for me the reason that they showed behind the separation is not only callous but inherently depressing...
i am ready to understand a few things...for a mother her children come first...they r her first priority...more so wen the husband is second husband and not biological father of the kids...the mother feels more responsible towards the kids because the kids may feel alienated that their mother has married another man...i understand all these...
but wat i dont understand is accusing mohan of not loving the kids as his own even wen he was desperately telling her that he never treated them as stepkids...wat i dont understand is if any thing wrong hapens to the kids then mohan has to be held responsible...
this is the same mohan who found nanhi in the park...from where megha was leaving thinking she was not there while it was mohan's instinct that nanhi was in the park...
it was the same mohan who published amar's report (that time he was confident he was right) and wen it was the day of celebration he alienated himself from his friends only because he cud not bear to see megha and the kids crying that too because of him...
it was the same mohan who saved megha from getting stampeded (shivratri) thereby getting injured himself and even risking getting stampeded himself...
it was the same mohan who went out of his way, swallowing all her insulting remarks just to save her from pratiek...
it was the same mohan who showed his level of integrity, loyalty and devotion wen he was pursuing her in spite of her rejections...he even went thru the humliation of watching megha announcing that she is ready to marry amar...
i can go on and on...but my inclination is not to make a list of wat mohan has done for megha...but just to remind myself that mohan has loved beyond love...like megha herself once said that mohan has always given her love even in return of her hatred...
today she very conveniently blames mohan for wat hapnd to addu...if kids r her priority my first question is y did she marry mohan knowing very well addu has not accepted him...y didnt she give priority to addu's feelings over her own feelings towards mohan...
at that time wat she needed to do is sit and talk with addu...to tell him that mohan loves him too...that mohan will be a gud father...
even post marriage she did nothing to bridge the chasm between mohan and addu...the day mohan scolded addu...she defended mohan in front of papaji and all...okie that was gud...but wat about addu...that was the golden ooportunity for megha to make addu see mohan's worth...that day she shud hv told addu that mohan has scolded him for his own gud...that mohan did wat any father wud do...
for addu it was his mom and sis that formed his world and mohan was an outsider...it was megha's duty to teach addu that mohan is also now a part of their world...but she has never done that...
the day addu got lost...there were some things that i hv noticed...like wen megha was in another platform she called mohan to ask about addu and whether he is wearing muffler or not...it was clear she never trusted mohan wen addu was alone with him...
how crude that can be...she marries a man but cannot trust him with her child...
the most painful part for me was the ishara scene...mohan desperately trying to tell that nanhi and addu r his own kids...and megha just rudely shook her head and denied that...not even bothering for one second that it is not mohan who faltered in his role as papa...but it is she who has faltered in her trust on mohan...
then saying the ultimate things like mohan is not a father figure and she took wrong decision in making him father of her kids...did she know wat she was saying...
i admit she was in intense grief...but is that an excuse to accuse someone who is in equal grief...my question is whether she wud hv said the same thing if addu wud hv run away after getting scolded by amar...i dont believe so...
mohan left and never returned for 12 years...he left because he was hurt...but more because he himself felt guilty for wat hapnd...a man who instead of wondering how megha can not trust him accepts all accusations thrown at him...he promised to bring back addu...for 12 years he went to places in search of him not knowing that he actually did not run away but was abducted...
today mohan is back and is now on the right track...no doubt he will find addu and everything will be solved between mohan and megha...
but is that so...yes mohan will forgive and forget watever megha said...for him only thing matters is staying with his family...
but is it right for mohan...he has loved selflessly...he has loved widout any kind of inhibitions...he has endured every kind of pain inflicted on him...
does he not deserve a word from megha y she said such horrible things to him...
wat about tmrw...if again anything wrong happens to nanhi or addu will mohan again be blamed...does mohan hv to stay on his toes...does he always hv to be alert that how nanhi or addu will react to his actions...is this the kind of love and trust that megha has for him...
it is frustrating as a viewer to watch a love story that seems more like one-sided...i dont believe in love which is not based on trust...if megha cannot trust mohan then how can she claim that she loves him...or does she...i doubt that now...
i hv wriiten a long post...but i actually want to come to one point...
my sincere request to the CVs is to show a valid reason y megha behaved so badly with mohan...her concern for the kids is not reason enuf to drive her husband away from her life...
i still have some hope...those days nanhi was insulting mohan...the police was insulting mohan...and i can consider that vyas family, neighbors everyone were doing the same...and megha cud see mohan in agony and repentance...
i want one scene where megha will hv FB thinking how she told those horrible stuff to mohan just to save him from a bigger pain...how she was dying a thousand deaths while saying those words to mohan...
otherwise...even after MM reunion the old flavor will never be back...the beauty of the reunion will get lost because there will be a doubt about mohan's position in megha's life...