Forgiving- a weakness?? - Page 2

Thank God, in this world there are people like Zoya, who belive in forgiveness more than holding grudges. Just imagine how hostile the world will be, if thats the case...

There is nothing wrong with forgiving. I'm ok with Zoya being the better person and forgiving Asad. But what happened was something very serious... atleast I would have expected Zoya to forgive Asad and behave civilly but yet keep some distance from him. But the way everything became alright by just a cup of coffee and Zoya started joking and laughing as though nothing happened... doesn't seem realistic. And the worst part was with all this... the entire slap issue was brushed away as though its no big deal to go around slapping someone when one is angry.

Originally posted by: eshasrk

You are right Zoya did a tremendous thing yesterday to forgive Asad that easily...
I wouldn't if I was in her place, at least not this quick, coz I would want that other person to realize what he/ she did.
I was also pissed at first to see her forgiving him this easily and act as if nothing horrible happened
But Zoya is strong and she did what she had to do and freed herself from the burden...the only thing I had or still have a problem with is, that for Asad is seemed a normal thing.
He said sorry , but he ruined it inmmediately afterwards with what he said, so this indicates to me that this guy still hasn't learnt how to respect Zoya and her views, he just relieved himself from the guilt...

Asad has never realized on his own where he has gone wrong regarding Zoya, it was always told to him mostly by Dilshad and only after that he says sorry.
I wouldn't have any problem if at least for one split second, Asad had realized that he shouldn't have done to Zoya what he did...at least for a second. But he didn't !!!!
Even after Dilshad told him that if it wasn't for Zoya , she wouldn't be alive, still he went on arguing how wrong Zoya was...and this is always the case with Asad...
And I don't see this changing...

Maybe I will change my mind if I see the guilt eating Asad from inside, esp. now that it is almost certain that the shootout had nothing to do with Mariyam and Zoya was totally innocent in all this all along

Very rightly said ! Being able to forgive someone is by no way a sign of weakness. On the contrary its one of the biggest strength one can have. Zoya doesn't hold grudges for too long even when she is deeply hurt. She is able to forgive and move on, something Asad has to learn from her and Im sure he will eventually.. Zoya's positivity is bound to rub off on him one day..Maybe that day he'l be able to forgive his father and move on in life less burdened.😊

I was extremely angry at Asad for what he did to Zoya but when he said Sorry and explained that he was scared for his mothers life, I let it go.

Forgiveness is a huge part of Kindness . . . Those Non-Forgivers try to potrait it as a act of weakness becouse somehow they are not that strong to show forgiveness . So just to prove the kind people to weak one and them to stronger , they used to create all this statements . . . (its my thinking, no offence)

I think shez being the bigger person here !!