When you go to live in someone else's house, will you try to do things their way so they are not bothered or stick to your own messy ways creating trouble everywhere?
Unless it was something that went against my personal principles...I would definitely mend my ways to accomodate the rules of my host's home.
Would you randomly take out 5 kilograms of different coloured wires and try to instal a security alarm just because you felt like it?
Definitely not...π...it's not my house...and therefore installing anything is not my decision to make
Would you eavesdrop on an outsider's phone conversation, assume he's having problems in his love life and then set up his MARRIAGE with the girl you assumed was his girlfriend?
No...that would be so rude...and even if I did overhear something...I would keep it to myself.
Would you remain in that paraya house for months and months and never think about returning back home even though you know too well that you're doing nothing sitting here?
No way..π³
Would you then show attitude towards that man after all the times he's tolerated your craziness and even helped you in some dangerous situations?
No way
I know Asad sending Zoya to meet Akram proved dangerous for her, but his intentions were not wrong at all. If I was Asad I doubt I could tolerate such a person in my house for so long. I feel that the only time I fall in love with the lead character in a show is when she does/feel what I would do/feel in that exact scenario. When I can relate to the character. I have nothing in common with Zoya (almost) so is having a tough time trying to appreciate her. I know a lot of viewers here love Zoya, so wanted to know if you guys relate to her. If so, how? π
I know what Asad did put Zoya in harm's way...but his intentions were not wrong. Zoya did run away from her nikkah. And Asad saw his employee suffering emotional trauma because of it. He thought if the 2 talked things out it would help put things right.
In principle he was right. And he did not know that Akram was a jerk. Of course...he should not have sent Zoya alone...that was where he went wrong.
Having said that...I can see why he probably didn't think it was a big deal...one, he thought Akram was shareef...and two, Zoya comes and goes as she pleases...at all hours.
2 wrongs don't make a right...and it was just an unfortunate situation. Thankfully nothing happened.
Getting back to your question...I don't relate to Zoya at all...and I'm originally from NY city...π
Yes she's funny...and I enjoy her nok-jhok with Asad...but she's rude, loud, messy (and I'm being polite), nosey, and as judgemental as she accuses Asad of being...just my POV. π³
Edited by ummesulaiman - 13 years ago