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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Anjy it is not only who felt less than satisified with the wedding and post wedding rituals.It was long drawn out and stretched like rubberband.I don't know why I did not find it meaningful.

Even the wedding ceremony they were just following the rituals and only in the end we had Anandi introspecting and saying to herself that she did not fail as a wife.

But the much needed realisation that what happened all those years ago has just been a child play and not a real marriage has not been shown happening.

Other day somebody posted a link of the episode where J A doing all these post wedding rituals .

The contrast was so striking.The difference between two adults doing these rituals and two tired and cranky little kids doing did not understand why they are doing it.

All those scenes could have been used as FBs to reinforce the difference between child marriage and marriage between two consenting adults

Any way they dragged the scenes at least they could have made it more meaningful with FBs and some interactions between A and S showing them bonding through these rituals.

The entire thing looked like a video of wedding rituals devoid of emotions.

The makers failed to coney that bal vivah is different from marriage between two adults IMO.

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AnjanaYYZ

@AnjanaYYZ

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: aparnauma
Anjy it is not only who felt less than satisified with the wedding and post wedding rituals.It was long drawn out and stretched like rubberband.I don't know why I did not find it meaningful.

Even the wedding ceremony they were just following the rituals and only in the end we had Anandi introspecting and saying to herself that she did not fail as a wife.

But the much needed realisation that what happened all those years ago has just been a child play and not a real marriage has not been shown happening.

Other day somebody posted a link of the episode where J A doing all these post wedding rituals .
The contrast was so striking.The difference between two adults doing these rituals and two tired and cranky little kids doing did not understand why they are doing it.
All those scenes could have been used as FBs to reinforce the difference between child marriage and marriage between two consenting adults

Any way they dragged the scenes at least they could have made it more meaningful with FBs and some interactions between A and S showing them bonding through these rituals.

The entire thing looked like a video of wedding rituals devoid of emotions.
The makers failed to coney that bal vivah is different from marriage between two adults IMO.

Agree with you. The emotional connect was completely MIA during past week.

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umam

@umam

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian
yeah I get what you mean Anjana and Malika

you are both right..

ther were sooo many scenes that they could have used to make it more meaningful

Not sure why they didn't though.

hmmm

I liked hte sindoor scene though.. I knew they would use that and I am glad they did.

rest i am not quite sure.

Perhaps they wanted to show a PURE AnSH only marriage ?
with no past ?

@ sounds plausible..

During the rasams, if they had to show FBs of bal vivaah rasams, they would have had to show it only from A's perspective and there were no Singhs there..

Now, if A was shown getting the FBs, all hell would have broken loose Plus, during the pheras, they had made A realize the difference in two weddings. So, they didn't want A to think of her past again when she has already dumped them and has moved on..

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stuti..

@stuti..

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

#24

Slightly different disappointment here, though leading to a similar kind of miss. Much as I want to see Anandi well caught in a new romantic set up, her true conjugal bliss, a nag is bothering somehow. Actor Siddh leaves something to be desired in emotive throw. Either plain or over exerting. A strained performance so far...Such a good look, but he fails to deliver, a personal reflection. Perhaps director is not exploiting him properly. Or perhaps, as you are mentioning, script is lacking in actual content- (which too might lead to a handicap), either way, it is not clicking enough at the moment somehow. I know, he is well received ( just saw a forum topic, he is in top 10), and I too want to enjoy him well in this role. Looking forward to an eventual lift.

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

#25

anji, you made good points.
yes wedding as function was perfect but we as viewer were desiring for something more.
contrast between child marrige and adult one was not shown properly,instead CVs tortured us by giving jagya ,his fbs and pain.
as for heart to heart talk between ansh they missed the opportunity during car drive back to udaipur.S assured A about his support which was repetitive he could well use their time alone just after marrige for some thing more sweet and intense.moreover he could tell her about her new house and relatives and their expectations from her. Ajee sleeping over Sjee's shoulder was romantic but i would have preferred if both ansh were napping taking each other support .i would have been symbolic of their new relationship based on mutual support.
during sindoor scene A's fb of sumi was justified but she could have fb of S applying sindoor in her maang too and if she has started missing him then at that time CS phone call inquiring about her welfare would has been perfect .
but i hope now CVs will compensate us by giving some meaningful anshllicious moments perfectly woven in the story. they sometimes surprise us😛.

Edited by anshurg5 - 13 years ago

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libsrocks

@libsrocks

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#26

i get that bv wanted to show us how evevry rasam of marriage went well becoz it was being done by adults newly weds...msg mil gaya...samjh aa gaya...ab khatam karo kahani...now i seriously want them to show anandi-shiv cute n romantic scenes...and some fun n masti in her new in-laws house...baar baar singh family ka rona dikhane ki zaroorat nahi...hamme ek baar mein samjha aata hai ki unhe anandi ki yaad aa rahi hai...now give them a break...aur mujhe lagta hai ki sriti ki entry ko abhi time hai...its too soon

u know after seeing how everyone is just pointing finger at Anandi for being a divorcee...i don't want Jagya to get a new girl...becoz since even Sriti will a have a tragic past toh Jagya ko toh koi nahi bolega ki vo ek divorcee or iski shaadi Sriti se nahi honi chaiye...saare izzam Anandi hi kyu saahe?...i know that it happens in real life too...always a lady divorcee gets blamed even when she is at no fault...nonsense brainless society...wo auraate toh aise behave kar rahi thi ki shekhar family ne unhe anandi ko ashirwaad dene ke liye nahi balki anandi ko unke ghar lejaane ko boldiya ho...why can't they just mind their own business...usse ke parivaar ka kaunsa khaana paani kam horaha hai anandi ke divorcee hone se!!!! 😡 😡 😡

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chumki

@chumki...

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#27

"ROMANCE"...in BALIKA VADHU..."dundhte hi reh jaoge"... hur roz BV ek nayee umeed leke dekhne ko baith ti hoon... hur roz naumeed hoti hoon... sab samajh me aata hai... child marriage... her love insulted by jagia... her fight...

lekin kya yeh baat anandi ko samajh aati hai...ki she has fallen in love with shiv... sayed nahi... shadi me...rasmo aur rewazo ki lambiii si list... sanchi ka ajeeb sa behavior... lekin where is ansh...? aur agar kuch waqt kali mil bhi jaee us me bhi singh's ka rona-dhona... i know ki "singh's also important part of her life and they will be... lekin pichle 4 saal se hum unhe hi dekh rahe hai sun rahe hai...kya cv's kuch dino ke liye."ansh" ko jyada nahi dikha sakte?

TRP...ki baat to samajh aa gayee...aur TRP bhi aa gayee...ab plz kuch to ANSH ke romance per nazar dale CV?...aage ke trp ke liye jagia ke liye larki dhudhne se jyada important hai... ansh...unke beech dhire dhire panapta romance...unki marraid life... plz for god's sake...cv's do something

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Vandna_

@Vandna_

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#28

Lovely Post and great points :) :)

here is my take :

I think they are planning to show (depth in) romance between AnSh by making Anandi discover it ... through her point of view (as its about her journey from being balika vadhu to being an adult vadhu)... but that will take time ... it will develop slowly . Ab kitna slowly & kaise... only CVs jaane ...

No matter how much they show love from one side ...until its reciprocated ( /or rejected )... something will always be missing (i.e. direction of progression for a relation ).. and its not enjoyable too... 🤔 .. as of now romance appears boring as it is not clear in which direction it is moving .. (i hope i m making sense-full sentence ... am bad with words ..)

On other hand ... its only about approx 24 - 30 hrs they have been married .!!

Lets see how and when they get some alone time with each other and for each other only.

Edited by vandna12 - 13 years ago