Am I failed on understanding my fav char?

I know he is hurt. Extremely hurt which is the reason why he did not even speak to his wife(Priya).. His hurt is blowing out as an anger and pouring on his wife.. But is his hurt more important than his daughter? Why is he not attempting to bring mother of his child along wid child? I know his wife has no intention of coming back but he must have definately known what is life without any one parent.. Coz he has spend his life without his mother when he needed her most. He has experienced bitter life being without mother. In that case he should have known value of both parent being all around child then why why he's so adamant to keep his daugiter wid only one parent? Isn't he the one who should have taken the initiative for providing his child love of both parents? I was so sure will initiate this move. I was sure that he will try his best to bring her along his daughter, he will make sure that his daughter will not face same life which he did. No matter whatever her wife think, i was sure he will bring her forcefully to his life so that his daughter will get love of both mum n dad. But I m really disappointed wid his action now. Disappointed that he didn't make effort to provide his daughter love of both parent.. Plz convince me that i m not wrong on understanding him.. Thank u..

one thing is true he experienced very bitter childhood

I cant answer this question as am disappointed.

Well Said! They are trying hard to show how immature Ram is, they are making him a real villain who do not understand mother's love , how is it possible ??when in reality he knows exactly how hard it is to live without a mother, where all his life he lived without mother;s love, This is really ridiculous, I do not know what writers are trying to prove.

One of the charming thing about Season 1 was their chemistry, their rapport.In spite of being short tempered, grouchy, he was till caring and loving human being, who grew to love his wife. and also for Priya, her character was feisty, modern educated gal with no nonsense attitude, someone who would not hesitate to fight for her rights. She had her own mind, she was never scared to reveal her true feelings..I fail to understand this Priya, weeping emotional self sacrificing martyr.I want my old Priya back. I fail to understand this story these are not the characters we loved. writers have messed up big time..
The most irritating thing I find is Ram's marriage to Ayesha, being married to two women, sometime Priya is his Ex-wife sometimes she is his biwi, what nonsense is that? We are living in real world, and being such a famous guy, how can he be with two wives, and no one is taking about it? seriously?this whole two wives angle is really disturbing for me, specially for a person like Ram. I really hate that..

I am really disappointed with the whole plot, they are just butchering Ram and Priya's characters, the entire creative team should be fired, there is a limit to everything, just to make money they are dragging the story showing all the nonsense..👎🏼 😡

Originally posted by: fanraya

Well Said! They are trying hard to show how immature Ram is, they are making him a real villain who do not understand mother's love , how is it possible ??when in reality he knows exactly how hard it is to live without a mother, where all his life he lived without mother;s love, This is really ridiculous, I do not know what writers are trying to prove.

One of the charming thing about Season 1 was their chemistry, their rapport.In spite of being short tempered, grouchy, he was till caring and loving human being, who grew to love his wife. and also for Priya, her character was feisty, modern educated gal with no nonsense attitude, someone who would not hesitate to fight for her rights. She had her own mind, she was never scared to reveal her true feelings..I fail to understand this Priya, weeping emotional self sacrificing martyr.I want my old Priya back. I fail to understand this story these are not the characters we loved. writers have messed up big time..
The most irritating thing I find is Ram's marriage to Ayesha, being married to two women, sometime Priya is his Ex-wife sometimes she is his biwi, what nonsense is that? We are living in real world, and being such a famous guy, how can he be with two wives, and no one is taking about it? seriously?this whole two wives angle is really disturbing for me, specially for a person like Ram. I really hate that..

I am really disappointed with the whole plot, they are just butchering Ram and Priya's characters, the entire creative team should be fired, there is a limit to everything, just to make money they are dragging the story showing all the nonsense..👎🏼 😡

Originally posted by: ramsakshiroxxx

n wat irks me more is raya has lots lots of issues deal with n dey lost der precious 5 yrs of being together instead of shwng der pain n problems cv's are concentrating on rajat's few months love whivh doesnt hav future

i am not asking dem to stop shwn his feelings but not at the cost of raya

either dey will make ram villain priya mahaan but dey neva give both the leads standing strong n speak like in season 1 both wer strong n used to care fr each other

nw they do love each other but cant speak der heart out a heart to heart talk is needed asap to clear der MU's n den dey can solve other issues

but cv's are just dragging i am waiting fr trp's to return hope dey are in our favour

Exactly that's what all of us were looking for, right? a good mature conversation, Ekta could make this drama so different other than her usual stupid stories, so many issues they could deal with, how they solve their problems together, we all know Priya made a mistake... keeping her daughter away from father's love, how she solves it along with Ram, a real heart to heart talk,how she tries hard to get her man back. how she tries hard to solve the whole Ram Ayesha deal, how they both deal with Pihu who suddenly gets to know about her dad, her questions, her life. there were so many family issues they could show, but no.. for that you need a real mature thinking and how can we expect that from Ekta ???all they care is TRPS and faltu negativity.
Ram and Priya are the soul of the story but they forgot that in season 2 and somehow the magic is lost. I was pleasantly surprised when the show started, really a beautiful story but they just messed it up.now this is becoming one of Ekta's other Stupid dramas.. Sadly👎🏼

Dear D4BALH{ Sorry i don't know ur name] don't u worry that u hav not understood Ram , its just that the cvs r buying time.In the proccess of making Priya mahaan they hav destroyed the character of Ram but it will not b 4 long ,soon they'll rectify it otherwise trps will not come. The success of Balh lies in the fact that both the leads hav equal imp in the viewers eye unlike in most other soaps.I am really pissed of when rajat is given so much importance when raya could hav resolved their issues with the help of so many of the characters from season 1. So lets hope every thing is sorted out next week.😃

Originally posted by: fanraya

Exactly that's what all of us were looking for, right? a good mature conversation, Ekta could make this drama so different other than her usual stupid stories, so many issues they could deal with, how they solve their problems together, we all know Priya made a mistake... keeping her daughter away from father's love, how she solves it along with Ram, a real heart to heart talk,how she tries hard to get her man back. how she tries hard to solve the whole Ram Ayesha deal, how they both deal with Pihu who suddenly gets to know about her dad, her questions, her life. there were so many family issues they could show, but no.. for that you need a real mature thinking and how can we expect that from Ekta ???all they care is TRPS and faltu negativity.
Ram and Priya are the soul of the story but they forgot that in season 2 and somehow the magic is lost. I was pleasantly surprised when the show started, really a beautiful story but they just messed it up.now this is becoming one of Ekta's other Stupid dramas.. Sadly👎🏼

Can't agree with you more on this..!! You have said everything. Season 1 Priya & Ram were adorable even with their flaws. CV's have butchered Priya and Ram's character beyond repair and it's all about Rajat and his Love-cum-Friendship story in Season 2. It's frustrating to see the matured couple joke and have nokjhoks but never want to talk about their MUs. All we see is 2 mins of RaYa and endless scenes of Rajat & Ayesha/Mama. Even if CVs don't want RaYa to meet, it's okay..but why throw Rajat at us..!! I know this guy has a huge fan following...but CVs should remember this show is not abt Rajat...It's only abt Ram & Priya. Ram's pain could've been portrayed so better..but all the CVs could come up with was make him a RB...yelling and fighting with people...and a laughstock. This is not the Ram Kapoor we knew from Season 1. Priya picking up with Ram and not wanting to talk...keeping sister above his own daughter and husband is something very unrealistic to the season 1 Priya Ram Kapoor we know of. I wish the CVs had watched the season 1 before making these tracks..and giving extra footage to Rajat and his Tanhaiyee.

Originally posted by: cooldreams

Can't agree with you more on this..!! You have said everything. Season 1 Priya & Ram were adorable even with their flaws. CV's have butchered Priya and Ram's character beyond repair and it's all about Rajat and his Love-cum-Friendship story in Season 2. It's frustrating to see the matured couple joke and have nokjhoks but never want to talk about their MUs. All we see is 2 mins of RaYa and endless scenes of Rajat & Ayesha/Mama. Even if CVs don't want RaYa to meet, it's okay..but why throw Rajat at us..!! I know this guy has a huge fan following...but CVs should remember this show is not abt Rajat...It's only abt Ram & Priya. Ram's pain could've been portrayed so better..but all the CVs could come up with was make him a RB...yelling and fighting with people...and a laughstock. This is not the Ram Kapoor we knew from Season 1. Priya picking up with Ram and not wanting to talk...keeping sister above his own daughter and husband is something very unrealistic to the season 1 Priya Ram Kapoor we know of. I wish the CVs had watched the season 1 before making these tracks..and giving extra footage to Rajat and his Tanhaiyee.

" in bold" exactly my POV, he was so much hurt, they should've focused on that his anger is justified but with these sudden changes , it feels like he is ruthless and he does not care for Priya or Pihu.. Forget about Ram and Priya MU they did not even clear Ram and his mother's (KK) equation, I had so much hopes that we will get an heartfelt conversation between Ram and KK but suddenly we see she is living with Ram and has a very insignificant role in his life, there was so much potential they could clear her side and also his side why he behaved with her the way he did..they miss that one too. Who the ***** cares about Rajat, he was a side character and now he is becoming hero of the drama, I really hate that, the whole story is about Ram and Priya and not about Rajat's so called "LOVE" I have nothing against the actor, but its not about him, they are focusing on his story which is what I dislike.. 😕😡

no one can say we have understood a person fully there is some side which is always uncovered according to me (not being bias) because ram had a vulnerable childhood his memories are of that kind also he thinks a kid can live without mother(like he managed) but father needs to be there also we cannot forget that in case of the relations he is a puzzelled guy from starting he is more practical and needs someone who can explain him emotional side now firts vikram neha was there and he listened to them because they were a perfect family now neha and vikram themselves are finidng bonding solutions with kids so option one crossed out