Anandi is so true to her words

Today she said the following things while buying saree:

i agree with you. what i fail to understand is that when shiv was romantic before the marriage she didnt have any problems (e.g the payal + confession scene) but here she is like mujhse nahi hoga.

Do u guys watch BV just to bash the couple or what? BV is taking things gradually and here Anandi needs Shivs help in overcoming her insecurities which eventually she will get. unaware of the scenario if she says something why on earth u r trying to hype the issue. Dont try to be mean all the time though tried ur best with positie caption and great language.

Originally posted by: sahasra2006

Do u guys watch BV just to bash the couple or what? BV is taking things gradually and here Anandi needs Shivs help in overcoming her insecurities which eventually she will get. unaware of the scenario if she says something why on earth u r trying to hype the issue. Dont try to be mean all the time though tried ur best with positie caption and great language.

Let BV team show whats going to happen. Watch how things move in their life .

better dont be judgemental in ur comments towards the show. if u r bored or upset with the current track better avoid it. U will save ur enenrgy.

well wen anandi was not changing she was bashed wen she is trying to change she is again bashed...I dont find it surprising seems like som ppl watch the show to collect pointers to bash anyways her frigidity has psycological reasoning.She is very comfortable with shiv in normal enviroment...she laughs n jokes with him she dosent mind his casual touches also.its just tht wen it comes to sex she panics.
due to jagyas betrayal she has got this fear of intimacy...it happns to many ppl one of my frn got it...i dont want to elaborate how or why its her personal reason...but she went frigid n panicked wenever her hubby even touched her...tht too after months of being married...she had to go through medical counselling to overcome tht.
anabdi needs to come out of tht fear n shiv is trying to do tht.

People who were scared of being intimate in real life due to a failed relationship or any other reasons at least did not preach others to move on when they could not move on or blushed/shied like a lover over a long period of time when someone whispered romantically to their ears specially when that "someone" gave lots of respect and space to them I guess...

I hav said this in other thread I am repeating it here.
Sometime we dont realyy know our fears until it confronts us...
Anandi panicked when she entered tht SR room she was perfectly fine before tht...She was typical blushing bride.And we cant generalise saying tht she had enough time to get over her fears...
Some ppl develop fear of snake or fire for life after suffering frm snake bite or burn in childhood...they have enought time to overcome it but they just dont...they panic when confronted with snake or fire otherwise they r fine normal people.
I think even anandi was unaware of her fear until now...She never actuly faced any intimate situation after jagya until now.
So she has panicked...Its not tht she in planning or plotting to stay away...She is not some mahan aatma she is a human and instead of confronting it she is running away frm it...
She is fine with casual romance and touching its just the sex part which agitates her...She knows wat she is doing is wrong thts why she apologised to Shiv.
She needs counselling and patience...She'll be fine after tht.

Originally posted by: nniks

well wen anandi was not changing she was bashed wen she is trying to change she is again bashed...I dont find it surprising seems like som ppl watch the show to collect pointers to bash anyways her frigidity has psycological reasoning.She is very comfortable with shiv in normal enviroment...she laughs n jokes with him she dosent mind his casual touches also.its just tht wen it comes to sex she panics.
due to jagyas betrayal she has got this fear of intimacy...it happns to many ppl one of my frn got it...i dont want to elaborate how or why its her personal reason...but she went frigid n panicked wenever her hubby even touched her...tht too after months of being married...she had to go through medical counselling to overcome tht.
anabdi needs to come out of tht fear n shiv is trying to do tht.

Originally posted by: jack0007

jagya's betrayal can make her not ever trust a man..or run away from thought of being married or emotionally attached to a man..

but i dont think what jagya did would cause fear of physical intimacy..i.e she was never physically abused or tortured..

dont blame jagya for everything..

for a woman(atleast rural ones) its very hard to get physically intimate with someone she is deeply in love with ..anandi is not in love with shiv , which is the only reason why she cannot be physically intimate with shiv..

yes u can blame jagya for anandi not being able to love or invest in a person so much..

yes because of jagya's betrayal she has not been able to trust or love a man completely..but jagya is not responsible for her fear of physical intimacy..

Its not necessary to be physically tortured or abused to develop fear of intimacy...even betrayal can cause tht...

@nniks