Originally posted by: pari87
Nice arguments you put forward but it still does not change the fact that OVI was the one who created and initiated the deal. Even if purvi used arjun for her mother's happiness, it is still acceptable than trading your mother happiness for your own.
hmmm...so trading someone who you don't love ( mother in Ovi's case, as according to what info Ovi had, Archana had abandoned them and the father 18 years ago, so I don;t see why she should have any sympathy for herm forget love) is wrong...but trading a guy who is your pavitra saathi apparetnly..(considering you guys still think they have some kind of eternal love) and a guy who you love...a guy who loves you blindly...for mother;s happiness is acceptable? Wowww...
Kalyug sure is upon us if the world today thinks like this :P One night stand, trading the boy is better than trading the mother who left you long back and you don't know her to even love her...
ahahahah, really this forum is a new enlightenment each day...with so much new knowledge about social life I will be the Buddha someday : P
No one says Ovi is not wrong...But Ovi-Purvi are equally to blame...And Purvi had no real love for Arjun, just like Ovi's love is considered obsession and not love...:P Let's be objective instead of being Onir, - blind in Mithi;s love :P ahahahah
I really do not want to go back down memory lane about the details and circumstances under which manav and archana separated and who her children grew up with and what kind of upbringing her children would have had. We all know as we all looked at the same show.
What I want to say and it is MY POINT OF VIEW is that archana nurtured and cared for teju and ovi for nine mths and bring them into this world two healthy baby girls. She is not a bad mother who would have done drugs, have multi partners, have her children on the street corner, left them with strangers etc.
In light of what I said above, I do not think that a child can hate their mother to the extent as ovi. It is unjustifiable for me to see a daughter like ovi trade her mother happiness for hers and also knows that her father loves her mother to the extent that he never moved on in all of the 18yrs.
Just my POV, NO OFFENSE INTENDED
Edited by rayadallie - 12 years ago