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Posted: 13 years ago
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my topic says it all...my biggest question today is wat position or rather how much importance does mohan holds in megha life...

for me the reason that they showed behind the separation is not only callous but inherently depressing...

i am ready to understand a few things...for a mother her children come first...they r her first priority...more so wen the husband is second husband and not biological father of the kids...the mother feels more responsible towards the kids because the kids may feel alienated that their mother has married another man...i understand all these...

but wat i dont understand is accusing mohan of not loving the kids as his own even wen he was desperately telling her that he never treated them as stepkids...wat i dont understand is if any thing wrong hapens to the kids then mohan has to be held responsible...

this is the same mohan who found nanhi in the park...from where megha was leaving thinking she was not there while it was mohan's instinct that nanhi was in the park...

it was the same mohan who published amar's report (that time he was confident he was right) and wen it was the day of celebration he alienated himself from his friends only because he cud not bear to see megha and the kids crying that too because of him...

it was the same mohan who saved megha from getting stampeded (shivratri) thereby getting injured himself and even risking getting stampeded himself...

it was the same mohan who went out of his way, swallowing all her insulting remarks just to save her from pratiek...

it was the same mohan who showed his level of integrity, loyalty and devotion wen he was pursuing her in spite of her rejections...he even went thru the humliation of watching megha announcing that she is ready to marry amar...

i can go on and on...but my inclination is not to make a list of wat mohan has done for megha...but just to remind myself that mohan has loved beyond love...like megha herself once said that mohan has always given her love even in return of her hatred...

today she very conveniently blames mohan for wat hapnd to addu...if kids r her priority my first question is y did she marry mohan knowing very well addu has not accepted him...y didnt she give priority to addu's feelings over her own feelings towards mohan...
at that time wat she needed to do is sit and talk with addu...to tell him that mohan loves him too...that mohan will be a gud father...

even post marriage she did nothing to bridge the chasm between mohan and addu...the day mohan scolded addu...she defended mohan in front of papaji and all...okie that was gud...but wat about addu...that was the golden ooportunity for megha to make addu see mohan's worth...that day she shud hv told addu that mohan has scolded him for his own gud...that mohan did wat any father wud do...

for addu it was his mom and sis that formed his world and mohan was an outsider...it was megha's duty to teach addu that mohan is also now a part of their world...but she has never done that...

the day addu got lost...there were some things that i hv noticed...like wen megha was in another platform she called mohan to ask about addu and whether he is wearing muffler or not...it was clear she never trusted mohan wen addu was alone with him...
how crude that can be...she marries a man but cannot trust him with her child...

the most painful part for me was the ishara scene...mohan desperately trying to tell that nanhi and addu r his own kids...and megha just rudely shook her head and denied that...not even bothering for one second that it is not mohan who faltered in his role as papa...but it is she who has faltered in her trust on mohan...

then saying the ultimate things like mohan is not a father figure and she took wrong decision in making him father of her kids...did she know wat she was saying...
i admit she was in intense grief...but is that an excuse to accuse someone who is in equal grief...my question is whether she wud hv said the same thing if addu wud hv run away after getting scolded by amar...i dont believe so...

mohan left and never returned for 12 years...he left because he was hurt...but more because he himself felt guilty for wat hapnd...a man who instead of wondering how megha can not trust him accepts all accusations thrown at him...he promised to bring back addu...for 12 years he went to places in search of him not knowing that he actually did not run away but was abducted...

today mohan is back and is now on the right track...no doubt he will find addu and everything will be solved between mohan and megha...

but is that so...yes mohan will forgive and forget watever megha said...for him only thing matters is staying with his family...

but is it right for mohan...he has loved selflessly...he has loved widout any kind of inhibitions...he has endured every kind of pain inflicted on him...
does he not deserve a word from megha y she said such horrible things to him...

wat about tmrw...if again anything wrong happens to nanhi or addu will mohan again be blamed...does mohan hv to stay on his toes...does he always hv to be alert that how nanhi or addu will react to his actions...is this the kind of love and trust that megha has for him...

it is frustrating as a viewer to watch a love story that seems more like one-sided...i dont believe in love which is not based on trust...if megha cannot trust mohan then how can she claim that she loves him...or does she...i doubt that now...

i hv wriiten a long post...but i actually want to come to one point...

my sincere request to the CVs is to show a valid reason y megha behaved so badly with mohan...her concern for the kids is not reason enuf to drive her husband away from her life...

i still have some hope...those days nanhi was insulting mohan...the police was insulting mohan...and i can consider that vyas family, neighbors everyone were doing the same...and megha cud see mohan in agony and repentance...
i want one scene where megha will hv FB thinking how she told those horrible stuff to mohan just to save him from a bigger pain...how she was dying a thousand deaths while saying those words to mohan...

otherwise...even after MM reunion the old flavor will never be back...the beauty of the reunion will get lost because there will be a doubt about mohan's position in megha's life...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree with you, aditi. I have no doubts on whether Megha loves mohan but her trust factor is questionable. And like u said Love without any trust is nothing.

Your idea seems to be the only thing that can redeem megha as it will clear the questions on her trust factor. Though the idea is a little lame like mohan to leave for 12 yrs as he cannot find addu. But still i can accept this too😆.

But this may clash with some of the scenes shown now (some scenes where Megha too doesn't seem to trust him), but since megha's POV is not shown clearly till now, we can accept this as well.

I feel they are keeping megha's real reaction a mystery. Not sure if its a surprise or a shock😆
Edited by Sunna_Deewani - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I myself don't even get it; what should I tell ya, Aditi? 😆

Always felt that Megha is a confused soul. She might have told all that to Mohan in grief and sort of guilt as well of not able to take care of her son, but her face did fell when Mohan told that he'd leave. Yet she didn't stop him, but again, when he was leaving, she looked at him. She even got restless when Mohan did hurt himself, and ran up to dress his wound. At present, she doesn't use his last name or mention his name, but feels his presence, and eats chewing gum and adorns herself as a married woman.

Her words to Mohan that she feels she's betraying Addu when she sees him do clearly state the fact that she was more of a mother at that time; very helpless and broken, and behaving selfish as well, who simply wanted her son back.

Failure for days, and Nanhi's accusations did take a toll on her, so she might have behaved irrationally. Did I make sense here? I wonder. 😕

Honestly, right now, I'm just assuming. Will be able to say something more confidently when MM meet each other, and Megha speaks her heart out.
Edited by -MohanKiMeera- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What to say Aditi... I had goosebumps reading ur post...
U pointed out these things so well... Even I had felt the same that Mohan doesn't hold that special position in Megha's life as she holds in his life... U said a very right thing that CVs have to show a FB to justify Megha's words...
Thank u for this beautiful post Aditi...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yeh i feel the same megha never helped mohan always left him alone except in ridhi'scase he has always been begging for trust in front of everyone .if guru is angry he is right
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Posted: 13 years ago
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All mohan wants is his family... I still want him to question megha once when they reunite. I want him to question her trust . I want him to tell her that if she had lost a son then so had he. if she was broken then so was he and even worse because he held himself responsible.

and if not shown in flashbacks I want her to breakdown then and agree that she had grown blind towards all these things due to her love for addu.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You said it all and beautifully too. These questions have been plaguing my mind, after the fateful episode which saw Mohan walk out on his family.

The Megha we knew was the one who stood by Mohan when Papaji gave her the ultimatum to choose between love and family. Her faith in her own love for her children and family gave her all the strength then. She lost a war to win the battle eventually.

I still cannot believe Megha said what she said that day, mutely watched Mohan leave and never made an attempt to reach out in 12 years.

Like Subha rightly said Megha's stand has not been cleared by the makers, we are yet to see what she really feels. She feels his presence when he is around, goes mute when others blame him except for a few instances, yet she never refutes when Nanhi blames him. In fact she encouraged Nanhi to forget him and get him out of her mind.

On the other hand there was the chewing gum scene - proof enough how much of Mohan is still with her, but is that just enough. The makers have confused us with her role for whatever reasons. Maybe they are building up the suspense.
Yes what you say is the only way viewers like me can repose faith back in her love and trust for Mohan.
If Rimjhim is going to create another MU I guess it will take her back to square one on her trust in Mohan.
Having said all this somewhere I would like to or probably still believe
that Megha is guilty of letting Mohan leave, letting what happened happen.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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great post yar...mohan 🥺
but we all love when megha supports mohan like in rashmi n ridhima track...i dont know put in words but megha knows mohan wont defend himself when rashmi was humiliating mohan she is the one who supported him...n when papaji asked to choose between family n mohan she chose mohan,pata nai ab kya ho gaya hai megha ko🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think that Megha's stand will be more cleared post her outburst as she will meet Mohan. Pain, anger, frustration, love, longing - anything that she has in her needs to come out, and this is only possible when fate will make her meet Mohan again. Right now,she does not express her feelings either in depression or to make Nanhi believe that she has moved on or both. Anyways she is not a perfect human being. Driven by overflow of emotions do make people do unexpected I believe.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi Aditi,

I agree with the concern expressed in your post totally. In one of your analysis threds I did express my scepticism about Megha's true feelings for Mohan. I am not very convinced about the next paragraph I am quoting from your current post. Here :

i want one scene where megha will hv FB thinking how she told those horrible stuff to mohan just to save him from a bigger pain...how she was dying a thousand deaths while saying those words to mohan...


What bigger pain? Of Megha being unforgiving to Mohan and he has to live with her? Wher is love in that? Isn't love about unconditional acceptance? And about sharing the good, bad and the ugly times together?

All I shall be able to accept from Megha is a true remorse, that in a situation so delicate, when everyone was sufferring, she failed to follow one basic thing about love and marriage and even family - hold on together!

Her lines, ' 5mhe dekhti hun to mujhe har bar Addu ka rota hua chehara najhar aata hai', 'Maine badi galati ki tumhe mere bachchonke baap ka darja dekar', were to me, like a ginal blow. Mohan did not give up after Nanhi used the word hate. But after Megha's words, he had nothing else to lose, he just left, being rejected, yet again.

At that time Megha could say such a thing because Mohan is not a biological father to her kids but do the mother of every child who disappears forces / suggest their spouse to leave? We did discuss this earlier and you have quoted a study, which was about parents who lose their child to death. Many times, for parents with kids, the life revolves around kids, it enhances the couple bond but it changes the couple bond as well. So it is understandable to see parents of a dead child get separated.

But here the child is missing and the accusation is on Mohan.

It broke my heart to see Mohan being insulted by the police for being a step father and Megha being a silent onlooker. That is not silent onlooking, it is silently agreeing. And I can't see any love there.

Megha's character is always shown like this, Unpredictable abou how she will behave with Mohan. With everyone else she is consistant to either love or tolerate or hate them. But with Mohan she shows really unpredictable reactions.

Now in season 2, on the one hand she is telling navika to forget spiderman as only 2 of them are sufferring, and at the same time she has picked up chewing gum habit of Mohan. As if in all the botterness in her life, that gum is going to add some flavor, sweetness, for herself alone, only her private zone.

So may be, that is why I think they should show Megha in remorse for not stopping Mohan from going. I want atleast that now. It is ok if she still thinks her anger over Mohan and her bitter words to Mohan, she is not remorseful about.

Megha needs to ..,,,, well find out and express true feelings for Mohan.

But the voice over they have recorded in Akansha's voice, saw ir on you tube - kunal, akansha, mahalakshmi iyar recording nbt2 song, - in this megha says, 'ab tumhare liye koi jagah nahi ' or something similar. Well, i keep wondering, kab Mohan ke liye such mai jagah thi? Uski jagah, size hamesha badalti gayi aur woh to kabhi andar, kabhi bahar nikala gaya.

This woman, i hate to say it, has not been shown as someone who really moved on when she married forthe second time. She probably chose a man who loves her as she wanted a father figure for her kids and may be change in her social status was a good welcome. Believe me, I hate to say such words.

Bottomline is I doubt if Megha really loves Mohan, if she does, she got to show true remorse by accepting a mistake, which costed MM atleast 12 years os separation.
Edited by swavai2 - 13 years ago

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