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Posted: 12 years ago
#81
Actually linda..we all have points here.
You have some good points..others also some good points.
It's an interesting topic to debate..i would like to join and debate more.

but for me..honestly, arjun has the rights to know the child..so he should know about this.
but at the same time..it's better to keep it a secret for the sake of family harmony.

so..they cancelled out each other.
i'm going neutral on this matter.
Either way..i'm fine with it.

but look at the bright side..if the secret is revealed..and after it end..guess what..archana, sulochana, manav..they will respect onir more because he has helped purvi when she has nobody in kolkata and save her from society humiliation.
The article said everybody will against her..but onir will stand by her.
isn't that great?
That's what husband do..protect, support and stand by her wife in difficult time.

And arjun will get his baby..if he want.

so..it's a win win situation here.


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Posted: 12 years ago
#82



@Manoshono


i asked this that Arjun's love enough for Purvi? Then why is she in trouble? Why need another one to solve her problems??

your state , you might have been in a lot of confusion as to why Arjun is there when Purvis husband is next to her. But on the other hand, you, yourself, asking as to why she needs another man, if Arjun's love is enough?


whats the relation with my question and your conclusion , i dint able to understand , can you explain whats the relation ?


Edited by TALIRAlinda - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: sipokobusak

Actually linda..we all have points here.
You have some good points..others also some good points.
It's an interesting topic to debate..i would like to join and debate more.

but for me..honestly, arjun has the rights to know the child..so he should know about this.
but at the same time..it's better to keep it a secret for the sake of family harmony.

so..they cancelled out each other.
i'm going neutral on this matter.
Either way..i'm fine with it.

but look at the bright side..if the secret is revealed..and after it end..guess what..archana, sulochana, manav..they will respect onir more because he has helped purvi when she has nobody in kolkata and save her from society humiliation.
The article said everybody will against her..but onir will stand by her.
isn't that great?
That's what husband do..protect, support and stand by her wife in difficult time.

And arjun will get his baby..if he want.

so..it's a win win situation here.



sipo exactly my point this truth will destroy lots of things , nothing is good here so hiding is good
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so true win win situation
Edited by TALIRAlinda - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#84
Wow, hiding is good? Sure - the truth may hurt a lot of people, but the truth is the truth and it's better to just tell it now than hide it and have it be revealed later on. Think about how betrayed the families will feel if they find out, say, 10 years from now? I'd be disgusted with Purvi if she hid the truth and I'd be disgusted with anyone on the show that encourages her to do so.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#85
Who said the truth is sweet and easy? It is always bitter and tough.
And hiding truth means only cowardice and betrayal. Which Purvi has shamelessly did and onir encouraged her for his own benefits.

Arjun should have known this fact long back, Purvi didnt give any rights to Arjun but atleast he has this right to know that the child is his. And even the child should know that Arjun is his father,

it is easy to say and draw conclusions and opinions regarding the show. But one would understand if the kept themselves in the place of the child or Arjun.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#86

Originally posted by: sipokobusak


but look at the bright side..if the secret is revealed..and after it end..guess what..archana, sulochana, manav..they will respect onir more because he has helped purvi when she has nobody in kolkata and save her from society humiliation.
The article said everybody will against her..but onir will stand by her.
isn't that great?
That's what husband do..protect, support and stand by her wife in difficult time.

And arjun will get his baby..if he want.

so..it's a win win situation here.


Sipo I loved this 2nd para...👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aathya


and such type of questions coming from onir fans what else😆😆


Im not onir fan neither purvi
I like varjun n purvi
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Posted: 12 years ago
#88

Originally posted by: Ashlaika

Topic Maker - U asked a question, should the truth come out or not. In my opinion it should. YES - it should.

This has nothing to do with ArVi, this has to do with Arjun. For ME - Its about Arjun and his child.


Doesnt a father have the right to know about the existence of his child? Who made humans GOD to take the right and blessing away from a man without giving him a chance to be a father? Who determines that it is right to keep a child away from their biological father? That is withholding information, deceit, distorting of facts, and promotion of lies. Will we continue to go down that path?

Yes - for now it does seem like a good idea to hide the truth. But in REAL life, all truths are unveiled at some point or another isnt that so? Same is reflected in REEL (at least one thing is realistic about PR).


There will be a day when that child may need a blood transfusion - what then? There may come a point when that child may become sick and only his father has the ability to save him - what then? What if Purvi is unable to contribute to the child's medical issues in the future... is she going to wait until then to tell Arjun?




For me - it had nothing to do with Purvi... this is Arjun and Arjun needs to know about the child and the child about Arjun. What decisions they make thereafter is upto them. But he NEEDS to know.


Ah okay. Well u got some points
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: arjunpurvixo

Wow, hiding is good? Sure - the truth may hurt a lot of people, but the truth is the truth and it's better to just tell it now than hide it and have it be revealed later on. Think about how betrayed the families will feel if they find out, say, 10 years from now? I'd be disgusted with Purvi if she hid the truth and I'd be disgusted with anyone on the show that encourages her to do so.


I remember how my mom used to tell me because of one mistake everything is washed away...
Truth is truth it will come one way or another and all the lies you said to cover it can ruin everything and make people forget all the good you did...


If the truth comes out years from now then the family will doubt Purvi for each and every action she committed in that time span.. The child will have so much more hate towards the family... This child is innocent really in all honesty the only ones I feel bad for are these children...

Arjun needs to know.. How will Arjun react if he learned this years later... He will feel even more betrayed and cheated..


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: xoxoarvi


I remember how my mom used to tell me because of one mistake everything is washed away...
Truth is truth it will come one way or another and all the lies you said to cover it can ruin everything and make people forget all the good you did...


If the truth comes out years from now then the family will doubt Purvi for each and every action she committed in that time span.. The child will have so much more hate towards the family... This child is innocent really in all honesty the only ones I feel bad for are these children...

Arjun needs to know.. How will Arjun react if he learned this years later... He will feel even more betrayed and cheated..




I agree all of your comment especially this bold point.

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