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Posted: 12 years ago
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Dont get me wrong guys but Duggu is very rude little boy.

He talks back, he was very rude to his nani, and he lies a lot. This is not a good up bringing at all.

I understand Akshara was working to help the family, but when is she going to stand up and correct her sons behavior.

If he was my child and he spoke to everyone the way he does I would be so upset and he would have gotten a very big punishment from me.

No matter what she is a mother and her job is to protect and guide her son even if that means she has to tell her mother in law to stay with in her limits. Ananya is so sweet and funny little girl, the way she talks and plays it shows her up bringing in that family.

Varsha is also a mother and she too lives with her family and yet her daughter is brought up well, I understand that Naitik is not there but there are a lot of single mothers there that teach there children right from wrong. He knows that it is wrong to lie and he knows its wrong to hit and back talk but he does it because no one stops him.

I also understand that gy3 is a witch and she is raising him very spoiled but at the end of the day it comes down to Akshara raising her son and teaching him the write way to behave.

I think the way he spoke to his mothers family was very hurtful and wrong and she should have correct him then.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with this post Pretty, nice post👏. I agree Akshara is handling a lot of responsibilities and she is doing great, but Akshara needs to realize that u cannot make everyone happy. In keeping gayatri happy, she is letting the grand-mom pamper her child to such an extend that the child is completely spoilt brat now.

Akshara here needs to stand up and explain to gayatri that her love is in one place and her right to bring up her child, and teach him what is right and at times to punish him is her right. This might hurt gy3, might even create difference between them but then at the end it is Duggu whose lift needs to be shaped in the right direction.

Akshara has compromised a lot, but this is one thing where she needs to stand up and make her stand clear with everyone.As they say the more you bend, the more people will make you bend.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Completely agree with you. Akshara i know has a lot of things in her hand but as a mother she should teach duggu right from wrong and tell gayatri that its ok to love your grandson but covering for his wrong doings is not right. Varsha also is teaching at school but she has bought up anayana properly. Gayarti has spoiled Duggu too much to the extent that she is allowing him to do wrong things which is not right.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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A very well written post Pretty 👏

And just wanted to add that when kids grow up and act spoiled, all the blame comes onto the mother. So then everyone wud say Naksh is such a bad boy, Akshara did'nt prove to be a good mom.

So Akshara shud realise this and secondly when bau ji is looking after the business, why is she suppose to go to office everyday ?? She can go sometimes and do the rest of work at home and spend more time with her son.
The family cud have asked for help from Mohit instead of dragging Akshi into office. In these difficult times, one shud not think that MOhit is jamai saan and all...

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