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My favorite character of the show- HARISH. 😳
He was always a step ahead in evaluating people and he remains as such. 😎
I know I am in a minority who is trying to justify his actions very much human, but please feel to give it a pass if you think the other way. 😊
WHY is he lying to all, including Avantika?
My answer comes from a current personal example in my family. my fufaji is going through initial stage of mouth cancer! As i type this his surgery is going on in a diff. state... . We have not informed any of the children or elders/old ones in the family about it.
Do we enjoy in keeping them in oblivion? NO!
The reason is simple- you do not want the near ones to be in sorrow like them!😭
I still remember how my grandfather had a stroke in 2010, and I could not tell my grandma that the doctors have declared him to pass away in a week's time! 😒 He is very much alive today though.😃
Harish does not want to hurt Avantika. Just think my fufa himself is not telling the critical conditions of his cancer to bua as she has got BP problems just by hearing he has it!
Here, Avantika is separate from him so it is easier for harish to hide it! 😭
Why did harish do it? He knows, Avantika can be easily hurt and can get angry so he feels its obvious that if he once shows shivani as his new partner, it won't be as painful for avantika to move on than to know she might not have harish at all to live her remaining life with.
But this is where his plan failed partially. Avantika did decide to move on, but not with hatred for him, rather with a heavy heart that she lost harish in her ego and trust issues! 😛 Result, we see avantika talking about divorce but not out of anger. 🥺 here the plan is partially a success.
I know many of you are just pissed as he is using affair as a device, but according to his knowledge, avantika can be easily brainwashed 😆. And pushing someone away is easier with hatred rather than emotional pain. There you go!
Harish knows each and every member more than what they know of themselves.😎 there are enough examples of it till now. 😉That is the reason he did this. And in reality people do hide such issues. We feel hurt when someone hides it, but some point later we do realize that the person did not do it with a bad intent, only to keep us away from their trauma! 😳
I only have a small complain, Harish was always a braveheart and lived life with content. The Cvs could have shown him at least a little positive that he is doing this drama until he gets a result of his ailment, and if he survives he would tell avantika the truth, but here he has lost all the confidence! Oh well, I have seen people even more bindaas than him succumb to such situations!
Though it is not the truth, I loved the scene of Avantika realising that she lost harish due to her ego and distrust on him! 👏. That realization was needed even if she were to reunite with him easily for the lost 20 years! 😛
Do share your views! 😆
