Nowdays when I come to this forum there are to many post who are bashing Anandi and Shiv…. Regularly I saw a 2-3 post in same topic it felt irritating some time. Some who is defending Shiv said he is marry a girl whom he Love madly his action is justified and Anandi should respond to his Love talk to him regarding her fear etc…. And who is defending Anandi said she had a past due to which her fear is justified and Shiv should gave her time etc….
According to me nobody wrong in this situation becoz both state of mind is different regarding this marriage. For Shiv it is his First Marriage for whom he love wholeheartedly show his Love to her by coming close to her. He is not despo but a normal human being who has a feeling for his ladylove which he wanted to show and he also understand that she is happy with him but have some fear regarding this marriage. He wanted to know from her what is her Fear. If all talk is started by him what is about Anandi he wants that she should tell him about her fear and open up in this relationship……
As for Anandi it is her second marriage. Her first marriage is happened when she doesn't understand the meaning of love how can she understand the meaning of marriage….. but tried to understand the meaning of marriage when she become adult and tried to do everything to make her life partner happy…. But what happened to her whom she love the most leave her for another women….. and destroy her confidence, self-esteem, love everything. After that she stand up and doing things to make other happy…. For her she forget about herself becoz due to Jagiya she think that she is not able to gave love to anybody nobody will love her …. 7 years she is away form men love and his touch how she immediately responded Shiv touch and his love after marriage….. becoz now she know the meaning of marriage and understand what commitment taken in marriage…. She have a fear that she will be able to match up the expectation of Shiv and gave him what he wanted to her….. Give her time to understand Shiv and openup with him…
Before marriage he is her friend whom she share everything but after marriage he is husband…. She forget about her friend but only remember a husband…. And since childhood she taught that husband is superior and you have to do what he wanted and make him happy always fulfill all his desires happily or unhappily…..
Its so easy to find a fault in some one but understand some fear, pain, sorrow, is very difficult … Im shocked when some people write a comment that Anandi deserve that Jagiya left her becoz she never make happy some one, she shows some nakhara, but nobody see her pain, guilt, she know what is she doing to Shiv is not correct but due to her fear she did wrong things…… Why people simply cant understand that all people is not same and its not about city or village its about human nature some people share everything without any fear and some people have have problem to share their feeling to others….. Some time people talk like a immature people and show how they insensitive toward other feeling…… In this track show when two mature people get married then how they will adjust and understand each other, In any relationship nobody in perfect sometime men strong and women weak and vice versa. In rail track Shiv become weak then charge taken by Anandi and after marriage due to her past experience Anandi become weak and now charge is taken by Shiv to boost her confidence and showing his love for her feel her special ….. then any relation will work…. But here people not see this kind of thing only want romance and find out fault in others behaviors but fail to see the depth of the track how we have work on relationship….. I don't regret if people also find a fault in this post I and arguing about its perfectly fine for …
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