Is weight really a big issue? your take

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srinivasrishi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Qanita
what i don't understand in this show is how amit is being pushed into the marriage he doesn't even want and he is not even telling any body just for his ego. its unrealistic. people don't marry like this. and these decisions are never taken in haste. snehal didn't reject amit. she was already committed. that's the reason she politely refused amit's proposal and she wrongly assumed that amit may be interested in amita too. amit didn't deny her and she told her mother about amit's interest. amit should have clarified. its unrealistic. parents don't give their children choice like amit's parents did. its unrealistic. yes the way girls are treated by their suitors, from that perspective this show is totally based on reality.

My thoughts are same as yours.I also mentioned in my previous posts that Snehal rejected Amit as she has some feelings for someone.

Why Amit made such a haste decision is a bit unclear to me.Is it coz of Batuks geeli mitti concept or something else dont know.But I guess its coz of geeli mitti concept only.

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

A very nice discussion. 😊

And according to me.. YES, weight is an issue in our society or gen in any kind of Marriage whether Arrange or Love.

For Arrange Marriage...

Boy and Boy's family most likely would want Slim and fair and good looking Girl in most cases. They are ready to make adjusments to their liking based on their own Laadla's qualification or sitaution. But even though the most normal looking guy would want PERFECT wife.

and partially rightly so, coz in 95/100 cases.. liking start with Physical attraction. then comes nature & how a person is.

and if a guy overcome weight factor.. then other would start brainwashing him.. Mom or other family. Like how Amit's Mom.. Kaki n all keep pointing Amita's over- weight factor.

For Love Marriages..

basic criteria to fall in Love with is.. Looks. and we have seen it around. A half college boys would go behind a Good looking girl (good looks mostly includes perfectly shaped) but hardly anyone would be interested to Date a over-weight Girl in college or school or at job places. Sad but if you look around you would find me right.

There are always exceptions.. but as they are exceptions, they are very less in numbers where one really falls for the person & not for the looks or shape. 😔

same goes with Girls too.. most of them want dashing Prince charming. But ratio where Girls want perfect weighted partner than Boys want perfect weighted girl is lesser. Girls can still let go of the weight part if the partner is well educated.. respectful & well mannered person.😊

However anyone would agree with you when you ask them if they would go for 'how a person is' or 'weight/look', for the most cases.. they would not follow their own answer.

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ravsim

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

I love this storyline - it is so REAL...Sometimes people don't look at themselves in the mirror and become a little unrealistic! I know lots of people who are expecting to marry AISHWARYA RAI'S however they are nothing like ABISHEK OR HRITIK 😊 And vice versa as well. Amit is only looking at Amita's weight but she has yet to point out - he has no 6 pack or the fact he wears glasses and LOOKS like a NERD😆 Amit's mom shouldn't look down on Amita either - she is no fit mamma herself...

Weight is a very touchy subject for women and especially girls/women in the marrying age. The fact of the matter no matter how the guy looks - men want the the model looking partner and that is what this show is portraying with class.

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