EQUATIONS...

After watching the last few episodes, and witnessing the development of the track, something crossed my mind which I thought of sharing.

Now, I know I'm not so experienced in the ways of life & family, but whatever little I have observed over the years on my own experience, I feel, is that
Men just love their daughters & splash all the love & affection they have on them as lavishly as it can be. On the other hand, I have observed sons to be treasures their mothers revere.
Simultaneously, the relshp of Father-sons are more like Indo-China(or should I say China-India, in that order), while the girls share a weird link with their mothers. I say weird bcoz I don't have any knowledge on that front, except for some passive peek-ins.

First, I wish to ask is if this is actually the case or its just my misplaced view.

Second, I wish to put a hypothetical proposition in this regard.
Had, there been a little girl in Naksh's place, would her reaction been the same towards her father, and vice versa(her father's reaction towards her)?
This question because of the obvious fact that girls are by nature/instinct more sensitive & responsive towards such scenarios (that again, is my personal view)especially, if it pertains to their father. This is again attributable to the distinct nature of relationship, I think a father & his little girl share.

So what could have been a reaction of a girl aged 5 years in that situation.

Further, this question also popped-up in my head bcoz I can see the doomsday coming for the kid. Its not long before the angry father will step-in and do some fine tuning of his playback song which is running haywire in the past few days.
He's in for a big ride with the 'FATHER's RAGING TEMPER" syndrome vis-vis their sons.

So again the question, that if the girl would have reacted in such brash manner, what would've been N's reaction.
I can bet he would've shielded & pampered her like anything with no idea how Ak would've reacted to such behavior of the girl.

Know too many hypos too early there, but feel free to put up your respective opinions.😊

feelings of naksh taking duggu is something which i tried hard to understand per not able to.shayad not a parent na isliye ad abhi way to small for it.all i can say is duggu is no were at fault i mean it's genral feeling this feeling generally raise up among siblings but here it's btwn a father and son which is seriously worth watching.
I think equation would surely be different if it would be nakshi.being a girl myself i can tell if it would be nakshi thn she would be one who would first run to meet naitik (being a girl its purely my view)

Not indo-china, but 100% India- Pakistan relation😉😆.

I remember once one of my teaches had said the same...most girls are fond of their fathers n most boys are mama's boys, I guess it is true to a large extent. Fathers are the real life heroes of every little girl, who they look up to. Boys on the other hand, demand all the love n affection of their mothers.
But as time passes by and we girls grow , we grow more closer to our mothers, for obvious reasons. In case of boys, most of them I know r closer to their mothers including my own brother. Infact most of them find their mothers more accessible .

Have no idea how Naitik or Akshara would react given the same situation with a girl child.
Although girls are designed to be more compassionate n sensitive towards their environment, every child has a mind of his own. So can't really predict how a little girl would react either. But yes, any child irrespective of being a boy or girl, would be apprehensive of the encounter with the father after so long. Here, they have exaggerated the whole scenario a bit in my opinion. Creative liberty I guess!!

Anyway, it is the responsibility of the parents to inculcate the right behaviour in the child from an early stage of development. In Duggu's case, both parents were unable to do so. Now that things are being back to normal, both Naitik n Akshara, have to devote their time and attention to him n work on his behaviour. And I m sure he is going to be the most well behaved child, it is just a matter of time.

well china aims to become the next big thing like USA,,,they showing there supriority,,,but othere hands India are totally different like they are going stage by stage,,,so dere is no comparison between india and china

Love china Pak fronds hip. Haters gonna hate

A thought provoking post indeed!!! 👏 Even i feel the same..girls are more closer to their fathers whereas sons share that special bond with their moms..😊 As they say daughters are their father's pet... of course this differs in many cases..
Coming to 2nd point..i believe the equation would have been different if there had been a girl in duggu's place..even her reaction would have been different..at least she would have tried to understand naitik's condition.as girls are more caring,emotional n understanding than boys..😊
dont have any idea about naitik's reaction in that case..but surely he would have pampered her alot..😆

Originally posted by: --manu--

I remember once one of my teaches had said the same...most girls are fond of their fathers n most boys are mama's boys, I guess it is true to a large extent. Fathers are the real life heroes of every little girl, who they look up to. Boys on the other hand, demand all the love n affection of their mothers.
But as time passes by and we girls grow , we grow more closer to our mothers, for obvious reasons. In case of boys, most of them I know r closer to their mothers including my own brother. Infact most of them find their mothers more accessible .

Have no idea how Naitik or Akshara would react given the same situation with a girl child.
Although girls are designed to be more compassionate n sensitive towards their environment, every child has a mind of his own. So can't really predict how a little girl would react either. But yes, any child irrespective of being a boy or girl, would be apprehensive of the encounter with the father after so long. Here, they have exaggerated the whole scenario a bit in my opinion. Creative liberty I guess!!

Anyway, it is the responsibility of the parents to inculcate the right behaviour in the child from an early stage of development. In Duggu's case, both parents were unable to do so. Now that things are being back to normal, both Naitik n Akshara, have to devote their time and attention to him n work on his behaviour. And I m sure he is going to be the most well behaved child, it is just a matter of time.

Unbelievably Balanced, all embracing view..
But being so balanced, there's not much left there to extend about.
I would have liked to know your view as to how N & A would've reacted.

Secondly, again, it is a very subjective issue & depends from individuals, (especially more so in case of children as they are even more unpredictable) but I would've liked to see a more composed reaction from the child(boy or girl) considering they have been atleast watching their father lie in their home for four years, so he's not really a stranger soul.

Lastly, second you absolutely on that view, that good persons in their own life are bound to make perfect parents. Circumstances made matters adverse, but as you said, now all the pending issues will be sorted out surely & strongly.

Keeping my fingers crossed for the unfurling of the NEW RISHTA!!!

Originally posted by: Double_m

Unbelievably Balanced, all embracing view..
But being so balanced, there's not much left there to extend about.
I would have liked to know your view as to how N & A would've reacted.

Secondly, again, it is a very subjective issue & depends from individuals, (especially more so in case of children as they are even more unpredictable) but I would've liked to see a more composed reaction from the child(boy or girl) considering they have been atleast watching their father lie in their home for four years, so he's not really a stranger soul.

Lastly, second you absolutely on that view, that good persons in their own life are bound to make perfect parents. Circumstances made matters adverse, but as you said, now all the pending issues will be sorted out surely & strongly.

Keeping my fingers crossed for the unfurling of the NEW RISHTA!!!

Thank u. Credit goes to u for coming up with quite a thought provoking post.

Originally posted by: komal_naksh

A thought provoking post indeed!!! 👏 Even i feel the same..girls are more closer to their fathers whereas sons share that special bond with their moms..😊 As they say daughters are their father's pet... of course this differs in many cases..
Coming to 2nd point..i believe the equation would have been different if there had been a girl in duggu's place..even her reaction would have been different..at least she would have tried to understand naitik's condition.as girls are more caring,emotional n understanding than boys..😊
dont have any idea about naitik's reaction in that case..but surely he would have pampered her alot..😆

Thank You. Appreciate that you liked it.😳
Coming to the issue, even I am inclined to believe a more calibrated & sensitive response would have come from a daughter.

But whether same would've been the case, provided even the daughter would've been a spoilt brat after the weakening affection she would've got from her grandmother?
Would the reaction be same even in that situation?

Agree, that in any case N must've pampered her even more than his son, even in worst case scenario of her being a complete spoilt princess.