I agree with u. Snehal jumped into conclusions and propagated it. No one should do that. I also dont understand why she did not tell her mom that she rejected the proposal. Amit never uttered any such thing. What is an independent business women like Snehal doing by hiding her relationship from her parents like a teenager. She should have told her side of rejection story instead of talking about amit's reasons for rejecting.
By putting the blame on Amit and by not telling her side of story Snehal is acting immature.