I have'nt yet become a wife, but wording up my mother's experience...
'' I may not be contributing to the financial front directly... I may not be directly making a better nation, But, I'm definitely making a better 'YOU' THAT IS DIRECTLY CONTRIBUTING TO A BETTER NATION''
'' I'm no super women... I knew, I had to make my Daughters what they are today... Doosro ke bachhon ko padhane se pehle, main apne bachhe ko toh padha loon...'' N m telling this bcoz my mother has extra ordinary capabilities handling & training kids... Getting Job offers from best schools of the city, she chose to remain at home just for her daughters, is no less a sacrifice n a contri to the nation, that is not defined in monetory terms...
But things have changed over a period of time... After settling me wid my studies, my mom opened up a Kinder Garten here at home... N trust me, she runs it beautifully... Even in the evening hours, parents to come with a request to tutor their kids, to get admitted into the best schools of the city...
Ab toh aalam ye hai, ke mere Papa, mummy ko unke naam ki jagah- ''Madam'' hi kehke pukarte hain...
N trust me guys, I'm proud of her... She says, she isn't a super women, but she is... Right from my childhood, not only she had been my mentor, but my tailor, my barber, my councellor, my frnd... Indeed my best buddy... N deffo, I would have had missed it a lil of it, if she was a working one then...
A special mention to the words of a friend of mine...-'' Aazeen, main apne bachhe hone ke baad ghar par rehna chahti hoon... Taaki jab mere bachhe school se ghar wapas aaye, unhe greet karne ke liye unki maa ho... Unhe woh na feel karna pade, Jaisa saari zindagi maine feel kiya hai...''
PS: I do not intend to hurt anybody's feeling here... Sabki apni-apni situations hoti hain... Plz don't take it at heart...
Edited by Aazeen02 - 12 years ago