WU3rd jan13-1st night into 2nd night\dont tuch me

Edit: I have to disagree with you, Payal. I feel that it's only natural for her to think of Jagya... he's the only person she's ever slept with, after all, so at this juncture it is totally normal for her to draw parallels in her mind and to worry that what happened with Jagya might recur with Shiv. I imagine she feels gripped by fear, wanting to fulfil what she perceives as her marital duty, but being too scared and worried and generally uncomfortable to go ahead with it. I hope that once Shiv realises the extent of her fear, he will take things slower until she's ready. I don't think it's a prerequisite that a girl should be ready to jump into bed with her husband on their first or second night together... nor do I think she's being disrespectful to Shiv by remembering her past. Shiv entered into the relationship/marriage knowing that there could be issues and baggage... so her reticence shouldn't exactly surprise him. I think if she was ready to sleep with him, there'd've been an "I love you" from her side first? If I were Shiv, I wouldn't expect her to be fully ready to reciprocate his love at this juncture just because their marriage has been formalised... I'm surprised he does, actually! Anyway, I hope he susses out that there are issues and realises that his actions could have a huge impact on their relationship. He needs to take it slow, make her realise that it's OK if she needs space and time, and start off with little gestures that she can be comfortable with rather than full-on jhappi pappis...

Some times I agree with Sanchi.right now even my mood is as sour as Sanchi with respect to A.

Thank you for the update 😊

I was actually seething with rage after the epi. Have the CV's completely lost their mind? I want to kidnap them, tie them to a chair and make them watch their May-June episodes so that they can remember how they wrote Shiv. Because they seem to have completely forgotten. Actually, forget May-June, even last month they seemed to stress how much he understands Anandi and can practically read her mind. Then what the hell is this?? Why are they handling this so badly? I hate what the CV's do for the sake of drama. I don't know if they do it just to drag and for TRP's, or because they think audiences actually like this nonsense, but their idea of drama is disgusting. 😔 I just want them to bring back the show I fell in love with. Also, why do they think people are going to care for the Singhs and Jagdish tracks if AnSh is sidelined? No matter what they do with Jagdish and Ganga, Jagdish will never compare as a character to Shiv, and that automatically makes that couple less rootworthy in my eyes, since half of that couple has proved such a horrible person in the past. And if they are trying to ruin Shiv's character to move the focus on to Jagdish, epic fail. Because I, at least, will simply refuse to accept this as consistent with the character sketch they've shown before and stop watching the show. Stupid CV's give me too much tension. 😡

Could not agree more with you...

I just have a small question - why did it take at least 4 months (or more) for her to realize that "yeh mujhse nehi hoga"? How come during the four months the possibility of physical intimacy with Shiv never came to her mind...???? If it came, then why did not she discuss it with Shiv?

Anandi seems to be justifying Chhoti ma's fear, Jagiya's belief and Saanchi's remark about first night...I am looking forward for Shiv to royally ignore her and not to take him as granted.