Bani’s Love is Equal to Jai’s Faith!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I was actually surprised yesterday to learn that Jai had no idea of the truth and he still doesn't! No wonder he looks so surprised and shaken after his conversation with Pushkar!

That can only mean, Jai accepted back Bani purely on the basis of his blind trust and faith on her character! Jai did not know that Bani did all this to protect his Property and Wealth from Jigyasa and Ranveer, Jai did not know that Bani lost the child in an accident in a bid to protect him and she did not abort the child and most importantly Jai did not know the extent of Bani's Love!

I think its amazing the way Jai has shown trust in Bani! I can't remember any other serial in which the Male Protogonist has shown blind faith in his Wife / Girlfriend / Lover! But Jai seems to surpass all shreds of logic in the face of Bani!

Jai's trust in Bani can only be matched by her Love for him!😳 The way Bani's love for Jai knows no bounds, Jai's faith and trust in Bani is also immovable!

Going by yesterday's lovely episode, I think the reason why Jai did not come home but went to his Office was to find out the truth about Bani! He looked mighty distrubed after his conversation with Pushkar! One he felt miserable about suspecting Bani and Pushkar's relationship for even a fleeting moment and secondly, he was really rattled by the way Pushkar described Bani's feelings for him!

So my question to you guys is;

Do you think Jai will find out the entire truth about all that Bani went through for him by this week?

Do you think that once Jai finds out the truth, nothing would stop him from confessing his Love to Bani?

Do you think that the intensity of Bani's emotions for him will make Jai wallow in guilt and misery and that he would never be able to face her?

Given Bani's strong stance on her Marriage and her Husband, do you think she will give up Jai when she comes to know the truth, or leave him in anger or forgive him for the one mistake he has made?

What do you think is greater; Blind Trust in someone or Deep Love for someone?

Will be awaiting your answers...

Cheers,

MT

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Do you think Jai will find out the entire truth about all that Bani went through for him by this week? I hope so - he needs to find out the exent of her love. Its time he stopped acting on impulse and understand what she did for him and why.

Do you think that once Jai finds out the truth, nothing would stop him from confessing his Love to Bani? I don't think he will confess his love - he is still too guilty - that was emphasised even more in the Oct. 10 episode.
Do you think that the intensity of Bani's emotions for him will make Jai wallow in guilt and misery and that he would never be able to face her? Yes - from what he said today, he is expecting to be punished and in fact wants to be punished. He probably will feel he doesn't deserve her

Given Bani's strong stance on her Marriage and her Husband, do you think she will give up Jai when she comes to know the truth, or leave him in anger or forgive him for the one mistake he has made? Hopefully she will forgive him - she also has to understand how hurt he was by her actions (sorry I am watching his downfall here in Canada, and each time she inflicts pain on him, it shows on his face. She is breaking him inch by inch)

What do you think is greater; Blind Trust in someone or Deep Love for someone? Both go hand in hand. I don't think you can love without trust and you cant trust without love.

Edited by rajkona - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i dont think jai went to office to find out the truth about bani , he went to office because natwar had given hiim only 2 hours and he told he will take over the shares of walia industries. Maybe he went to check on that.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Do you think Jai will find out the entire truth about all that Bani went through for him by this week?

I don't think it is more of a possibility for him to find out the truth within the next two weeks. The first issue is going to be Jigyasa realizing who was behind the attacks, this in turn could bring up the issue of how Bani lost the baby

Do you think that once Jai finds out the truth, nothing would stop him from confessing his Love to Bani?

I think he will have this immense feeling of guilt. There is something aside from the ONS that is keeping him from letting his feelings out, and from what I can see it is his confusion and conflicting feelings. He feels so much trust for her, yet he is unsure of what exactly happened. His mind tells him one direction, yet his heart another.

Do you think that the intensity of Bani's emotions him will make Jai wallow in guilt and misery and that he would never be able to face her?

I think that he will try to make up for the time they lost. Yes he will definitely feel guilty, but I think that he will try to prove himself and his love to her. He doesn't want to lose her, and even in today's episode he stated himself that he has wronged her. I think he will take every chance to redeem himself in her eyes.

Given Bani's strong stance on her Marriage and her Husband, do you think she will give up Jai when she comes to know the truth, or leave him in anger or forgive him for the one mistake he has made?

I think she will work hard to save her marriage. I think she will realize his guilt, and at the same time he will realize his love for her. It will be a tragedy once again, but slowly she will forgive him for his mistake. It would be sad to see them break apart over an act that he himself regrets

What do you think is greater; Blind Trust in someone or Deep Love for someone?

I think blind trust and deep love go hand in hand. When you love someone so deeply, you tend to trust them with your whole life, especially if that love is returned right back to you. It is not necessarily a question of which one is greater. They are both powerful and valuable qualities in a relationship.

Edited by zbeanz8 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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[******* learn that Jai had no idea of the truth and he still doesn't! No wonder he looks so surprised and shaken after his conversation with Pushkar!

**** but mt...bani did tell jai the very same things that pushkar did...why didn't he believe her...

i think the reason jai went to office straight was 1. to see who was behind the shares etc. transfer and to consolidate in face of nachiket's threat...as bani has given a new spurt of confidence in jai walia , the businessman too...and also to find out what he can about the reason behind bani's behaviour reg divorce and abortion'.

****Do you think Jai will find out the entire truth about all that Bani went through for him by this week?

i think so...but he will feel more guilty reg pia and so he will prob try to either keep distance from bani or pamper her and shower her with love...i prefer the second ofcourse..

Do you think that once Jai finds out the truth, nothing would stop him from confessing his Love to Bani?***pia issue will...

other ques frankly i don't know...

What do you think is greater; Blind Trust in someone or Deep Love for someone?*** personally i am a romantic...for me both are the same...love is nothing without blind faith and faith is not there without love...

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Posted: 18 years ago
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MT
Hope you had a great Karva Shcudh!!

In answer to your questions

1. I think Jai wil find out a lot this week - the most important fact for him to know in my opinion is that Bani did not abort the baby but rather it was killed during the attempt on his life. If he doesn't find out the whole truth this week he will by next week. Additionally I think he went to the office because of the challenge Barnali and her son threw at him about him having two hours to save what he could of his empire.

2.I think once he finds out he will want to tell her what he feels but the guilt will overshadow and he won't be able to say it. I think that he will confess when she either learns the truth or if her life is in danger if she once again tries to save him when Barnali and son make another murder attempt.

3. Jai should not wallow in guilt and misery because he always had faith in her even when he was at his lowest-his fall from grace in commiting that mistake (even though I am P***D at the creatives for this JP angle stil) was due to him being a broken man due to Bani's loss since he thought the divorce was final and the thought that Bani aborted the child. I think once he finds the whole truth they both should console each other for the loss of a child both wanted badly and he should romance her and at least show her how he feels if he can't say the words because of guilt.

4. Bani of course will be devasted when she learns the truth but I am hoping by she will forgive him and understand that he would never have committed that heinous act if he was not a totally broken man to which her actions contributed. I think she will stand by her man and fight tooth and anil )unless the creatives butcher her new avatar!) I just hope we don't get a hundred wpisodes of rona dhona again - my eyes are still sore from the last bout!!!! The only reason that Bani would leaveJai may be if she finds out that she can't conceive and Pia becomes pregnanat (Boy, would EKTA see an uproar then - !!!) (I am hoping and praying ferverently that they don't show this Pia pregnancy thing which is par for the course in EKTA's shows and that Bani can conceive, Additionally, I hope they show a resurrection of JWs character by showing that nothing happened and its all Pia's hallucinations)!!!!

5. I think Faith and Trust and LVOE go hand in hand ....Without Faith and Trust there is not Love and vice versa....

Would ;love to here your answers to your own questions!!!!)
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hi MT, I am attempting to answer these questions, not sure if they make sense or no 😉 Nice Analysis :)

Do you think Jai will find out the entire truth about all that Bani went through for him by this week?

-If not this week, I hope he finds out by the end of this month atleast. It has been really long since Jai has been hidden from the truth.

Do you think that once Jai finds out the truth, nothing would stop him from confessing his Love to Bani?

-When he does find out the truth, he will regret more than anything he has ever regretted. The reason being that Jai will feel even more guilty than he is feeling currently. This guilt will indeed stop him from confessing his love to Bani.

Do you think that the intensity of Bani's emotions for him will make Jai wallow in guilt and misery and that he would never be able to face her?

-He would definitely feel very guilty, however I am not sure about him not facing her. This is because he is currently "facing" her, and he can totally see the intensity of Bani's emotions.

Given Bani's strong stance on her Marriage and her Husband, do you think she will give up Jai when she comes to know the truth, or leave him in anger or forgive him for the one mistake he has made?

-She will definitely not give up on Jai. I think she has given up enough on everything she has done/said uptill now. However, it is the time she stands up for her rights. But then Bani being a selfless woman, might just step back. Very unpredictable. Only Ms. Kapoor knows!

What do you think is greater; Blind Trust in someone or Deep Love for someone?

-This question is a very tricky one because if you love someone you most probably trust him blindly. However, if I had to pick one, I would most likely pick 'Blind Trust" because in order to have blind trust on someone, you ought to be loving him deeply.

I hope they make sense. Thanks again :)
Edited by idesofmarch - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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MT,

Q-Do you think Jai will find out the entire truth about all that Bani went through for him by this week?
A- The point is that it is not important. After what Pushkar has told him he will be fully aware as to the fact that Bani isn't capable of any wilful wrongdoing and that whatever happened was just to protect him or just an hadsaa. But yes, I do think he will find out.

Q-Do you think that once Jai finds out the truth, nothing would stop him from confessing his Love to Bani?
A- Actually he has already confessed his love to Bani. But yes, he will confess again.

Q-Do you think that the intensity of Bani's emotions for him will make Jai wallow in guilt and misery and that he would never be able to face her?
A- Personally, I dont think JW is the kind of man who wallow in guilt and misery and avoid looking someone in the eye. If yesterday's remark 'that I should be punished for what I have done' is any indication, he would confess to Bani and stoically accept any punishment that is meted out to him.

Q-Given Bani's strong stance on her Marriage and her Husband, do you think she will give up Jai when she comes to know the truth, or leave him in anger or forgive him for the one mistake he has made?
A- For the time being she will leave JW, but it will not be for ever. She will come back again and again in his life whenever he is in trouble. Just as Hurricane Jigs made her forgive PRgate, Hurricane Barnali will make him forgive Piagate. Ultimately without realising she will frogive him for her own happiness lies in that.

Q-What do you think is greater; Blind Trust in someone or Deep Love for someone?
A- In someways, both are two sides of the same coin. One can't have blind trust without deep love or the vice versa.

Rgds,

Priyanka

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hey!
I do think it is a little ridiculous that Jai STIL doesnot know the truth. I still adore this show despite its numerous bloopers. I mean y does KS team make the bloopers so obvious. After all this MR Walia does not know the truth.
If u all remember Bani does mention to him it was an accident, remember? I think before they r going to the party where Pia is drinking. So how can he still think its abortion?
Also y did he not ask Bani if he were so curious, she was dying to tell him. I mean Ekta really makes one go and hit the roof and pull ur hair out!

However, the truth will be revealed when Mr Walia will be solving Natwar's case.
btw how will he solve Natwar's case when he had no idea that Ranveer living in his own house actually had tricked him too? Howcome the world knows everything except our hero?
Mr. Walia please show ur intelligence this time and do some investigations.U only seems to be hugging, kissing and the forgetting that too 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
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So my question to you guys is;

First of all, Last Night's episode was a lovely episode!! I just loved the scene between Jai and Pushkar. Like others in IF, I too suspect that Ekta is reading our Posts. In last few days we have had loads of Posts commenting on the absurdity of the explanation given by Bani and Jai's the nonchalant attitude towards the explanation. But yesterday's episode has erased all the doubts.

As MT puts it, he has accepted Bani without question and his trust in her had actually not withered!! This is a good sign of strong relationship.

But I would differ in one place with MT. I am sure the reason he doesnt go home after landing in India is because Nachiket has given him 2 hrs to get hold of his empire!! I am sure Jai and Jigs have gone to do something about it. If Jai had left the airport to find the truth about Bani's behaviour, he wouldnt have taken Jigs along. Also, He can just ask her the truth now. Their relationship has come to the stage where they just need to ask the other person rather than dig out the truth!!!

But yes, The fact still remains that WHY IS BANI NOT TELLING HIM THE WHOLE TRUTH!! WHATS STOPPING HER. Anyways, Here are my answers!!


Do you think Jai will find out the entire truth about all that Bani went through for him by this week?

I think Jai will find out about the truth behind her abortion and would be in the verge of finding out about the truth about the divorce scam!! With just 3 days left for the weekend, he still has lot to do!!! But yes, I am sure by the end of next week, he would know the whole truth behind Banis' behaviour!!

Do you think that once Jai finds out the truth, nothing would stop him from confessing his Love to Bani?

I think Jai will still not confess his love for her. I mean not confess explicitly by saying ILU. (I have no clue what has been stopping him till now though). Now, It woudl be difficult for him to confess whole heartedly because he still has the guilt of his one night stand with Pia. That would not let him give 100% to his relationship with Bani!!

Do you think that the intensity of Bani's emotions for him will make Jai wallow in guilt and misery and that he would never be able to face her?

Thats a good question. As we all know Jai by now, this I guess should be an expected reaction from Jai but not to the extent that he cannot face her. He will definitely face her but everytime he sees his wife, he would only feel the pang of guilt and misery as to the sin he has commited. The guilt will not let him live happily till he confesses to her the truth!!

Given Bani's strong stance on her Marriage and her Husband, do you think she will give up Jai when she comes to know the truth, or leave him in anger or forgive him for the one mistake he has made?

I think Bani would be very hurt by the truth. The two people she is very close to, the two people whom she loves the most in the whole world (excluding Rano ofcourse), the two people whom she cares for the most and the two people whose happiness means everything to her, have betrayed her. Yes, She would feel betrayed, will not know how to react to this situation. Hurt would probably be more apt then anger!! She would leave Walia Mansion to get her thoughts clear and steamlined, and decide on the next course of action. And I guess the first thing she will decide is to abandon Jai and let pia live happily with him. She might think that Jai is still in love with Pia and Pia too reciprocates the same, and since she was never meant for Jai, It would be better for her to step back and let this relationship develop. But yes, she will never be able to forgive them till she sees the intense and emotional side of Jai that only calls for "Bani" and has been hidden from her till now.

What do you think is greater; Blind Trust in someone or Deep Love for someone?

The answer to this question is very relative to the kind of people in the picture. A blind trust could make your life or destroy you. Deep love for someone can also have the same affect. But In case of Jai and Bani it will only lead to salvation!! A zenith of all emotions and love!!!
I guess when you have Deep love for someone then the trust factor automatically comes in picture. Love cannot exist without TRUST!! But a relationship with Blind trust and no Love can definitely exist. This relationship gives rise to extreme respect for each other, ofcourse If the power of trust is not misused. This kinda relationship has been evident between JB. As a consequence, this gave rise to the love which holds no bounds and can be graded as that of highest order!!!!
I would vouch for Blind trust If not exploited!!!!


Will be awaiting your answers...

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