The other side of Anandi

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Tuttifrutti

@Tuttifrutti

Voyager

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Posted: 13 years ago

While watching today s episode, I saw tears in Anandi s eyes and at the same time tears flew from my eyes...Anandi s tears were for her unexpected behavour towards Shiv ji and my tears were for her unexpected behaviuor towards her millions of fans worldwide.

I do not know the reason why she did it to hurt a man like Shiv ji, but if this goes beyond Shiv ji to Sekhars, the outcomes are bound to bounce back on her and I do not see if there is any explanation which can convince anyone about her this behaviour.

Who guides us in our life...well, the obvious answer is ..our principles , and here Anandi on which principles hurting a lovable man.

Dear Anandi, life does not provide the opportunities at each and every step, God can never bring a smile on you every day, ...you got some beautiful moments in your life after such a long and hard struggle..why you let these moments go in vain...

You have created boundries on yourself and nobody can break those except your inner soul. Do net let the evil win the goodness ..

Edited by tootyfruity - 13 years ago

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divine_ram

@divine_ram

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Posted: 13 years ago

Nice post. She needs shiv to get her out of the fears and make her love him deeply. I think cv will show shiv making that effort and I feel it's his responsibility to heal her right now. It is very easy to marry a abused girl but making her a normal wife is a challenge and shiv would surely win one day.

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Nandita / Tina

@5cents

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Sheetsden
Nice post. She needs shiv to get her out of the fears and make her love him deeply. I think cv will show shiv making that effort and I feel it's his responsibility to heal her right now. It is very easy to marry a abused girl but making her a normal wife is a challenge and shiv would surely win one day.

Fruity, nice topic😉 UMMM The other side of Anandi is not so yumlacious😛😆. The other side of her has insecurity and inferiority complex thanks to J's superiority complex😉 ( I'll not dwell in the past) . The Man Jagia has successfully broken her from inside. Though she projects a brave and fearless girl from outside and is quite capable of making lemonade from lemons thrown at her 😆 but she has some fears and is not perfect😉. All the drama lies BTW her insecurities and securities with Shiv in the backdrop😆. Drama needs criticism to live on so enjoy 😛

@ SD, For the first part of your post...SHE LOVES HIM deeply ( he has shown him the Lagaav ka lovely roop😉😳). Shiv said after the J fiasco ...Now that I know ...mera saath unke liye kitna maine rakhta hai...I'll keep trying jaab tak vo mera pyaar swikaar na kar le....so he knows she is deeply attached to him ( as was seen in the police station sc too) and respects him...so she has all the prerequisites for falling in LOve or has she already fallen in love😛. Shiv has won her over😳 that's why we saw those crystalline droplets from the corner of her eye today. 😃

I absolutely agree with you that it easier to marry a abused or battered woman but making her feel "NORMAL" is a challenge and a very uphill task. But Shiv is doing an awesome job as a new hubby to her. Many people have issues but I absolutely love Shiv's behavior towards Ajee post marriage. He is trying to be the PERFECT Hubby to her in words & actions too. Though she has some issues and is scared as she is scarred but for Shiv she is the one and only one and in every step he is making her feel that she is his new bride...hence all the first night talks.😳

But for the second part Shiv can do so much it is she who has to deal with the insecurities and come out of it. Ajee is appearing to be in a state of SHOCK & CONFUSION at HER own refusal to comply...Shiv has nothing to do with it. But he'll always be her Knight in shinning armor. 😳 These men with solid 24 carat heart of gold ufff😆 think they have been send to this earth to protect all woman and now if she is damsel in distress then tho lottery for them.😉 And if she is THE woman of his dreams then she had it😉...like it or not they'll suffocate them with their love, attention and care❤️

Every thing in marriage does not fit into comfort zone all the time and the trick is to adjust the expectations 😉 and Shiv is doing just that right now. Help me find my file I'll file all my expectations in it 😆 Go Shiv Go ...we know Ajee will do triathlon & follow you 😳

Hope is the surest guide 😃

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Vidya

@Shinya

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

Bhach ... Wonderful post.
No matter what you say, her fans worldwide do have justification for her wierd behavior and they will blame shiv, jagya, and everyone but her.
What you said is true... God helps those who help themselves!!

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Ela Singh

@elasingh

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

Agree with you bhach but here I feel noone should be forced in a sexual relationship.

Yes I know Anandi went in this marriage with open eyes, but talking and being friendly with a guy is a diffrent thing and going to bed is simply different.

Shiv should have waited .Its my opinion.

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Uma

@adi2512

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: 5cents

Every thing in marriage does not fit into comfort zone all the time and the trick is to adjust the expectations 😉 and Shiv is doing just that right now. Help me find my file I'll file all my expectations in it 😆 Go Shiv Go ...
Hope is the surest guide 😃

Tina...

@ bold REd...

Only U can give a Quote some thing So apt to the moment...😳😆

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Ela Singh

@elasingh

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Shinya
Bhach ... Wonderful post.
No matter what you say, her fans worldwide do have justification for her wierd behavior and they will blame shiv, jagya, and everyone but her.
What you said is true... God helps those who help themselves!!

Hello Shinya How are you?

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Vidya

@Shinya

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: elasingh
Agree with you bhach but here I feel noone should be forced in a sexual relationship.
Yes I know Anandi went in this marriage with open eyes, but talking and being friendly with a guy is a diffrent thing and going to bed is simply different.

Shiv should have waited .Its my opinion.

Ela dear, shiv hasn't done anything to her yet. 😆😆

Becchara is still waiting for his 'eid ka chand' 🤣

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Ela Singh

@elasingh

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Shinya

Ela dear, shiv hasn't done anything to her yet. 😆😆

Becchara is still waiting for his 'eid ka chand' 🤣

No idea Shinya as I have not watched BV. 😆Waise bhi Shiv is too decent to force himself upon her.

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Vidya

@Shinya

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

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@ela- let me tell you what happened.

The second morning, Shiv expressed his wish that like any other newly married man, he too is looking forward to his suhagrat. Now, what is unusual in this?

Some members said, shiv should have asked her if she too was wishing the same... Why should he do that? Isn't that a norm after marriage?

Is she an 'abused' woman that he has married? Did he make a favour to her marrying her?

NO, he fell in her love with her. Also he gave her a couple of chances to rethink her decision. But every time she assured him that she wants to go ahead with the marriage and that she doesn't want to go back to jagya.

Now, tell me, what is wrong if shiv wants to have sex with his wife? Why should he take these shit nakharas from her?

You are saying shiv should have waited? But for how long? Till he reaches 60?