her evrything as arjun but doesnt have him......she yearns for him....but the problem for her is that he is someone else

I am not saying that shefali should be supported since she is a evil woman as well......sympathy does arise for her considering that she has faced injustice

But with what she is doing with bhumi.......u could only feel angry on her.......since bhumi is not at fault.......

plus arjun too doesnt love shefali anymore.....teesha is right if the condition was otherwise wid arjun still having feelings shefali......then shefali would be right........

She should insetad let him live happily.....and although it will difficult to forget him........but atleast leave the tought f getting him back in her life....

Because in anysense when he comes to know abt the reality he not gonna welcome her wid open arms.......

if she cant forget him....if they both are living under same roof and if she doesnt love yuv too then she should divorce yuv

sia very well sed👏

same is for me...when i think abt the injustice done with shefali, sumwhere sympathy does arise in me for her...cus she not only lost out on her luv, but she has to live in that same house being his bhabi n seeing him so happy with his luv n realizing she isnt so happy at all...

loosing ur luv, is the most painful thing ever...n that whole process of getting over it, is like passing through hell...but that doesnt mean u becum a devil n do such evilful things, like murder his child! now that at no cost, is justified! u just dont go around trying to snatch away ppls happiness just cus u have such a sad life or cus u wont ur past to be ur present! n i think thats where shes wrong...she thinks she make the past cum alive again by seperating bhoomi-arjun...wat she doesnt think is that even if arjun n bhoomi seperate, in arjuns heart there will always be luv for bhoomi cus they have a pure bond btwn them...their marriage...

im not saying shefali shud forget arjun...no way...hes her first luv...n evrytime she feels luv she'll remember him...cus its cus of him she felt the depth of luv...wo ehsaas, wo kushi, wo durd jo pyaar main hota hai usney phela arjun se hi mehsoos kya...but like u sed sia, she shud not live thinking she can bring herself n arjun back...again if arjun was single n even if she was married, n she wanted them back, at that point keeping in mind the type of hubby yuv is, i wud understand...but shes wanting to bring him back when hes already walked too far with his present....

also...even if arjun doesnt find out shefalis truth...even if she lives like a perfect goddess, full of kindness infront of him...the most he'll do is respect n wish gud for her...even then he wont luv her! cus he understands the difference btwn his past n present...his past is sumthing that cant becum his future so theres no use in trying for it!

she just needs to give herself time...n instead of saying 'arjun is mine..arjun is mine..' she shud try accepting the fact that arjun is sumone elses n she needs to walk ahead...if not with yuv n not with anyone else then alone with the gud memories she n arjun spent...betta then trying to cum btwn AB!

Originally posted by: iamdhol

soooo true, actually what shefali feels for arjun is not love but her zid or stubbornness.....she just feels ki arjun mera hai, arjun mera hai bcoz she cant see anyone else in arjun's arms.......she's a nutcase who needs to be treated by a psychiatrist 👏

well at the stage she is...her luv has becum more of an obsession...it still is luv, but the true meaning has been lost...she thinks arjun can b happy with her n thinks that arjun still feels for her but when in reality its opposite...thats y she imagines him happy with her...

also like u sed, she in sumway doesnt really want arjun, she just wants no one with him...its like shes saying 'if i cant have him, no one can' n thats her zid...ofcourse which is foolish but her mind is really corrupt right now...she doesnt wanna hear or understand anything...she just wants to make it happen...

a psychiatrist is a gud option😆but i think arjuns anger will be enough to get her to ground zero once he finds out😆

probably the injustice done to her made her forget the fine line between obsession and love......

she hates seeing bhumi wid him so she is trying to hurt bhumi.......but she is forgetting that arjun loves bhumi a lot.......he considers her his life........

so if shefali hurts bbhumi she is also indirectly hurting arjun ......like if she killed bhumi's child ten it was not just bhumi's kid but arjun bhumi's kid......

In love u wanna see the person u love happy.....but sometimes yes it does it becomes difficult to see the smae man u loved so much happy so much wid another woman......

so the best option would be to live and let live......

The way shefali is going she has no future for herself......

she is not gonna gain from all these....instead just loose everything she has gained in the past few months(as she started behaving well)from heritage house.....

Now she feels she will triumph out.........but the mask on her face ......her real face....would come out.....and then........


So she should instead divorce yuv .....and start living life freshly.....

infact she has no shortcomings......beautiful smart intelligent.....wealthy.......she can divert her mind to some other things loke business to get over her past.....if not forgetting arjun but atleast start living her present.....

She wants to hold time......she wants someone who is her past......instead she should think about her future......

and her life.......

sia just now what you said was just exellent.