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Posted: 12 years ago
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I could not watch the entire 21st jan episode. I just watched till the scene where nanhi calls mohan soutela and blames him for not loving her brother.

For a few moments we can say Nanhi's anger is justified as she lost her brother. However what is more pinching is the reason stated by Nanhi... "tum soutele ho". Those were words not only triggered by just anger BUT ALSO by Hatered and Mistrust...😭 This is reason why I just can't seem to be able to support nanhi.

she actually believed Addu and his ongoing "raga" of spiderman disliking him. Nanhi did believe him..😲

I just want to tell her : It was not Mohan but Adu who disliked Mohan more, hated him, never ever tried to accept him as his father... For how long could mohan keep on proving his love Addu without getting any trust in return?

About Megha : The way her trust wavers is so strange. yes, she lost her son. the point is she too stated the same reason - "soutela" 😭 if Addu and Mohan could not gel with each other then did megha ever tried to build a bridge to fill the gap? till now we have not seen any such incident and i don't think we will ever see too...😲 Parenting is both sides... Mohan could not have been Addu's rejected dad forever.

About Mohan:
Yes in NBT 1 he did say his relation with Megha would be beyond life and yet he left her alone in pain and agony. Another fact is he too was feeling the same pain and agony plus the burden of being a "soutela father" as well as reason for addu going missing. 😭

He could have stayed with them. But for how long? How long could he have beared allegations, mistrust, pain and hatered in both megha's and nanhi's eyes. The 2 persons he loved the most had lost trust in him and he had to live with it. For how long could he do it?

I don't know who to blame more but one thing is sure what can be blamed the MOST is "Tag of Being a stepfather" 😭


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Posted: 12 years ago
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it is hard to live with a false tag...but it is harder if the tag comes from the very ppl he never expected...

stepfather...i wonder who is being "step"...was mohan behaving like stepfather or the kids behaving like stepkids...

wen mohan scolded addu or hit him...he was doing exactly like any biological father wud do to his incorrigible son...stealing, lying, blackmailing and even forcing dad to join in his misdemeanors...any dad wud blast that kid...
mohan fulfilled his duty as father by slapping addu that day...

it was nanhi who questioned him and is still questioning "why did u slap him"...wud she hv asked amar the same question...no because she wud hv felt amar had the right to scold them...so who is differentiating whom...

it was nanhi who is differentiating mohan from amar...that amar has the right to scold but not mohan...

it was nanhi who behaved like a stepkid and not mohan...

and to top that was megha...wat excuse she has for mistrusting mohan so much...mohan is not capable of being a father...wow...i guess in the accident track mohan took care of not only the kids but also megha in a way that no parent can...papaji and saroj were just watching from sidelines and were watching mohan day and night maintaining his kids at home and megha in hospital...

to say such disgusting things to a man like mohan is not pardonable even wen she is in grief with loss of son...not pardonable because mohan was going thru the same pain...it is megha's problem that she did not feel mohan was feeling same pain just because he is a stepfather...

mohan...the biggest blunder of the CVs was to make him walk away from his family at a time wen they needed his emotional support the most...to walk away and not return for 12 years...
another big blunder is to show mohan so rich...

it is so depressing that mohan who once bought things with EMI just to give his wife all the luxuries is today living like a king not once thinking that megha must be fighting for each penny...mohan's wealth is the biggest blunder in the story...

Edited by adoremevirgo - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Feeling very disappointed...first with the thought itself that the story started with a 12 yr leap and now the reason for separation..with great expectations i was waiting for season 2 and i expected they would start from where they left last time...showing the family and how they live with each other..can Mohan become a successful father, can Megha carry the family happily forward..Nanhi-Addu-Mohan-Megha equation, and then thoughts about bringing a new kid to this world...there were so many things they could have explored...but we had to bear with this leap...

But now this separation and the reason for separation is making me think that they never valued this husband-wife relation...Loosing a child is like the biggest pain that any parent can go through...Nanhi's momentary hatred can be understood. but 12 yrs of hatred for a guy whom she understood very well??? thats completely unbelievable...

To add to all this, Meghas take on this incident...she should have supported Mohan in this case...what happened was she isolated him out, like she always does.Like u said, they never showed any scenes where she tried to act matured and bridge the gap between the two...Addu from beginning was a naughty and arrogant kid...Megha, if had been a proper mother, would have made him understand things,,,Instead she pampered him and pampered Mohan like a kid tooo...Even if they get together i will feel for those wasted 12 yrs, when they could have actually proved the worth of their relationship by standing together at the time of misery...disappointed...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am totally unhappy with the the way the story has been written and i have moved away from this show...


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Posted: 12 years ago
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it is really hard to be a step father and i feel bad for mohan
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: adoremevirgo

it is hard to live with a false tag...but it is harder if the tag comes from the very ppl he never expected...

stepfather...i wonder who is being "step"...was mohan behaving like stepfather or the kids behaving like stepkids...

wen mohan scolded addu or hit him...he was doing exactly like any biological father wud do to his incorrigible son...stealing, lying, blackmailing and even forcing dad to join in his misdemeanors...any dad wud blast that kid...
mohan fulfilled his duty as father by slapping addu that day...

it was nanhi who questioned him and is still questioning "why did u slap him"...wud she hv asked amar the same question...no because she wud hv felt amar had the right to scold them...so who is differentiating whom...

it was nanhi who is differentiating mohan from amar...that amar has the right to scold but not mohan...

it was nanhi who behaved like a stepkid and not mohan...

and to top that was megha...wat excuse she has for mistrusting mohan so much...mohan is not capable of being a father...wow...i guess in the accident track mohan took care of not only the kids but also megha in a way that no parent can...papaji and saroj were just watching from sidelines and were watching mohan day and night maintaining his kids at home and megha in hospital...

to say such disgusting things to a man like mohan is not pardonable even wen she is in grief with loss of son...not pardonable because mohan was going thru the same pain...it is megha's problem that she did not feel mohan was feeling same pain just because he is a stepfather...

mohan...the biggest blunder of the CVs was to make him walk away from his family at a time wen they needed his emotional support the most...to walk away and not return for 12 years...
another big blunder is to show mohan so rich...

it is so depressing that mohan who once bought things with EMI just to give his wife all the luxuries is today living like a king not once thinking that megha must be fighting for each penny...mohan's wealth is the biggest blunder in the story...


Rightly said!!! Had Megha been a good mother, she wouldnt have tried to commit suicide...and then she is blaming Mohan that he is not a responsible father...what an irony!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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///He could have stayed with them. But for how long? How long could he have beared allegations, mistrust, pain and hatered in both megha's and nanhi's eyes. The 2 persons he loved the most had lost trust in him and he had to live with it. For how long could he do it? ////


exactly...though they where much shattered at that time, in these 12 long years, Megha still hate him the same?... and she never tried to reduce navika's "sautela" !...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Its time for Mohan this time to show his stronger and positive side. Answer every question with boldness and positivity.
I like to see Megha and Nanhi and Addu and Renu whoever blames Mohan in the family apologise to Mohan
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: adoremevirgo

it is hard to live with a false tag...but it is harder if the tag comes from the very ppl he never expected...

That is what is life. It gives all shocks and surprises. We get to hear things from those we never expect. Its so true as shown in this serial.


stepfather...i wonder who is being "step"...was mohan behaving like stepfather or the kids behaving like stepkids...
Kids (Nanhi) never even given thought to think Spiderman as step father. She always wanted to call him father. When the mature people make such big blunders understanding the near and dear, Nanhi was just a 8 yr old kid. I am sure she never meant it what she said to Mohan


wen mohan scolded addu or hit him...he was doing exactly like any biological father wud do to his incorrigible son...stealing, lying, blackmailing and even forcing dad to join in his misdemeanors...any dad wud blast that kid...
mohan fulfilled his duty as father by slapping addu that day...
Agree Mohan did correctly as a biological father. But the mistake is Megha and Mohan never took Addu attitude seriously. Actually Addu needed Mohan attention more than Nanhi. But due to initial rough time between Addu and Mohan and misguiding Chachi Renu the Young boy was all confused. Mohan as well if you see, shown more love towords Addu rather than Nanhi.


it was nanhi who questioned him and is still questioning "why did u slap him"...wud she hv asked amar the same question...no because she wud hv felt amar had the right to scold them...so who is differentiating whom...No, i dont think so, she has said that out of emotion. She really didnt mean it. She loves her brother too.

it was nanhi who is differentiating mohan from amar...that amar has the right to scold but not mohan...it was nanhi who behaved like a stepkid and not mohan...She really didnt mean it. She was totally lost what to do to get back her brother. So she always provokes Mohan to do things in challenging and difficult times. Remember she was same emotional and said when Ridhima comes to Mohan home for the match fixing.

and to top that was megha...wat excuse she has for mistrusting mohan so much...mohan is not capable of being a father...wow...i guess in the accident track mohan took care of not only the kids but also megha in a way that no parent can...papaji and saroj were just watching from sidelines and were watching mohan day and night maintaining his kids at home and megha in hospital...
Megha, i guess she is at fault in some places. I too agree she didnt show her maturity in judging Mohan. But she loves Mohan a lot. But you see, she is mother too and Addu was very close to her heart. I am sure Megha never foget what Mohan did during her difficult days in hospital. May be she was bit shaken by difficult things happening with her in life and didnt want to trouble Mohan life all the time. Megha thought to keep Mohan away from her atleast so that he wont suffer more seeing Megha suffer everyday greiving for her son. And she cannot hide her pain. So she had to take that hard decision. I think Megha loves Mohan like nobody else.


to say such disgusting things to a man like mohan is not pardonable even wen she is in grief with loss of son...not pardonable because mohan was going thru the same pain...it is megha's problem that she did not feel mohan was feeling same pain just because he is a stepfather...

mohan...the biggest blunder of the CVs was to make him walk away from his family at a time wen they needed his emotional support the most...to walk away and not return for 12 years...
another big blunder is to show mohan so rich...
Basically Mohan is rich. he chose to live simple life on his own terms initially. Later on Mohan patch up with his father. So No mistake in CVs direction. He has all the luxurious life.
He just went back to his father home.


it is so depressing that mohan who once bought things with EMI just to give his wife all the luxuries is today living like a king not once thinking that megha must be fighting for each penny...mohan's wealth is the biggest blunder in the story...Mohan might have offered Money but Megha and Nanhi might have rejected it out of ego. Who knows. As far as MB is concerned he never leaves anything adhoora. Even after 12 years he has not left the hope of finding Addu and returning home. That shows his commitment towards his family. What the immediate family thinks about him he doesnt really care. Thats what is MB character about.
Thats the whole reason i adore Mohan Bhatnager character. 😊

Edited by naina2010 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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it is hard to live with a false tag...but it is harder if the tag comes from the very ppl he never expected...

stepfather...i wonder who is being "step"...was mohan behaving like stepfather or the kids behaving like stepkids...

wen mohan scolded addu or hit him...he was doing exactly like any biological father wud do to his incorrigible son...stealing, lying, blackmailing and even forcing dad to join in his misdemeanors...any dad wud blast that kid...
mohan fulfilled his duty as father by slapping addu that day...

it was nanhi who questioned him and is still questioning "why did u slap him"...wud she hv asked amar the same question...no because she wud hv felt amar had the right to scold them...so who is differentiating whom...

it was nanhi who is differentiating mohan from amar...that amar has the right to scold but not mohan...

it was nanhi who behaved like a stepkid and not mohan...

@aditi: very well written. The main crux of the issue is "stepfather" and i have too have been reiterating the same point since long.
If amar had hit addu the situation would have been totally different than it is now. it's just because mohan was not their biological father that he had to face the brunt . even after loving his family with all his heart he was not fully accepted somewhere in their minds because he was the kids stepfather

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