Saddened, disgusted and disappointed

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Those three adj. pretty much sum up my feelings regarding the show, the CVs and current story line


What kind of terrible message is this for women? That there are wome who are fine with being beaten up?

Out of all the shows on tv I must say this is the most hideous and disgusting given the timing and sensitivity of all that is happening in India

CVs should hang their heads in shame

Shows/tracks like this make me ashamed of my roots


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Posted: 12 years ago
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you are judging princess amrit wrong . she is doing it on a purpose to get the love of her life aka agam back . this is a trick of hers . although i agree that it sends in a wrong message to the society where these things are common . the only way to get rid of these is to quit like i did with some shows including hitler didi
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I just knew that this would happen afterall this is a rajah shah show. I knew he would do something wrong and thank god i had stuck to my gut and didnt watch this show and get attached to it even though i love most of the actors here. All u get from a RS show is weak woman being unnaturally stupid. In his shows woman are constantly being pushed around and degraded. And now he just took it to another level with amrit character. Message from the show if u evil and u get beaten up u going to deserve it. Bravo great message coming from india after that innocent young girl was brutally murdered. Shame on u rajah shah for approving this and shame on the ct for writing such crap for pure entertainment. Bt who u entertained i dnt know maybe just the perverted part of society who will take this message the way it is meant to and thats crudely.


One of my fav was killed off now just hoping that Adda and Ankita would quit so that i wnt hav to ever read what that vile old man adds to the show. Bt even if they dnt this show going to end soon mark my words. At the moment dnt think the indian public can stomach violence against woman of any sort and i hope they dnt.

And agree with Askhay if u not to attached to the show or character quit it. No need to watch such crap find something else to watch.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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My POV..sadly i will say yes there exist women in real life who are fine with getting beaten by their partners..who "want" to be beaten..there are reason for that also..those who come from dysfunctional families where they were routinely beaten as a child..so with time they have learnt to expect this kind of frequent incident of violence..

Other factors are losing financial support..losing custody of a child ..all this do make women accept being a Domestic violence victim or for another reason not being stalked by her partner who can be dangerous for her life..

One major factor is the traditional thinking..its a fact many women dont view divorce as a viable alternative..many women in our society are conditioned to believe they are responsible to make their marriage or relationship work..if the relationship fails they have failed as a woman..thats a bitter truth..

now coming to the show we all are against Domestic violence but CV giving message also through this show woman like Amrit does exist ..in beginning of the show it was shown she was ready to marry for money an impotent guy like Adiraj just not to lose her princess status and luxury of life..for vengence with own sibling she can go to any extent..bear humiliation.. bear physical violence just to acheive her purpose.its not like Amrit is a kid and wants a sweet revenge from her sister..she is playing a dangerous game with her sister..for what reason destroy her happiness and make her life hell..for a guy who dont give a damn about her..he has never loved her nor it will ever happen..one cant snatch love or force someone to love you..its not like Agam betrayed her in love and married Nimrit..he only had hatred for her even after marriage he would have made her life miserable.. people get second chances in life to correct their mistakes and learn a lesson but its pitiful Amrit seems not the case here..it was such a shameless act drinking poison..she did not even have respect for her own life..common can a woman stoop so low for revenge..

woman like Amrit needs counseling..to find inner peace in herself and that revenge is not the answer as it causes self disaster to oneself..

A message also from creatives that woman like Nimrit does exist also ..strong..brave ...she wont hesitate one second to fight against these kind of violence without fear and face the guy also..


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Posted: 12 years ago
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@saveeta no1 can deny these issues exist and we all know alot of woman either are conditioned into thinking that violence against them is perfectly fine from childhood or stay in those r/ship coz of circumstances coz they have children and they have no income to support themselves. There are even some who want to be beaten up, who welcome it and see it as their partners love for them. Than there are some who see divorce as being more shameful than being beaten. And than there are ppl like amrit who are evil, who care more about status, pride, ego more than their own life and others.

No1 wil argue that amrit is a helpless victim who didnt knw what was going on or defend or justify her behavior by saying its all coz of love that to me would be stupid. We knw this is a show that her character needs to get so out of control to finally be good.

Bt to trivialise it just for the sake of entertainment especially at a time like this isnt right. They make amrit bring up the rape issue and than they show this and i just dnt think its correct.

Social issues that affect us should always, always be highlighted no matter how brutal by tv shows in a sensitive manner if they show it. And is it been done this way here i dnt knw for me getting nimrit to stand against it wasnt enough they needed amrit to do something. I dnt knw they should hav got her to whip him or something. Certain times with good character the message can be lost if the storyline/acting is too much if u get what i mean.



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Posted: 12 years ago
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For the past few episodes showing of excess of violence makes you sick to watch

and that to on women in Amrit Manthan 😲 because of that I have not watched the yesterday's episode

After getting indepenence still the scenario of the women have not changed again same thing showing in the serial makes you sad

This is request for CV to seriously change the storyline ...🤢

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Akshay_Kundal

you are judging princess amrit wrong . she is doing it on a purpose to get the love of her life aka agam back . this is a trick of hers . although i agree that it sends in a wrong message to the society where these things are common . the only way to get rid of these is to quit like i did with some shows including hitler didi



No I am not judging her wrong as I made another topic called "do you think" where I clearly stated my suspicions of Amrit "faking" being a victim way before it was revealed in the show

Yes I will need to quit watching this farce of a show
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I can not write with details but there are correct things and mistakes...I think if woman get good husband like Agam ...she should listen to her husband..
And if we will speak about Violence there are many Factors
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