What is CV trying to show or prove with this show

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am starting to really get annoyed with the CV of this show. I am hating Bhaboo a lot... I mean a lot.. this women is just out to prove her daughter in law wrong and kick her out of this house.

I mean no matter what Sandhya does it is never good enough at all to this witch of a mother in law.

She talkes so much about culture, family values, respect honor. She has none of those things her self.

She has raised her kids with no values at all. she married her second older son to a cheater, lier, thief . why if you had such high standards why would you go and get that girl for your son. She has not taught her daughter anything at all.

Chavi cannot cook, clean, study, saw. nothing. She is getting married soon to a rich guy and she will go to his home not knowing how to be a good daughter in law or a good wife. She knows how to lie, how to hide things. how to yell at her husband, how to ridicule her husband infront of his kids and everyone, she knows how to mistreat her children and play favoritism.

Mohit..is raised lazy, no backbone at all. He is a lire, a cheat, a thief. He has learned from his mom to that no matter what the bad guy will never get caught its always the good person. SHe has taught them not to vote for your rights to give bribe to the cops to the government helpers and so ever because that is what honest, good family valued people do.

Vikram... This man has no values at all... he has a wife like meena and he never sees what she does as bad because greed is what he was taught as a child. His wife does to him what his mom does to his father.

Suraj... he was taught that no matter what your mother is never wrong and always even though you have a father and you should follow the bath of a being a good human being always go and cry after your mother for when she feels like you dont show her enough attention.

He is a good man but he gets carried away with the notion that the sun rises and sets on his mothers feet... that same mother who let him drop from school at a young age to work like a dog for the family and takes his money and uses his money to feed her other cheating children. while they do not thing a all. she taught him to not vote not to stand up for yourself. to back down, to be a coward , to allow other people to speak for you. to let your brothers and sister use you until there is nothing left of you to use. and when you finally fall in love you mom will feel jealous and make life miserable for your wife.


I think what Bhabo really needs is her mother in law. I think she needs to come to this house and teach her a listen and side with Sandhya and find out all of the good that this girl has down to her family name and honor and also to the community that she lives in. l

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I Agree with every Line of Urs

Mohit , Chavi and Vikram have No Values , They Change Words According to their Possibleness 🤢

Bhabo is Naive Lady , Now this Character has Lost All the dignity in My Eyes Bhabo is Now Meena-2 Trying to Crook Sandhya . 🤢

U Described Suraj well 👏
He Keeps Crying Behind/infront of his Mother and Making his and Sandhya Life Miserable

@Bold : Perfect

Originally posted by: Rani48


Suraj... he was taught that no matter what your mother is never wrong and always even though you have a father and you should follow the bath of a being a good human being always go and cry after your mother for when she feels like you dont show her enough attention.

He is a good man but he gets carried away with the notion that the sun rises and sets on his mothers feet... that same mother who let him drop from school at a young age to work like a dog for the family and takes his money and uses his money to feed her other cheating children. while they do not thing a all. she taught him to not vote not to stand up for yourself. to back down, to be a coward , to allow other people to speak for you. to let your brothers and sister use you until there is nothing left of you to use. and when you finally fall in love you mom will feel jealous and make life miserable for your wife.


I think what Bhabo really needs is her mother in law. I think she needs to come to this house and teach her a listen and side with Sandhya and find out all of the good that this girl has down to her family name and honor and also to the community that she lives in. l



1 word About story :

Story is About Struggle of Sandhya and the Challenges of Girl From Family and Professional Issues. How Sandhya is Hanling the Issues that Destiny is throwing at Her .

CV always Giving Challenges to Sandhya.

She is Going to be an Iconic Girl and Role Model of a Young Girl Who wishes to be Sucessfull in Pains and Happies of Her Life . Thats it 😊



Edited by coolmausam - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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if u want to fight against unfair society you have to start it with yourself coz charity begins at home..here sandhya is tolerating all unfair behaviour to her

and i could never justify or support bhabo..who after watching all quaalities of sandhya can stoop this low
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: coolmausam



I Agree with every Line of Urs

Mohit , Chavi and Vikram have No Values , They Change Words According to their Possibleness 🤢

Bhabo is Naive Lady , Now this Character has Lost All the dignity in My Eyes Bhabo is Now Meena-2 Trying to Crook Sandhya . 🤢

U Described Suraj well 👏
He Keeps Crying Behind/infront of his Mother and Making his and Sandhya Life Miserable

@Bold : Perfect



1 word About story :

Story is About Struggle of Sandhya and the Challenges of Girl From Family and Professional Issues. How Sandhya is Hanling the Issues that Destiny is throwing at Her .

CV always Giving Challenges to Sandhya.

She is Going to be an Iconic Girl and Role Model of a Young Girl Who wishes to be Sucessfull in Pains and Happies of Her Life . Thats it 😊





Wow seeing ur avi it seems like u used to watch IPKKND, idk how u can tolerate this unbearable show after IPKKND which was like completely opposite
Edited by Bansari7 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks Rani... Nice post

I just would like to ask CVs one thing...

This show is very popular in Rajasthan where women are most oppressed and instead of showing empowerment of women and Self-Respect and upliftment of women through Sandhya's character who is supposedly very strong to fight all the social evils ...

We repeatedly see oppression of this character and she seems very helpless and surrendering to her fate???????
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Juna04

Thanks Rani... Nice post


I just would like to ask CVs one thing...

This show is very popular in Rajasthan where women are most oppressed and instead of showing empowerment of women and Self-Respect and upliftment of women through Sandhya's character who is supposedly very strong to fight all the social evils ...

We repeatedly see oppression of this character and she seems very helpless and surrendering to her fate???????

I very much agree with your points, in our charity we are going to look at Rajasthan as well, I will get some names of villages for you. I agree Rajasthan is probably one of the worst places, there is no freedom at all! I think DABH shows that very clearly and also there are probably MIL's like Bhabo that exist there.
Yes, they are showing Sandhya helpless but I suppose there has to be a struggle in her character and soon she will grow out of it and become that independent woman that she is, sometimes however I feel that Sandhya is enduring too much. I can understand she doesn't want to hurt Bhabo but when her own self esteem and character is hurt it is unbearable to watch for me and probably many viewers. I cant see any girl in reality being able to endure such pain and humility. Nice inputs by yourself it is a thought to dwell upon and it is sadly reality in Rajasthan that there is a low number of girls who are independent and are also voicing their own opinion.

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