~~~Share Your Feelings~~~

Muskaan

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Hello Girls...🤗

We face so many situations in our daily life which we want to share but cannot due to some reasons. We are either afraid of shame or say hesitation...Every girl faces this.

You cant tell your mother, sister or even friend but that stuff needs to come out anyhow to make you feel light...😊

How..?? How..?? How..??

Here...Yes, in our very own Crime Patrol Dastak Forum...⭐️
Please share your experiences like..

1. When you have felt that you are getting less because you are a girl.😡😡😡
2. Situations where your own people (Parents, siblings, Grand parents etc.) have done gender discrimination against you.🤢🤢
3. Incidents like eve teasing, boys touching you inappropriately, sexual harassment by known people (teachers, colleagues etc.)

And so on and so forth...

Be frank and think this as a Stress free exercise...
Believe me, after writing down and pouring out your frustration here, you will really feel light and calm...😊

⭐️Come on girls..lets fight back...⭐️

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Muskaan

@piyarapiyari

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Very useful beneficial thread dear 👍🏼 🤗

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madhoo

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Posted: 12 years ago

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This is so awesome!!! I love this and I will share my story, but let me just get this project out of my way and I'll post my story later on.

Thank you Muskaan 👏🤗

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Evil Dramebaaz

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Thanks so much for this topic Muskaan. I will share my views and feelings soon...

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My mom's friends (as in my aunts) always tell me that it's my age to get married and I was 18 when they started saying this. I hate when they do that. 🤢 I always make a comment back, which shuts them up, but they always start again whenever we meet.
It happened while I was in Switzerland this December. Two boys who I didn't know approached me in the hotel and started making comments. Then one pinched me in the rear. I lost it at that especially because no one was helping me even though there were 15 or 16 people in the lobby. I slapped both boys and gave them a hard kick in their balls. That's when people approached and started hitting and yelling at the 2 men. That's when I learned that if you don't help or stand up for yourself, no one will help you.

Edited by KS_Shreya - 12 years ago

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Muskaan

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: ishanita
👏 nice step

Thanks dear...😊

Originally posted by: piyarapiyari
Very useful beneficial thread dear 👍🏼 🤗

Thank You Muskie...😊

Originally posted by: madhoo
This is so awesome!!! I love this and I will share my story, but let me just get this project out of my way and I'll post my story later on.

Thank you Muskaan 👏🤗

Sure..take your own time...😊

Originally posted by: KS_Shreya
Thanks so much for this topic Muskaan. I will share my views and feelings soon...res

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Muskaan

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Never
My mom's friends (as in my aunts) always tell me that it's my age to get married and I was 18 when they started saying this. I hate when they do that. 🤢 I always make a comment back, which shuts them up, but they always start again whenever we meet. This happens with many of us. parents and family members think that marrying off a girl means getting yourself free from all liabilities...🤢 Pathetic mentality.
It happened while I was in Switzerland this December. Two boys who I didn't know approached me in the hotel and started making comments. Then one pinched me in the rear. I lost it at that especially because no one was helping me even though there were 15 or 16 people in the lobby. I slapped both boys and gave them a hard kick in their balls. That's when people approached and started hitting and yelling at the 2 men. That's when I learned that if you don't help or stand up for yourself, no one will help you. fantastic job...👏 These kind of morons dont listen when you say something but you have to use your power only... And, yes, this happens with many. The crowd becomes a mute audience...😡

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Evil Dramebaaz

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Posted: 12 years ago

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^^^

My parents are cool about my marriage. I've made a deal with my mom. She said that either I choose my own husband by the time I turn 30, or she'll choose a husband for me. I'm cool with that.

As for these idiots, I wish all the girls could do that. None of us would ever get eve-teased or raped again.

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Nikki.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Fantastic Shreya you did good by hitting those boys they deserved it

even in Switzerland they don't help girls when she is in trouble what the 😡

And about the marriage same thing is happening with me. My relatives just come from India for the first time a few months ago and they were shocked when they realized i haven't got married. They were criticizing me that people my age have at least five children by now. I was so angry. I felt like saying a few words to them but then my stopped me and now thank God they gone back. I can concentrate on my uni studies now

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Muskaan

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Nikki.
Fantastic Shreya you did good by hitting those boys they deserved it

even in Switzerland they don't help girls when she is in trouble what the 😡

And about the marriage same thing is happening with me. My relatives just come from India for the first time a few months ago and they were shocked when they realized i haven't got married. They were criticizing me that people my age have at least five children by now. I was so angry. I felt like saying a few words to them but then my stopped me and now thank God they gone back. I can concentrate on my uni studies now

😲😲😲 Really...?? Thats why we Indians are lagging behind in social system. Girls are looked upon as if they are just kids producing (rather SON producing) machines..

Early marriages means more children and thats why Indian Population is second largest in the world...😉😆

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Muskaan

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Posted: 12 years ago

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1. When you have felt that you are getting less because you are a girl.😡😡😡 NEVER
2. Situations where your own people (Parents, siblings, Grand parents etc.) have done gender discrimination against you.🤢🤢 Often. My family members insist me on doing somethings that should be done by me becasue I am a girl...😡 Like, say, my brother has not learnt any house hold work but still my mom praises him for that.... His first engagement broke and his marriage is suffering from certain problems at now but still, my mom always takes his side to defend him...
3. Incidents like eve teasing, boys touching you inappropriately, sexual harassment by known people (teachers, colleagues etc.)
Many times. I travel by autos and buses, so starring continuosly is regualrly faced by me. But then, one day...two boys were following me right from the time I was in bus till my home. One of them stopped me and said-"You are very cute". I told-"I know...😆" Then, I started walking...The other one asked-"Can I get your cell number..??" I said-"ya Sure..its 100 (100 is the number for calling POLICE) Again started walking. One of them asked-"Can we meet somewhere..??" I answered-"Why not...?? Come to the police station..we can talk there..."

Girls, you wouldn't believe, both of them ran like anything from there...😆 Even today, whenever I recall this incident, I cannot control my laugh and I tell myself: Proud of you...!!😊

Edited by Muskaan92 - 12 years ago

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