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Posted: 19 years ago
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Guys In School i usually feel very very lonely i feel like i have no friends(i barely have 1 or two friends😭) Wat sud i do when this happens please tell me i m hoping u guys wont let me feel lonely 😭
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Posted: 19 years ago
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try and make frends.....talk to pple and try and get to knw them....c wht intersts them
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I would suggest joining a club or something. It could be anything that you enjoy... a dance club or a book club, etc. Great way to meet new people since you would have the same interests.
Another thing I would suggest is to volunteer somewhere. Doing so will not only give you an opportunity to meet new people and make friends, it could also provide you invaluable experiences! It could be anywhere from a library to a hospital.

Also... when you go to a party or any place where you actually interact with new people... go ahead and introduce yourself. And remember to SMILE! It goes a long way. 😊
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: KingzGirl

I would suggest joining a club or something. It could be anything that you enjoy... a dance club or a book club, etc. Great way to meet new people since you would have the same interests.
Another thing I would suggest is to volunteer somewhere. Doing so will not only give you an opportunity to meet new people and make friends, it could also provide you invaluable experiences! It could be anywhere from a library to a hospital.

Also... when you go to a party or any place where you actually interact with new people... go ahead and introduce yourself. And remember to SMILE! It goes a long way. 😊

thats right

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Posted: 19 years ago
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This happens to everyone🤗

I think some things you can do is maybe

  1. At homeroom just say Hi to some people
  2. Find people who are in a lot of your classes
  3. locker buddies, like the persons locker near u😛
  4. @ lunch ask if you can sit there..it might be werid, but i guess thts wht u can do
  5. you have a couple of friends rite? so meet the friends of ur friends
  6. go to dances, and school festiies
  7. dont tag along to ppl i did that and its not good.. if they dont show a sign themselves tht they wanna be friends chuk it, and find another group
I hope i helped😳

Priya😛
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: DesiChocolate

This happens to everyone🤗

I think some things you can do is maybe

    At homeroom just say Hi to some people Find people who are in a lot of your classes locker buddies, like the persons locker near u😛 @ lunch ask if you can sit there..it might be werid, but i guess thts wht u can do you have a couple of friends rite? so meet the friends of ur friends go to dances, and school festiies
  1. dont tag along to ppl i did that and its not good.. if they dont show a sign themselves tht they wanna be friends chuk it, and find another group

I hope i helped😳

Priya😛

thats how i meet my first friend in grad 8 and then she introudcted me to her friendz and now all i no is that there always theree for me

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: KingzGirl

I would suggest joining a club or something. It could be anything that you enjoy... a dance club or a book club, etc. Great way to meet new people since you would have the same interests.
Another thing I would suggest is to volunteer somewhere. Doing so will not only give you an opportunity to meet new people and make friends, it could also provide you invaluable experiences! It could be anywhere from a library to a hospital.

Also... when you go to a party or any place where you actually interact with new people... go ahead and introduce yourself. And remember to SMILE! It goes a long way. 😊




agree with yaaaaa 😛
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Posted: 19 years ago
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well i have a couple new advices

1. dont pretend to be someone else just to get people to like you, remember, when they become ur friends they are really befriending the false image of you and not the real you. So they might not like you later on if you show ur true colors.

2. Dont just choose to be friends with "popular" kids, there are some really great people out there so dont feel ashamed that you are not part of a big clique.

3. Dont make up stuff about yourself to get people to like you, they find out eventually.

4. If you're doubtful that ur parents will accept ur friendship with someone, then think about why ur friends with them, are they not good people or just misunderstood?

5. Dont worry about pleasing everyone, if you have a different opinion on something than someone else, then say it, because if you dont then people will not value your opinion as truthful and fair.

and last,be positive, make sure that the three friends you have got are genuine and are close friends of yours, you know what they say, you will be lonely in a large group of people, but never with a close friend. and also focus on ur grades, and even if the popular kids dont like you remember that if you get good grades, then you wont be the popular kid working at a fast food restaurant for the rest of their lives.


You will make friends when u get to college so dont worry about all of this now and just be positive!

i hope this helped hon! 😃

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Posted: 19 years ago
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when people from ur class goin to another try to talk to them say hi how r u wassup dont worry u will know them
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Posted: 19 years ago
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u have so many piece of advice I hope that helps
they should help 😃

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